Dating Kinda Sucks

Are you in a relationship with a few ups and downs or are you trapped in a toxic relationship that's only going to drag you down with it? In this episode of Dating Kinda Sucks, Sarah and Adam go through some of the clear signs that your relationship may be toxic, and you should escape as quickly as possible. Also in this episode - the DKS hotline is active! Call (407) 519-0181‬ today and leave you...

The rights of American people with uteruses are at risk of being completely lost thanks to disingenuous groups of insidious people who purport to care about human life but demonstrate the opposite with every fetid breath. This week, Sarah and Adam express their support for every woman, trans man, and non-binary person to choose what's right for their bodies by revisiting an episode they recorded i...

So many dating coaches, pick-up artists, and article writers come up with dating rules that are at the very best, outdated, and at their worst, reductive nonsense that don't serve to benefit anyone. This week, Sarah and Adam go through some of the worst offenders and explain why setting rules for dating will rarely enhance your romantic prospects. Also this week, Adam's "visit every state" challen...

In this week’s Conversation About, Sarah and Adam talk to Kelsey Jay, an Executive Assistant in Los Angeles. She is a sober, tattooed human, mild Disney adult and lover of cowboy boots with all outfits, and you can find her on TikTok at http://www.tiktok.com/ @mydadisheretopickmeup and Instagram at http://www.instagram.com/mydadisheretopickmeup ! One of Kelsey's latest positions was that of the ex...

In a world of dating apps, socially structured meetups, online communities, and more, it's amazing that many men still feel entitled to interrupt women in public. This week, Adam and Sarah talk about how important it is to leave women alone, why men should stop feeling entitled to a woman's time and space, and how toxic it is to get defensive and demand that being in public means you can do whatev...

In this week’s Conversation About, Sarah and Adam talk to the delightful Dr. Aditi Paul, a New York-based professor and mixed-methods researcher.  She uses her background in technology and relationship science to examine the impact of social media and dating apps on personal relationships. Aditi’s research has been published in top academic journals and has been featured in prominent media outlets...

Plenty of people deride dating apps, but the fact is that they're just a tool, and using them properly can yield plenty of results for lots of different goals. This week, Sarah and Adam talk about all of the hidden benefits of dating apps that you might never have discovered on your own! Also this week, vagina gel and Adam will break up with your date for you on Cameo - sign up at http://www. Came...

In this week's Conversation About, Adam and Sarah are joined by the dynamic and highly entertaining Elisabeth Donaldson, a multi-talented creative who creates fantastic content about relationships, men, women, dating, and everything in between. You're going to love this frank and hilarious discussion about the world of acting, being a self-professed weirdo on dating apps, and how young women enter...

Do men actually like women? It’s a question being asked more and more frequently by women facing systemic misogyny and constant harassment and degradation, and after doing plenty of research, we’ve got the answer! Also this week: Sarah spills some Colombian tea, if you know what we mean, and Adam reenters society but with his fly zipped up this time. Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilari...

Is social media bad for relationships, or is it only toxic and insecure people who think so? Sarah and Adam talk about the role social media plays in dating and relationships, the benefits and detriments, and what to do if your relationship is negatively affected by social media. Also this week, Adam goes on an embarrassing date, Sarah almost pukes over the Colombian countryside, and exes get marr...

In this week's Conversation About, Sarah and Adam have a hilarious, honest, and raw discussion about dating with herpes with TikTok phenom Megan Rose. Megan is a single mother of three children living in Houston, Texas. When she’s not working for her family’s residential remodeling company, she’s sharing her life on TikTok, where she’s reached almost a million followers who love her blunt, self-de...

The new Netflix documentary "The Tinder Swindler" tells a terrifying story about how far one man will go to manipulate women, taking hundreds of thousands of dollars from unsuspecting victims. But was any of this avoidable? Were there any red flags or warning signs? Sarah and Adam discuss the documentary while discussing some invaluable tips and tricks for women on dating apps to employ to help fe...

