CY aka Nkiru the Love Guru's Confessional

Nkiru the Love Guru  comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through your journey of healing. Today we discuss how to preserve in a heavy world.  Nkiru  confesses that when things have gotten heavy in this world, she has had times where she's felt crippled. Today's Question : What are some ways that you can cope with difficult times? Scripture Recap : Matthew 11:28-30, Roman...

Nkiru the Love Guru  comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through your journey of healing. Today we discuss why dimming your light for others is a complete no-no.  Nkiru  confesses that she has struggled with showing up fully in some spaces for fear of losing people. Today's Question : What are three ways you can take up room in this world for yourself? Scripture Recap : Matt...

Nkiru the Love Guru  comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through your journey of healing. Today we discuss what it's like to step into the unknown.  Nkiru  confesses that when she has stepped into the unknown fear has met her there but so has God. Today's Question : What actually happened the last time you hesitated because of fear? Were your thoughts actualized or was t...

Nkiru the Love Guru  comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through your journey of healing. Today we discuss the dangers of hyper focusing on being perfect.  Nkiru  confesses that perfectionism has become a goal to avoid failure. Today's Question : What is your perfect "imperfect" trait? Scripture Recap : Romans 15:7, James 3:2, Galatians 1:10, Philippians 1:6, Psalm 1...

Nkiru the Love Guru  comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through your journey of healing. Today we discuss what it's liked to feel overwhelmed.  Nkiru  confesses that in moments where she has felt overwhelmed she tends to freeze. Today's Question : What is something very small that you can do today to change your life? Scripture Recap : Psalm 61:2, Psalm 102:1 Philippian...

Nkiru the Love Guru  comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through your journey of healing. Today we discuss the feeling of regret.  Nkiru  confesses that she has had moments of regret in her life over unfulfilled ambitions. Today's Question : What can I implement to day to inspire a new healthy habit that will sustain my progress? Scripture Recap : Ecclesiastes 1:14-18, Eccle...

Nkiru the Love Guru  comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through your journey of healing. Today we discuss the importance of setting boundaries.  Nkiru  confesses that she has had moments in her life where she has struggled with setting boundaries for various reasons. Today's Question : What boundaries can be set to aid in this journey that we are on for self-discovery? Scri...

Nkiru the Love Guru  comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through your journey of healing. Today we discuss situations where I fell in love with the idea of victimhood.  Nkiru  confesses that she has had moments in her life where she chose to be a victim instead of championing accountability. Today's Question : What areas in your life can you afford to be more accountable in?...

Nkiru the Love Guru  comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through your journey of healing. Today we discuss the origins of worry and proper tools that can be utilized to combat it.  Nkiru  confesses that worry has become a familiar visitor in her life. Today's Question : What is my relationship with control? Scripture Recap : Matthew 6:25-34, Proverbs 3:5-6, 2 Timothy 1:7, Ph...

Nkiru the Love Guru  comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through your journey of healing. Today we discuss the phenomenon of overthinking and proper tools that can be utilized to combat it.  Nkiru  confesses that she has allowed this common trauma response to become a habit. Today's Question : How do you center yourself when you are presented with unexpected energy? Scriptur...

Nkiru the Love Guru  comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through your journey of healing. Today we discuss the importance of focus when working through challenging situations.  Nkiru  confesses that she has had moments where her focus has been misplaced causing her to stagnate. Today's Question : How can I focus my energy? Scripture Recap : Genesis 19:24-26, Matthew 14:22-33...

Nkiru the Love Guru  comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through your journey of healing. Today we discuss the difference between having a misstep and quitting. Nkiru  confesses her struggles with her tendency to allow herself to give up in tough spaces and what she does to overcome this issue. Today's Question : What is it that I want for myself? Scripture Recap : Galatians...

Every Motivational Monday  Nkiru the Love Guru  comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through the week. This week we discuss how people, situations and things are mirror refections of the person you are displaying yourself as.  Nkiru  confesses her struggles with making peace with the woman in the mirror and crafting the life she wants by doing so.

Every Motivational Monday  Nkiru the Love Guru  comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through the week. This week we discuss nerves and how they can cause you to worry.  Nkiru  confesses her struggles with worrying and nerves and what she does to overcome this issue.

Every Motivational Monday Nkiru the Love Guru comes to bring you advice and affirmations to help you through the week. This week we discuss imposter syndrome and how we can work though it. Nkiru confesses her struggles with imposter syndrome and gives her path for overcoming it.