Curiosity & Chill

In this episode, we get real about the challenges of maintaining friendships in adulthood. From unspoken expectations to shifting dynamics as life gets fuller and more complicated. We dive into Big Friendships  and why no one really prepares you for the work it takes to keep one going. Vulnerability, awkward honesty, and even friendship breakups—we go there. Expect some laughs and a wedding update...

This week we’re back with Part 2. A short and sweet episode wrapping up the conversation we started last week on therapy, healing, and growth. If you haven’t listened to Part 1 yet, hit pause and start there first! We’re talking about those pivotal moments that shift the course of your life — the ones you don’t see coming but can’t forget. And of course, we close things out with a little online da...

It’s been one of those weeks. One of us stumbled upon some unexpected surprises, while the other spent way too long in a grimy ER waiting room, feeling totally drained and secondhand sick from just being there.  This week, we open up about our individual paths to therapy — what led us there, how it’s shaped us, and the toolkit of resources we’ve picked up along the way. Therapy’s not a magic fix,...

This week on Curiosity and Chill, we’re talking all things three. Sure, it’s the so-called magic number—but in real life, especially on a trip, it can bring up some not-so-magical feelings. We unpack how being part of a trio can shake up our sense of belonging, why it’s so easy to feel like the odd one out, and how the closeness between two people can unintentionally leave one person floating. Som...

This week on Curiosity & Chill , we’re talking bodies — the glow ups, the glow downs, and the frustrating bad body image days that can feel like an emotional rollercoaster.  We dive into the wild ride of body image — from the unspoken drama of clothes not fitting, to those spirals we all know too well when society’s out here telling us to be forever 21 (literally and figuratively). And let’s b...

One of us wants to have kids and one of us is starting to realize the 'kid question' pop up in the dating world. We dig into the whole 'selfish vs. selfless' debate that comes up in conversations about motherhood and/or choosing to be childless. Trust, these labels can do more harm than good. But we also talk about the real dream—having a robot that can shave and exfoliate our...

Family expectations, cultural clashes, and what actually draws us to people—let’s get into it. Are we really obligated to do things just because we share DNA, or is that just a lifelong guilt trip? In relationships, especially interracial ones, who’s responsible for bridging the cultural gap—should you be teaching or should they be learning? And when it comes to attraction, is it all just physical...

Infidelity—it’s messy, complicated, and way more common than we’d like to admit. But what happens when you aren’t the one in the relationship? In this episode, we dive into the why, the how, and the aftermath of stepping out—plus the tricky role of friends and spectators. Do you tell your friend if you know they’re being played? Is emotional betrayal just as bad as the physical? And can relationsh...

From dumpster-fire dating apps to finding the one who truly understands you, this episode takes you through both extremes of the dating world. Whether you're stuck in a sea of meaningless small talk or just slipped a ring on it, we’re diving into the messy, hilarious, and downright surprising journey of love and connection. Expect the icks, the feels, and the unpredictable moments that come i...

Parents: They did it all—work, kids, house repairs, and somehow a side hustle—and now they need help opening a PDF? In this episode, we dive into the hilarity and headaches of watching our parents age. From their “I got this” confidence to “Can you order pizza for me?” moments, we’re asking: are we helping too much or just becoming their on-call tech support? And then there’s time—some days it fee...

Friendships can be beautiful—and awkward. We unpack tricky money moments (like splitting the bill when you only ordered one thing), the values that shape lasting connections, and the lifeline friends who keep us grounded. Tune in for fun real talk on navigating the ups, downs, and everything in between with the people who matter most. 💛

Curiosity & Chill is officially here! 🎉 Nero and Shayenda are giving you an exclusive sneak peek into what this podcast is all about. In this mini intro episode, they’re talking about everyday ups and downs—because let’s face it, we all know things don’t always go as planned. Whether they’re diving into big topics, bonding over everyday struggles (like the saga of returning clothes or being s...