Do we really need Valentine's Day? This week, Sarah and Adam debate the necessity of a holiday that mandates showing affection. Does it enable toxic relationships, or is it just a nice day to show someone you care? Listen and see whose side you choose! Also in this episode: Ripley from Alien, cummies, and birthday recaps. Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hilarious podcast that focuses on a...

In this week's Conversation About, Adam and Sarah talk to the co-founders of a fun double dating app called Fourplay! Danielle Dietzek and Julie Griggs are best friends from college who met through their sorority in 2010, and in 2019 had the idea to make a double dating app while balancing busy careers in healthcare. Follow Fourplay on Instagram at http://www.instagram.com/fourplaysocial and on Ti...

When you’re on your own personal dating journey, sometimes it can be hard to tell if someone is exhibiting red flags or dealbreakers, or even if you’re the one with the red flags! This episode, Sarah and Adam break down the difference between a simple preference (aka a dealbreaker) and a full stop toxic trait (aka a red flag). Also in this episode: used vaginas, incel trolls, and TikTok trends! Da...

In a new, exciting type of episode, Sarah and Adam bring on guest Kate Kennedy, a former adult film star, current online content creator, comedian, writer & podcast host. Rather than talking about their lives, the hosts engaged with Kate for a discussion about the world of adult film, the importance of marketing and motivation, and removing stigmas when it comes to sex work. For more of Kate (and...

Welcome to Season Five of Dating Kinda Sucks! When you've been in relationships for most of your adult life, it can be almost impossible to figure out what to do when you're single. This week, Adam and Sarah provide a plethora of tips and tricks for maximizing your single experience, including solo adventures you can go on that you might never have considered. Also in this episode: Sarah's second...

Being single and happy is great, but what happens when someone comes along who enhances your life? Making the decision to commit to someone after being single for a while can seem like a dream come true, but it's also important to remember all of the hidden downfalls and compromises that have to be made. From a loss of freedom to setting up boundaries, changing communication styles to considering...

Success in dating, relationships, and during intimacy requires multiple factors, but one of the most important elements is self confidence. Learning how to love yourself, see your value, and be confident in your actions and words will pay off in both the short term and long run. Sarah and Adam take this episode to talk about ways to build confidence and boost your self esteem, and these tools will...

Situationships are that weird spot between being friends with benefits and a genuine relationship, and this week your hosts are going to tell you how to turn that situation into something healthy. Sarah and Adam will give you some good tips on communicating your needs and relationship goals clearly and without confusion. Also this week, Sarah rants about foot stuff, Adam gets ghosted, and more! Da...

Learning how to use dating apps as the tools they are designed to be can be tricky, and one of the trickier aspects is the unmatch option. In this episode, your hosts talk about when to unmatch, when to stay matched, and why you shouldn't feel guilt or anxiety about it at all. Also in this episode, Adam's Memphis Cup O Shame and Sarah runs into someone from her past. Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, h...

With Sarah moving in with Master of None in the last week, we decided it was a great time to talk about living with your significant other. What should you consider before you move in, what can you expect from living with someone new, and what problems are you going to face? Also in this episode, Sarah's grandparents get it on, and Adam talks about his suicide shack. Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, h...

What is male privilege? Does it exist at all, or is it a fantasy crafted by women who just want men to show some f**kin' empathy? You can probably guess what direction this episode will take, but you may be surprised! Also in this episode: Sarah plans the next stage of her life, Adam meets up with some exes, and TikTok continues to be a juggernaut of content. Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, a...

Post-pandemic sex has been different, but in what ways? Adam and Sarah talk about sexual mindfulness and how many people are getting pickier when it comes to their sexual partners, focusing more on deep connections and sensual explorations than unfulfilling quickies with men who don't care about your pleasure. Also in this episode: Adam's dating in Memphis, Sarah's moving in with Master of None, a...

It's a bonus episode! Adam and Sarah meet up on a Friday night in Little Rock and chat about escorts, shoes, and other miscellany. Basically, Adam just roasts Sarah, but she holds her own against the drunk gorilla. This is an episode you'll want to listen to and then go watch again on YouTube! No topics, no takeaways, just a fun chat between two friends. Dating Kinda Sucks is a raw, honest, and hi...