CYKIAE (Christ You Know It Ain't Easy)

It turns out that the medical problems with getting a child through a surrogacy, begin with the petri dish when the lab is fertilising an egg for implantation into the surrogate’s womb, and the medical problems caused by this process may continue for the rest of the surrogate’s and child’s life. This, on top of all of the other problems that have been covered in earlier programmes. Let me tell you...

Is a surrogate a sex worker? You might think that saying that is pretty far out there? Maybe it’s not. Let’s explore it a little. Tag words: surrogate; sex worker; fetus; Big Pharma; Reduction; grief; trauma; DNR, D & E; Dilation and Evacuation; Katy Faust; Stacy Manning; Them Before Us; Louise Perry; The Case Against the Sexual Revolution; sociosexuality; prostitution; prostitutes; Sohrab Ahm...

Why do men and women freeze their eggs and sperm? Why do they freeze embryos? What happens to children that emerge whenever, who are the product of frozen eggs, sperm and embryos, assuming they’re not just used for scientific experiments or put in the nearest garbage can. Tag words: frozen eggs; frozen sperm; frozen embryos; IVF programme; surrogate mother; Katy Faust; Stacy Manning; Them Before U...

Using a third party surrogate means the child that is going to be implanted in that surrogate, is going to be robbed of one or both biological parents – if the process goes full term –resulting in a birth, that will be the beginning of a life, however long, which we know will be destructively damaging for that child in most cases. Then there are more complications if a third party surrogate’s bein...

How do the humans that have been made from eggs and/or sperm that have been bought and sold, planted inside the womb of a woman who has rented it for 91/2 months, while it gestates, feel about themselves? Better still, did you hear the true story about the surrogate who got pregnant to her husband AFTER she’d been impregnated with her customer’s fertilised embryo, and the agency that had hired her...

Something magical happens between the mother carrying her baby in her womb and the baby. If you’re using a surrogate, that means what happens is an enormous tragedy for the baby, the surrogate and the ultimate parents of the baby. Let me introduce you to the nightmare. Tag words: Surrogate; surrogacy; ChatGPT; Nick Cave; the Bible; UN Convention on the Rights of the Child; Katy Faust; Stacy Mannin...

It’s urgent for our governments to immediately ban the use of surrogate mothers in every situation – with one exception. Surrogacy inevitably results in terrible, life long, human suffering. If we are the caring society that we spend all of the time loudly announcing to anyone whether they’re willing to listen or not, then surrogacy has to be almost entirely abolished. Tag words: Surrogacy; surrog...

Katy Faust and Stacy Manning’s book Them Before Us isn’t just a clever name. It’s the very real problem of today’s me world. Where a homosexual couple want to adopt a child when one or neither parent is biologically related thanks to sperm and egg donors. A story posted in Geelong Advertiser, romantically on Valentine’s Day, 14 February headlined with ‘Childless’ man discovers he actually has 37 c...

Scientific studies by pro-LGBT activist scientists characteristically take a very small, hand selected sample, of parents, and ask them what their children think about having homosexual parents. That is a joke of course. Depending on how the study is conducted, asking dependent children, living at home with, and entirely dependent on, their homosexual parents, also has problems in getting honest a...

Katy Faust and Stacy Manning’s book, Them Before Us, looks at the question of homosexual parents and the many and detailed studies of children from those families as well. The homosexual family model has a core fatal flaw as they conclude when the say The problem with same-sex parenting, as previously noted, isn't the gay parent; it's the missing parent. In this century, for the first time in the...

In 2 of the most important cases in America, two judges made findings which they said were the science. Judge Vaughan Walker found children didn’t suffer because they had homosexual parents instead of heterosexual. Judge Kennedy found that homosexuality was immutable - unchangeable – always was always will be queer. But were they right? Tag words: Perry v. Schwarzennegger; Judge Vaughan Walker; Ob...

Is it just me or do you find this confusing too? One of the leading bodies fighting for the legalisation of homosexual marriage was the body called Australian Marriage Equality. One of the things that apparently kicked off the homosexual marriage campaign was the amendment of the Marriage Act by the Howard government, supported by the Latham Labor opposition, that specified that marriage was betwe...

