Dad's Rules with Kevin Belzer

Episode 45 is a live talk I did on Wisdom. I originally made it to share to my real estate community. Part way through recording it, I realized that it would need to be part of the podcast. It fit perfectly after the New Year Same You episode.  This one was a solo episode I did while on a walk and talk. No fancy equipment but an iPhone. I will go over the tips that I believe will help you act...

Episode 44 is all about the new year and goals. But, why is this airing in February? I timed this episode out to remind you of what you planned on doing this year but more than likely quit.  Well, that seems harsh! Look, it is nothing personal. It is just statistically likely that you quit. Whether it was get in shape, start your novel or go after your dream job, the vast majority of people w...

Episode 43 gets into the decks again. This week, Melissa and I pull from the Thinking Time Business Edition deck from Best Self. Now, Melissa isn't a business owner. That doesn't mean she doesn't have some wisdom to bring to this conversation. In fact, many times, it is those not all up in your business that will see what you are blind to seeing. This week, we talk about the steps that can be take...

Episode 42 of Dad's Rules!  We decided to go a different direction on this one and talk about my rules on driving and why they probably can't be universal rules. After listening, maybe some of you will come around to my way of thinking. I can only hope so... Like, how do you merge onto the interstate? What is the appropriate speed in each lane? When are you allowed to gape at the accident or...

Melissa Belzer joins me again on location at Menace Underground to go through another prompt deck.  This one is designed for kids. Wouldn't you know it that the every first question felt very grown up? Well, the first Dad's Rules book is about being a kickass adult so we need to get the kids thinking critically early. What do you feel strongly about?  I i feel strongly about kindness. I...

We went back into Menace Underground to record again. This episode is back around the topics coming out of the Date Deck.  This week, the question was Where do you see us in 5 years? This is a huge question that should be asked when you start dating. What if you have different ideas about what happily ever after means? What if you want kids but they don't? You want city life and they want cou...

With 13 podcast in the can, I decided to go live on Wisdom App and record a fresh episode instead. I know it makes no sense. That is just how my brain works sometimes.  Today is a short episode. Just a few things that were on my mind.  First, 3 days are down in the new year. Have you quite your goals and dreams for 2023 yet? Seems crazy, but some will look at any setback and be done. Wav...

When you go to an amusement park, the most exciting rides are always the roller coaster. The ups, downs, twist and turns, whether right side up or upside down are exhilarating.  In contrast, the Ferris wheel is more of a laid back romantic ride, taken at a leisurely pace up into the sky and back down where you get off and continue your stroll through the park.  In the business world, the...

Today, Melissa Belzer is back to talk about S-E-X!!! So, we are finally taking a card from the intimacy deck and talking about sex. The question is, What are some ways we can make sure our sex life and intimacy stays in tact when life gets busy? Lots of relationships faulter because people get busy with life and forget that they still need to keep busy in the bedroom. To get the show back to light...

Today, we have Melissa Belzer on again. In this episode, we go over a question in the Relationship deck. When or where is lack of patience a problem for us? These decks are pretty interesting because they make you have conversations that you have either been avoiding or just hadn't been able to put into words without the prompting of the question. Also, we go off on a tangent about how gross smoki...

Coming in 2023 will be the 2nd book in the Dad's Rules series! I did a reading of it on Wisdom and decided to share the prologue with you all. No corrections. No edits. That is kind of how it goes down on Wisdom where everything is live! However, I think you will enjoy it. The follow up has been a long time coming and we are down to a few things that still need completed before the release. That s...

Today, we go offsite to Menace Underground. If that wasn't enough excitement, we also brought in a special guest star to join in. Melissa Belzer, my real and not made up wife, joins me after 33 solo episodes.  On this episode, we pull a random card from a conversation starter deck and discuss the topic. No prep. No plan. This is either going to be brilliant or a train wreck of an idea. ...

Okay, we are going to try something new. I had additional thoughts about episode 31 after I spoke at a Real Estate Conference. So, I decided to whip out the cell phone and deliver some additional information on my Wisdom channel.  After I sent it out, I got to thinking that this would make for some good additional content for all of you. Let me know your thoughts! Hope you like these. I am th...

