Dating While Black

Have you wonder whether if you are just a sneaky link?

A person truly mature and willing to partake in a healthy relationship will make the effort to ensure that you are clear in their intentions, comfortable in sharing your feelings and will exercise transparent communications.

Pay attention to the subtle signs of disrespect before they get out of control.

I don’t know anything that can drive a person away quicker than being needy and showing signs of insecurity.

One person should not be responsible for doing all of the heavy lifting when it comes to a relationship. Check out the six things they can help you identify whether or not the relationship or courtship is one sided. msnbc/psychologytoday

Finding out that your partner has been unfaithful can be extremely devastating. In this episode they will discuss three things you need to consider regardless if you stay or leave.

Don’t waste time with people who give you the bare minimum. You deserve consistent communication with substance.

Stop running back to toxic relationships. It may be easy to look in the past, But it’s beneficial to move towards the future.

Some people want to be known as a good person. But they are not as genuinely good as they want you to believe. They are often people pleasers and struggling with being authentic In dating. Because we are smitten with the idea of finding a good catch, we overlook their subtle inconsistencies.

Time reveals a persons true nature.

The best way to avoid wasting time, is to make decisions to walk away early in the courtship.

See the correlation between my grandfathers practices as a landlord and detrimental dating practices.

We are solely responsible for who we allow to be in our lives. No more excuses it may be time to clean house.

Stop wasting your time hoping, waiting, and wishing for someone to give you the same type of attention consideration or respect.

When people tell you who they are believe them. In dating we receive subtle and direct clues to let us know who we are dealing with. If you are dating and find yourself in a dating dilemma, wondering why things aren’t adding up ..You need to check out this episode.

Twenty cool things to do on a date!

Some common get to know you questions you should ask in order to determine if you are interested in moving forward. This is not a full comprehensive list but can get you started.

Explore 3 reasons why a person may decide that their first date with you is their last date.

Passive aggressive behavior has no place in relationships. It’s the death of open and honest communication

It’s ok to be your own advocate. Looking out for self is self care. Often we feel compelled to please others, but at what expense?

People are now starting to get back out into the world and are open to dating and getting to meet people the old fashion way. Even before covid, I would hear, men don’t approach me or men say women don’t seem interested. So here are some little nuggets you can take with you and try them out. 

Relationships can be exciting and fun. Your partner can be the missing part of your life. However it is crucial not to neglect certain aspects of your life.  Make sure that you are not abandoning these five areas of your life. 

Are you a potentially running people away with relationship expectations during the dating phase? Dating should be fun and light!

5 Do's and Dont's of Supporting a friend through their breakup

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