What are the differences between homosexual parents and heterosexual parents that might lead to different outcomes for children? Here’s some of the scientific research – and it’s not good for the kids! Tag words: Jordan Peterson; 12 Rules for Life; Melissa Kearney; The Two Parent Advantage; Dr Sarantakos; Dr Schumm; Katy Faust; Them Before Us; discipline; self-control; self-regulation;

In my last programme I told you about the finding of Judge Vaughan Walker in Perry v. [I’ll be back] Schwarzennegger. He made this finding, but he couldn’t have been much wronger – my word, if he had tried: Children raised by gay or lesbian parents are as likely as children raised by heterosexual parents to be healthy, successful and well-adjusted. The research supporting this conclusion is accept...

In the last programme I looked at some of the research into whether children with homosexual parents were in a worse position than children with heterosexual partners. The answer was that the science that made findings that there was no difference, was deeply flawed and driven by the LGBTQI+ movement political agenda to find that there was no difference. In this programme I’m going to be looking a...

The totally ignored constituency in the question of homosexual marriage is children. Should couples in homosexual marriages continue to have the right to adopt children, or get children through egg or sperm donation, or through surrogates. This has always assumed to be OK but is that what the scientific studies are showing. It hasn’t been something that has received any consideration by the govern...

One of the most decisive factors on how well a child is going to do when they grow up, is what level of education they achieved. All the studies indicate that a child from a broken home has a severe handicap there. The studies also indicate that a child living in a home with its married biological parents has significant advantages over children living in other situations. I’m going to share how t...

Your divorce will destroy your children’s lives. There’s no argument that broken homes have a major adverse impact on how children perform really badly at school and university and then very often fail at life itself. Tag words: Melissa S Kearney; The Two-Parent Advantage; Katy Faust; Them Before Us; marriage; married parents; divorce; no-fault divorce;

Get a divorce and give your children cancer. When a child’s parents divorce, when the child’s biological family is broken up by divorce, the consequences affect the child’s physical and mental health, their academic performance at school, and beyond, if there is a beyond, and then it wrecks their ability to enter into meaningful, lasting relationships. Their physical and mental health can be ruine...

Divorce inevitably sees a big decline in the involvement, the biggest decline is usually of the father but the same applies to the mother for a variety of reasons, of the parents in their childrens’ lives. All of the research shows that for a child to grow up with everything it needs, it needs to grow up with its biological mother and father living together in the one household. As I said in Part...

Well I was wrong! Australia didn’t invent no-fault divorce. Who did, makes it truly shocking that Gough Whitlam would have copied his idea of all people. It seems that the father of no-fault divorce was that early proto-type Trump figure, Ronald Reagan, when he was the governor of California. Times have certainly changed haven’t they! In 1969 he passed the first no-default divorce laws in America....

Shocking, traumatic events have a way of drilling deeply into the very core and heart of human beings. The shock children experience when they learn that their parents' marriage has died is, for them, the worst moment that they’ll ever have in their lives. This event’s especially traumatic for children completely unaware of the trouble in their parents' marriage. One day everything’s fine,...

Never before in the history of the world has marriage between people of the same sex been recognised by law. But here we are today with most Western countries having recognised it and passed laws to that effect. And it has made a difference beyond comprehension. It is all good? It it all bad? Is it a bit of both? Let me tell you a bit about it in the context of children’s rights in the world of sa...

Do you want your own harem? Marriage has changed enormously in Australia since 12 June 1975 when the  Family Law Act  became law. Marriage between a man and a woman for life, with few exceptions, became marriage until you got bored and wanted to move on. All of the people that thought these changes would just loosen things up for those in a terrible marriage found that they’d opened the floodgates...

You want to adopt a child. A particular child. But the child has parents. Bother. So think out of the box. Have the parents murdered, so you’re not caught, hire a good hit man, then adopt the child. If you’re more conventionally minded and wanted a child, not the traditional way, you could buy a sperm and/or an egg and perhaps get a surrogate mother. Doesn’t matter which way you go, murder or sper...