Dates and Mates Media
Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman
From navigating dating apps to overcoming the friendzone to seeking a soulmate, this ain’t your momma’s love advice! Hosted by the Official Love Expert of The Drew Barrymore Show and LA Times advice columnist, Damona Hoffman, Dates & Mates is jam-packed with interviews from your favorites celebs, authors, and experts. Dates & Mates is the 2022 Winner of The Best Podcast of the Year at The Black Podcasting Awards, #1 ranked love and relationship podcast by Cosmopolitan Magazine and a Top 10 Pick by HuffPost in the love category.
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May 12, 2026
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Episodes
Dating Dance Cards & Catch a Catfish 08.11.2022 43:21
Kamie Crawford, co-host of MTV’s Catfish and host of the podcast Relationsh!t, brings you up to speed on all things dating, from the apps to catfishing and beyond, just in time for Cuffing Season. We kick off the show with a Romance Rollback this week with a retrospective on a classic custom that you might be able to still use today – dance cards. The Dear Damona question is: I think I am ready to...
Building Trust & New Partner Nerves 01.11.2022 44:58
Married At First Sight expert, Dr. Pia Holec, shares tips on how to build trust and intimacy with a partner for a healthier, more satisfying relationship. The Dating Dish headline today is: What Is Toxic Forgiveness? And Is It Really Possible to "Forgive and Forget"? The Dear Damona question is: I’m nervous about showing my body to a new partner. What should I do? Be sure to watch Married At First...
Halloween Dating Horror & Crimes of the Heart 25.10.2022 52:05
In this special Halloween episode, Damona is back with another round of your deepest, darkest dating horror stories. She’s joined by Rory Uphold, actress, singer-songwriter and host of the podcast, Crimes of the Heart. Together they discuss what went wrong and what you might be able to do if you find yourself in a similar situation. The Dating Dish headline today is: 95 Couples Costumes Ideas That...
Non-Negotiables & LDR Lessons 18.10.2022 50:19
Orna Walters, domestic violence survivor turned love coach, shares her personal story, some signs to look out for, and how to prepare yourself for a happy, healthy partnership. The Dating Dish headline today is: Unpopular Opinion: Long-distance relationships have the most potential. The Dear Damona question is: When is the right time to discuss taking down our dating profiles? And, if you or someo...
Retro Dating & Bad Vibes Only 11.10.2022 53:44
Nora McInerny, author and host of the podcast, Terrible, Thanks For Asking, discusses how she managed after losing the love of her life, how she opened herself back up to love and how every experience in between led her to exactly where she is today. The Dating Dish headline today is: Dating is Broken. Going Retro Could Fix It. The Dear Damona question is: I found my missed connection on LinkedIn....
Green Flags & Don’t Text Your Ex Happy Birthday 04.10.2022 47:03
Nick Viall, author and host of the podcast The Viall Files, discusses his new book Don’t Text Your Ex Happy Birthday and helps you navigate the ups and downs of the dating process so you feel more empowered when you go out. The Dating Dish headline today is: Is your work stress making you more critical in dating and relationships? Then later, it’s not just Dear Damona. We’ll be doing a crossover A...
Indian Matchmaking & The Emoji Report 27.09.2022 44:51
Nadia Jagessar, from Netflix’s hit show Indian Matchmaking, discusses her matchmaking experiences, her current relationship status and what she learned from participating in the show. The Dating Dish headline today is: How can you upgrade your text flirting (according to the U.S. Emoji Trend Report.) The Dear Damona question is: I have a crush. How can I encourage them to ask me out? Follow Nadia...
Excuse My Grandma & The Soft Launch 20.09.2022 48:09
Hosts of the Excuse My Grandma podcast, Kim Murstein and her Grandma Gail, break down the differences in dating for different generations. The headline today is: Here’s Exactly How (and Why!) You Should Soft Launch Your Relationship on Instagram. The Dear Damona question is: I am afraid to share some personal info with my match. What should I do? Follow Kim and Grandma Gail on Instagram and TikTo...
Positive Psychology & Too Nice 13.09.2022 44:26
Rob Mack, a positive psychology expert, author and television personality, shares his lessons and inspirations for how to “Love from the Inside Out”. The headline today is: Why is being “too nice” such a turn off? The Dear Damona question is: My on again, off again relationship keeps failing but I can’t let it go. What should I do? Follow Rob on Instagram @RobMackOfficial Grab a copy of his book “...
Roy Wood Jr & The Worst Dating Advice 06.09.2022 47:51
Roy Wood, Jr., host of the podcasts The Daily Show: Beyond the Scenes and Roy’s Job Fair, gives us his take on dating, race relations and the worst dating advice he’s ever heard. The headline today is: Is Cheating Contagious? The Dear Damona question is: Why are people verbally attacking me on dating apps when I say I’m not interested? Follow Roy on Instagram @RoyWoodJr Listen to Roy’s Job Fair w...
Profile Fibs & Seeing Other People 30.08.2022 57:08
Ilana Dunn, the foremost authority on Millennial and Gen Z dating and the host of the podcast “Seeing Other People”, shares her top texting tips for meeting your match and her no games approach that is rewriting the rules for today’s daters. The headline today is: Liar Liar profile on fire - folks are fibbing on dating apps - but about what? The Dear Damona question is: How do I know if my relatio...
Dating App Etiquette & Keeping Your Cool 23.08.2022 48:38
In this special Season 10 premiere of Dates & Mates, Damona is here to answer all of your questions like: How do I keep my imagination from running wild once I meet a match? My marriage ended in an affair ten years ago, how do I re-enter the dating world in a positive way? And, how do I tell my partner that my interest in a polyamorous relationship is not a phase? Sponsors: The dating accelera...
