"Dare to be one" podcast

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Light is the only thing that can send the darkness in your marriage/relationship packing, call out darkness today and call in light. Thanks for listening ☺

This is our way of saying thank you to all our listeners. We haven't given up yet because you keep listening to us. On this occasion of International podcast day, here is a combined recording from podcasters in Nigeria(Pod magic creators) saying we appreciate you.

Some say if you can not beat them, then join them, but I'll say, if you can not beat them, then avoid them.

Nothing is worth giving up your joy and peace of mind for, be it a person or thing. Relationships where you're getting the red lights(danger) from, and you're still willing to continue, but remember danger looks ahead. Friendships that don't benefit but rather cost you something dear, won't you back out from such? I co-hosted this episode with Miss Akomolafe Joy, kindly listen to it. Do not forget...

How you feel? What you think? What you think should happen? This episode centers on how our thoughts can either affect our relationships positively or negatively.

Relationships are important aspect of our lives and a toxic relationship can cost you dearly in time, energy and resources.  Stay true to yourself, be sincere enough to listen to your heart, and be strong enough to make a decision if there's a need for you to forego that relationship.  We had a guest speaker who spoke on her experience, do listen to this episode.  

At last I got the job! At last I got married...your "at last" moment will come, but what kind of attitude will you put up after? An "I don't care" attitude, or a positive one? Do you jealously guard what has now been put in your care, or you wait until it slips out of your hand? 

(Here is a conversation that ensued between the newlyweds Mr D and Mrs D) Mr D: what's all this honey? Why are you dressed as if you're mourning?  Mrs D: Daddy, this is a housewife dressing oh, we're now married, I don't need to dress fine like a spinster again. Mr D: who's your daddy? tell me all these are just pranks.  Mrs D: sir, I'm seriously serious  Keep up with the things you...

What if listening is part of what you need to do to calm that storm ravaging against your marriage/relationship?

As a lady there's a him(God) you've to meet before you meet your earthly him(husband), this will guarantee you 100% marital success. As a man too, meet your God before you meet your wife.

Delay is dangerous, do not take any chances to lose that treasure that's in your possession, others are earnestly praying to have it.  What you've, hold tightly to it. 

The light of the body is the eye, if thine eye be single, thy whole body shall be full of light. Seeing is entirely different from hearing.  What do you behold for your life, marriage/relationship? What do you behold in your spouse? If you behold inadequacies and faults, that's all you'll keep seeing.  If you behold strength and overlook the weaknesses, then you're in for a better life.&...

Good day dear listener, He said to me, you've hypoplastic uterus! Oh my God!  What on earth is that?  I said no, that's not me, I'm going to have my own children.  Fast forward to a year and some months, the same uterus they called feeble accommodated *2 babies at the same time for 9 months*. She's now a mother of 2 beautiful twin girls.  Listen to our guest speaker as she shar...

There are lots of positive proclamations in this episode. Remember, power of life and death is in the tongue.  Ride with me as we speak positive words into our marriages.

In marriage, there will be many things you'll argue on, but never allow these disagreements drive a gap between you two.  Don't be too rigid. In everything you do, make effort to stay agree-ing.  Check out this episode for the full teaching Feedbacks, comments and questions are welcomed.

Today's episode is titled "as it was". There's a way God had planned marriage to be, any effort to deviate from that will not give you a positive result.  Take a look at your marriage, has it deviated from God's original plan?  Make amends today.  Listen to what I've to say about it here

There are 2 categories of people: •those whose ability(strength) overweighs their disability(weakness). •those whose disability overweighs their ability. One important thing you should note is that these things have a way they affect our marriages/relationships.  Recognize your disabilities today and make efforts to work on them.  Learn more in this episode. 

Not everyone get a second chance at life and what it has to offer, it is therefore a great privilege that you get one. Whether it's a second chance to right your wrongs, choose wisely, change for the better, and so on.  It's important that you make preparations for the second chance you'll be getting, so that you do not mess things up the second time.

Anyone can be a channel of peace, joy, love and comfort to you, but you've only one source, which is God. Do not ever replace your source with your channels. Whose presence guarantees the flow of your channel?  Find out more in my latest episode 

Emotional illness come as a result of unforgiveness, pains from the past, betrayal, unsatisfaction, and so on.  How then do you get healing/treatment? The good news is I know someone with healing stripes, find out more in my latest episode.

By the time you start getting intentional about things in your marriage/relationship, imagine, What struggles would cease? What arguments would end? What anger would cool? What peace would reign? There is great bliss to be won and terrible regret to avoid if you do it God's way.  Are you ready to take full responsibility for your future under the sight and care of God?

What do you do when you discover that what you settled for isn't what it seemed like?  It's not God's plan that you enter the "regret zone" before you amend your ways, neither does he want you to go through hurts before you realise your mistakes. 

Whatever you can picture has the tendency to feature in your future.  All you've to do is imagine it, see it, and very soon it will come to reality. 

Your past can either make you bitter or better, but the choice is yours to make. Find out how to become better in this episode.