Date, Sex & Love

The media influences can effect positive and radical changes in the society but sometimes the media tends to give a wrong impression to people that affects the present reality. It presents an unrealistic standard of relationships that most people use as a yardstick which unfortunately only brings about disappointments and unhappiness. This week, on the bonus episode of the DSL Podcast, Ajay shakes...

DSL season 1 is over! The season ended with Love Triangle, but we can't but share the comments some of our amazing audience sent as regards the episode. So, if you haven't listened to Love Triangle, kindly do that before listening to this to get the undiluted gist from the DSL lady herself.

Life, they say is complicated but truth be told I feel it is we humans that mess things up which sprung into a complicated situation. This week's episode on the season finale of the DSL Podcast is a perfect example of such "complications". I will be taking you on a real-life story of two good friends and a certain guy in the middle. Heads up, this story have a twist you won't see coming but in all...

Do you know your deepest sexual desires? I'm sure you do and no you are not weird to have one. Everyone has a sexual fantasy they will like to explore but some fantasies are pretty awkward than others. So what do you do when you are not comfortable with your partner's sexual desires or they don't feel comfortable with yours? This week I and my guest Jeff talk about Strange sexual fantasies and wha...

Every once in a while you'll like someone but getting the person's attention can be a chore, I mean how do you get them to notice you? Flirty comes in handy to get into that conversation but the act of flirting can sometimes be either overbearing or downright irritating. Is flirting been underrated? This week I and Rhoda speak on the importance of flirting even while in a relationship.

When two people meet and sparks fly immediately (especially physical attractions) it's often said to be lust rather than love. But I often wonder, is lust not part of love? If there isn't some lust, then how can passion thrive in the relationship? How will one's relationship seem more interesting? These and more are what I and my guest Funmi discuss about this week. Can lust be part of love or it'...

Every relationship thrives on both partners to be creative and not let the passion between them fizzle out or turn into a routine, but when this happens, the other partner delves into some sort of erotic adventure to get his or her sexual desires fulfilled. One such venture is the Kamasutra. Kamasutra is said to be a guide on deriving sexual fulfilment that helps ones relationship stay relevant an...

Communication is vital in every relationship, but for you to communicate you must first understand the language. Now I don't mean the language one speaks, I mean "love languages" After I experienced a heart-wrenching breakup, I couldn't understand why it didn't work out. I loved him but he couldn't see it because I wasn't expressing it in the way he understood. On today's episode, I and Amarachi h...

In a society of ours where 'sexual topic' is a taboo for open discussion, what would be your first reaction when asked what your body count is? Join Ajay and her guest on this mind-blowing episode of DSL as they explore the topic... BODY COUNT. Listen to this episode of DSL on all Jamitfm platforms.

You've finally got into a relationship with that Guy or Babe you've been fantasizing to date, it's going great so far and you decided to take it up a notch with your first sex together, only to discover that She or He doesn't match your freakiness or it might just be too much for you to handle. Sounds familiar? On Today's episode, I and my friends, Precious Uzor-Jeff a Style Enthusiast/Fashion-pre...

With relationships being distraught nowadays it's no surprise how people end up entangled with someone who they are not really into. Are you familiar with this "ship"? Well, it's the REBOUNDship. I once dated a guy whose whole mission was to use me to get back at his ex, it took a while before I realized this and by that time, I had invested so much into the relationship. On this episode, I and my...

Love is honestly a complicated emotion, but an emotion we crave for in our lives. But how we stumble on it is what we are so unaware of, for some it's love at first sight, for some it started in friendship, but for me, it was a weird way. Ever heard of love at first smash? Well, that's how I stumbled on love. On this episode, I and my guests, Sohmiee and Dolapo, dived into an in-depth conversation...

When you are attracted to someone and you two hit it off pretty well, it's normal to expect an intimate experience, for me I hoped it would be out of this world but what I got was a different scenario that was a letdown. What led to this? Having pleasurable sex is what every woman aims for, but does the size of a man's dick play a major role in getting that sexual gratification? Well, a certain co...

I'm Ajay and I'm married to the man of my dreams, a fairy tale that had its struggles like dating the wrong men, lots of experimental sex and a bumpy ride to knowing what love is. This is a path most people struggle with lots of unanswered questions. Get the answers to these questions and more on the DSL - Date, Sex and Love Podcast, as I and my friends give all the juicy details and tips to a suc...