Seven Year Switch & The Chivalry Sitch 16.08.2022 29:39
Charles J. Orlando, host and expert of Lifetime’s Seven Year Switch Seasons 2 and 3, breaks down the origin and evolution of chivalry. Plus, he will tell you what to look out for on a first date when gaging long term potential. Prioritize yourself with 10% off your first month of counseling at BetterHelp.com/datesandmates Download the free Profile Starter Kit at datesandmates.lpages.co/profile-sta...
Self Love & Dating Motivation 09.08.2022 30:58
Jonathon Aslay, author and mid-life dating and relationship coach, breaks down the idea of self love and outlines his techniques for mastering the concept in this week’s “Summer Encore Series”. The Dear Damona questions are: How do I learn to be more open and vulnerable in dating? Are there certain topics to avoid on a first date? And, how do I motivate myself to get back into the dating game? Fol...
Master Class: Healthy Communication & The Texting Trap 02.08.2022 18:44
Communication sounds simple, but while we spend more and more time on our phones and behind our computers, our face to face conversations are beginning to suffer. In the fifth episode of the “Summer Encore Series” we are reaching into the vault to share special content that is no longer available to the public. This episode covers the 4 keys to healthy communication, how to avoid the texting trap,...
The 4 Factors & Meeting Your Match 26.07.2022 31:17
Paul Carrick Brunson, of Married at First Sight UK, shares his top 4 factors when it comes to meeting your match in this week’s “Summer Encore Series”. Follow Paul on Instagram @PaulCBrunson Learn more about Paul at PaulCBrunson.com Prioritize yourself with 10% off your first month of counseling at BetterHelp.com/datesandmates Download the free Profile Starter Kit at datesandmates.lpages.co/profil...
Couples Therapy & Texting Decoded 19.07.2022 37:19
Host and therapist for VH1’s hit shows Couples Therapy with Dr. Jenn and Family Therapy with Dr. Jenn, Dr. Jenn Mann, shares her techniques for improving your relationship through communication and conflict management. In the third episode of Damona’s “Summer Encore Series”, the headlines are: what your boyfriend’s texts really mean. And, what makes people fall out of love? The Dear Damona questio...
Married at First Sight & Can Cheaters Change 12.07.2022 30:10
Do you need a relationship check in? Married At First Sight expert, Dr. Pepper Schwartz, outlines key topics to cover in that crucial conversation. In the second episode of Damona’s “Summer Encore Series” the Dear Damona questions are: Is my boyfriend a mama’s boy? And, my husband cheats on me. Can he change? Follow Dr. Pepper on Instagram @Dr_Pepper_Schwartz Learn more by visiting her website Pep...
Master Class: First Dates 05.07.2022 27:05
Summer is heating up and so are first dates! Damona is here for you with a Master Class on First Dates. This is the first episode of the “Summer Encore Series” where we are reaching into the vault to share special content that no longer available to the public. This episode covers the nuances of first dates from the challenges of video chatting before that first meeting, to 7 clever date ideas, an...
Love on the Spectrum & Singles Parties 28.06.2022 51:41
Autism and Dating Expert in Netflix’s internationally-celebrated series, “Love on the Spectrum U.S.”, Jennifer Cook, sheds light on the not so obvious social rules of dating. She also talks about what it’s like dating with autism or dating someone who is on the spectrum. The headline is: The rise of singles parties – is this the new way to find love? And this week’s Dear Damona question is: I ende...
Love In The Jungle & Dating Incognito 21.06.2022 57:54
Animal behavior specialist and show consultant for the Discovery+ show, Love In The Jungle, Dr. Jennifer Verdolin, schools us on love lessons from the animal kingdom. The headline is: What to do if a nice-guy turns out to be not so nice… And, this week’s Dear Damona question is: Help?! I live in a small town and after creating an online dating profile, my inbox is being flooded by my neighbors and...
The Angry Therapist & Attachment Theory Redo 14.06.2022 50:51
Licensed therapists, authors and podcast hosts John Kim (aka The Angry Therapist) and his partner Vanessa Bennett talk about breaking relationship cycles, manifesting the relationship you want and their forthcoming book: “It’s Not Me, It’s You”. The headline is: Has attachment theory gone too far? The Dear Damona question is: I’m feeling hesitant after meeting my match. How do I know if I am being...
Dating Health Update & Party and a Protest 07.06.2022 49:17
Fan favorite, Dr. James Simmons of AskTheNP is back to bring us into Pride Month and share the latest health and wellness news for pandemic dating season. Dr. James is a Board Certified Acute Care Nurse Practitioner who has been a frontline healthcare provider during the Covid-19 pandemic and a regular contributor for KTLA news. Plus, he’s an on air personality for Channel Q, an LGBTQ lifestyle ne...
The Love Drive & Changing Labels 31.05.2022 41:50
Love coach and host of The Love Drive podcast, Shaun Galanos, is here to talk about intimacy in all its forms. The headline is: Are you bringing your friends on dates? You’re not alone. The Dear Damona Question is: I changed my profile to list my sexual orientation as ‘bisexual’ and it’s causing a stir in my dating life. What should I do? To read the article by Mirror Magazine visit: mirror.co.uk/...
Rejection Reframe & Good Moms, Bad Choices 24.05.2022 44:29
Hosts of the Good Moms, Bad Choices podcast, Erica and Milah share their experiences navigating dating as single parents. The headline is: Are you being sexually rejected? Or is it all in your head? The Dear Damona question is: My matches seem to expect quicker response times. Is it a me or a them problem? To read the article by Mel Magazine visit: melmagazine.com/en-us/story/romantic-sexual-rejec...
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