This episode will cover 3 takeaways from Dominate Your Real Estate Career Conference that I was blessed to attend and speak at. It is a video that I was sending out to agents, but felt the value applied to anyone in sales.  You're going to have to work. Money isn't going to necessarily come as easily. You may actually be required to go on a few more appointments.  You need to be consiste...

We are at an episode a day for the longest months of the year! On this episode, we discuss perception.  Whatever you believe about anything is a truth. It's your truth. It may not be the truth, but it is definitely a truth. Once you have new information, then we can see if you were right or completely off base.  What I have noticed for myself in the real estate world is that I could look...

On today's episode, we will go over my journey through 75 Hard.  75 Hard consist of: 2 workouts a day Read 10 pages of a non fiction book Take a progress picture Pick a diet and stick to it No cheat meals or alcohol I will go into the details of each of these as well as my setbacks, challenges and key takeaways from the 75 Hard program. Also, I will go over what I am up to next. This isn't a...

Day after the election. If you are hearing this, neither party blew up America. Half of you are pissed off. Heck, maybe all of you are, right? So, in this episode, I decided to dive into the challenging times we are in. We talk about the elections, economy, gas prices, inflation, possibility of war, the housing market, rates and rents. Guess what? All of that is macro and will only effect you as m...

The final episode in the MenaceCon Recap! In hindsight, I am very glad that I broke this down. It would have been over 3 hours for one episode if I hadn't.  In this episode, we cover 4 speakers. Tim Herriage is Executive Director of RCN Capital, $1 billion + of real estate transactions and has bought or sold 1300+ houses. Tim spent time talking about connections, knowing the right people to m...

We are down to the last few recap episodes.  On this episode, we have two powerhouse speakers that I recap, Luke Vennard and Terrence Burner. Luke Vennard is a partner at Sterling Group United, a 9 figure entrepreneur and financial expert. He asked some powerful questions. What is my potential? Who am I inside? Do you have the fight in you? What kind of person am I? What drives me? What motiv...

Part VII of MenaceCon Recap series. I hope you are getting as much out of this as I am reliving one of the best conferences I have ever attended.  In Part VII, we have 3 speakers to recap.  1st, Curtis Ray, founder of MPI Unlimited, 1.5 million + social media followers and brand worth $10s of millions. Although we stay out of the deep talk of money that he is known for, we do scrape the...

We continue our coverage of MenaceCon with Part VI.  One speaker only but he deserved all of our time. Jason Von Payne is the co-founder of Menace, Founder of State 48 Roofing and an 8 figure entrepreneur.  Jason spent his talk on attention.  As the markets all shift, it will become apparent that many fields are saturated. In order to stand out, to stand above the competition, it wi...

We continue my recap of MenaceCon 2022. So many speakers and so much quality content to go over.  Rather than try and rush through the speakers and what I took out of their talks, I have decided to break it down to 1-3 speakers per episode. By doing this, I can spend more time deep diving into the takeaways and, hopefully, deliver more value to you, my fellow Kickass Adults. Today's Episode w...

We continue our run through the speakers at MenaceCon 2022. This will be Part IV.  Today, we break down some key takeaways that I got from Nicole Markson. She is a Billboard charting artist, breast cancer survivor and the founder of Live Your Dream. Her story of overcoming obstacles created by the experts in the music world and in life was moving to all of those in attendance. As usual with t...

We continue our march through MenaceCon and it's star filled speakers. Rather than make this a race and try to wrap this all up in an episode or two, I chose to do a deep dive on all the speakers. By taking our time, I felt I could better elaborate on what I got out of their speeches. I took 16 total pages of notes so this will take quite a few episodes to cover.  Since it is my show, I talke...

We are continuing my recap of thoughts and insights into MenaceCon 2022.  Today's episode will cover Gary Brecka, co-founder of 10x Health Systems and Bio Hacker. Absolutely fascinating man and story. Big takeaway for me was that we sure do put a lot of garbage into our systems. Next, Tommy Mello was up. He is the founder of A1 Garage Doors. Hey! I use their services! They have had sales in e...