Dating Kinda Sucks

Millennials get blamed for everything - terrible restaurants going out of business, bad business concepts failing, and now a sex recession. Sarah and Adam look at the ridiculous notion that we are having less sex now than ever before and try to get to the bottom of it. Is it true? Or could it just be that we're choosing quality over quantity and healthier, open consensual sex over what sex used to...

From kittenfishing to mosting, zombieing to fauxbaeing, the terminology of modern dating is constantly evolving, and it's not always for the better. What terms should you know? Which ones are so stupid they shouldn't exist? Sarah and Adam dive into the 2019 dating dictionary and share the best and worst of the bunch. Also in this episode, Adam goes out on a date with a lesbian, your hosts invent s...

Do you know the difference between a dealbreaker and a red flag? Are your dealbreakers legitimate or should you reconsider what makes an otherwise good match unpalatable to you? Sarah and Adam revisit this topic from their very first episode and give some insight into which dealbreakers make sense and which don't when dating. Also in this episode, listen to an excerpt from a Patreon exclusive as A...

Pick-up artists aren't artists of any kind. They're pathetic garbage humans who rely on bullshit ideologies and slavishly follow in the tiny shallow footsteps of losers who give themselves nicknames like "Mystery" and "Juggle" while spouting out theories on getting laid that all boil down to massive failures on a monumental level. But how do Sarah and Adam really feel about it? Listen as your Dati...

It's easy to set yourself down a self-fulfilled, self-propelled black hole of dating suckage, and many times that first step begins with terrible clickbait articles that have no substance, no benefit, and no reason to exist. Sarah and Adam enjoy a bit of a rantfest this episode, talking about all of the bad advice and input that's out there in the guise of "help with dating", from astrology as a s...

When is it okay to send a nude? What's the protocol for deploying a digital D? How do you make sure your erotic envoy is welcomed and appreciated appropriately? Where should you stage your sexy and sensual snapthot? Sarah and Adam take you all the who, what, where, when, why, and how when it comes to sharing and celebrating images of our bobs, vagenes, and peens. Don't send another nude without li...

Sometimes, the worst part of breaking up is the recovery period. How do you grieve for what's lost while moving on with your life? Is it possible to retain some dignity and heal in a healthy way? What are some must-dos and definitely don'ts when it comes to recovering from a breakup? Sarah and Adam will tell you, as well as talking about their own dating lives. Plus, Adam and Sarah perform a drama...

The prospect of sex with someone new can be nerve-wracking, exhilarating, exciting, terrifying, and a source of anxiety all at the same time, but Sarah and Adam are here to help! When it's time to introduce a new partner to the pleasures and depravities of your bedroom, you'll want to keep in mind the Dating Kinda Sucks tips, tricks, and pointers for making it the best experience possible. Also in...

When dating, we all want the same thing: a first date that will lead to a second date, and then more dates, and then a healthy relationship. The reality is that most first dates aren't going to get that far, and knowing when your first date with someone should also be your last date with them can save you time, effort, and emotional energy. Sarah and Adam get into the reasons to consider a second...

Does someone in their forties have a harder time dating than someone in their twenties? Are there new challenges that arise (as well as other things that don't rise to the occasion) the older we get? How much does age play into one's success in dating, and is it more about the year we were born or just our emotional maturity? Sarah and Adam bridge the generational gap with a surprisingly difficult...

From surprise period sex to erectile dysfunction, queefs to high kicks to the forehead, the bedroom is a place filled with fun, excitement, and way too many embarrassing stories. Are you the type to be mortified or get defensive? Or can you shrug, laugh it off, and move on? Adam and his guest host Lisa tell some stories, share some tips, and hopefully demonstrate that when it comes to cringe-worth...

Much like Bigfoot, the myths surrounding relationships are murky and mysterious. Sarah and Adam break down the expectations you might have from a relationship and examine the harsh (or not so harsh) reality. Also in this episode of Dating Kinda Sucks, Adam talks about dating someone who's trans, Sarah talks about birth control, and someone gets a little tipsy! Listen and enjoy. Dating Kinda Sucks...

This week on Dating Kinda Sucks, Sarah and Adam ferret out whether it's felicitous or foul when feelings find footing firmly in a fresh foundation. How do you know if you have feelings? How do you tell if they're real or just based on infatuation? What's your next step - do you deal with said feelings or walk away? Listen and find out what to do! Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious...

Do you want to die alone? Or do you want to create a dating profile that draws in people who find you to be the unique and special partner that you are? On this week's episode of Dating Kinda Sucks, Sarah and Adam dive into all of the things NOT to do when writing your dating profile. There are so many ways to make your Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, or other dating profile interesting, engaging, and wort...

On this week's episode of Dating Kinda Sucks, Sarah and Adam talk about masturbation. Whether you're choking the bishop, flicking the bean, spanking your monkey, or slow dancing with BOB, masturbation in a relationship is a hot-button topic. Is it healthy to flog the neighbor when you're committed to someone? Is taking one for the team going to affect your sex life, your intimacy, or your relation...

The ways we handle rejection provide an excellent insight into our strength of character, integrity, and potential for success in society. We've all been rejected, but if you're the type to lash out, be insulting or abusive, or throw a temper tantrum, it's time to grow up. Your Dating Kinda Sucks hosts Sarah and Adam take this episode to talk about better and healthier ways to deal with rejection...

This episode, your Dating Kinda Sucks hosts talk about the fear of missing out and how it applies to the world of dating. Do you spend your downtime cyberstalking your ex and bemoaning their latest adventures with the newest person to catch their eye? Are you looking back with regret instead of forward with eager anticipation? Adam and Sarah talk about why you need to let your exes go, stop giving...

Telling someone that you're not interested can feel awkward, challenging, and frustrating, but isn't the alternative even worse? Sarah and Adam will give you some tips on the best ways to end a date, say no to someone who asks you out, and end a burgeoning relationship before it becomes an albatross around your neck. Also, the hosts tackle listener questions, long distance relationships, and start...

This episode, Sarah and Adam talk about dating app shame. Too many people shame others for using dating apps, which is a dick move, and too many others think they should be embarrassed for choosing to use dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OKCupid, Match, POF (okay, well, POF makes sense) and others. That's like being embarrassed for using a bike to get to work while someone else uses a train...

After you make that first virtual impression through a dating app (or maybe you're getting set up by friends), the first impression you make on your first date is so important. Sarah and Adam talk about all of the ways to screw that up, and how to avoid them! Plus, your hosts answer a listener question, talk about their own dating lives, or lack thereof, and Adam rants about people sitting on the...

Sarah and Adam don't usually get political here on Dating Kinda Sucks, and this is no exception. The issue of bodily autonomy for women shouldn't be a political issue. It's a human rights issue. It's an equality issue. It's a power issue. And it's an issue that your hosts will dive into, as it's essential for every person who supports human rights and equality to be loud, be vocal, and speak their...

With Sarah gallivanting around France, Adam hijacks the entire hour to talk about some of the stupid shit men do when it comes to dating, answer some listener questions, and offer maybe a little bit of hope for women looking for decent men out there. Also, Adam genuinely appreciates Sarah's audio editing skills as he edited this episode himself poorly and thinks it sounds awful. Sarah's back next...

Whether you're getting sick of dick pics, your swiping finger's getting callouses, or you're just drained from night after night of lackluster dates with no potential, you might be experiencing dating fatigue. It happens to us all, and Adam and Sarah discuss some of the signs as well as the best ways to get rid of the dating doldrums. Sometimes a break is a good thing, and we'll tell you why! As a...

Does porn negatively affect relationships? From making it in bed to watching it alone, porn has some type of impact on millions of relationships every year. But does it enhance a healthy relationship or detract from one? Sarah and Adam whip it all out for this episode talking about the red flags to watch out for, the times you might be overreacting, and when it's healthy and normal to inject a lit...

Is marriage truly an ultimate goal of yours? Why or why not? Sarah and Adam talk about the "I Dos" and "I Don'ts" of marriage - is it necessary? Does there have to be a step after a serious committed relationship? What are the pros and cons? Why does dating have to lead to marriage - can't it just lead to two happy people living together until one of them kicks the bucket? Are you an idiot if you...