Cupid's Coach with Julie Ferman

Who you are, how you portray yourself in your communications and in the way you present on a date -- are you appealing to / magnetizing the "right" people, or ... not? Engage with me in a discussion about the survival instincts that are driving forces in the decision making process for both men and women in dating.  

Why had Mark been striking out with his online dating efforts?  Listen in to his story and his simple, though remarkable transformation from Average Joe to Mr. Desirable in just one week, after just one coaching call. How to re-frame pain, loneliness, and frustration as a wake up call, an invitation to consider a larger question. Plus, how to turn a stagnant dating experience into an opportunity f...

The stories we tell ourselves; do they serve us, or not? How much time does a widow or widower need before engaging in dating? Listen in on Peter's early dating adventures, how two women missed a golden opportunity, while Karen gets a fourth date with him. Plus, flirting tips for this Covid era!

How good are you at selling....yourself? Listen in on my lively, edu-taining interview with bestselling author, Chellie Campbell, on how to design an effective sales strategy for your dating life, incorporating The Law of Attraction and The Law of Action.

Dare you dive deeper on your early dates, to ask questions, to tackle topics that are scary and oh so important to know about? In this episode I share dozens of topics that you might consider broaching on your early dates, to spur growth, connection and open-hearted communication. It's your date, you get to design it!

Are you making the right choices, regarding who to meet, who to see again, who to keep dating? Let's find out together to see how you score on this Dating Quiz. Ten real, live dating issues that you get to consider, and your score will reveal if the choices you typically make are spot on or .... lousy. Are you maximizing your opportunities, or not?  

Have you been in a relationship with someone who was toxic, abusive, perhaps narcissistic? Join me in an uplifting and enlightening conversation with psychotherapist/bestselling author Heather Kent about the nature of toxic relationships. Heather shows us how to heal, release and recover, enabling new opportunities for love. 

Join in on my conversation with Matchmaker & Dating Coach Michelle Jacoby as we identify classic, common, tragic mistakes too often made in dating. And those who turned things around, finding their way into loving partnerships - how they did that and what we can learn from their courageous, innovative, outside the box choices!

Listen in on my interview with dating expert Hunt Ethridge on developing social charisma. How women can learn to use playful, feminine energy to lure and magnetize a man. Why a woman who provides hints/direction as to what will make her happy will always have greater success with men. When a powerful, strong woman out-earns her guy and her being comfortable with it makes it perfectly fine. How to...

Listen in on the tales of dating done well and...dating done poorly. Where do you see yourself? Which traps have you fallen into? Which traps are you continually falling into? Are your expectations in line with today's potential realities? Or are you fooling yourself? What comes more naturally to you -- appreciation or flaw-finding? And what you can do to make this holiday season meaningful and lo...

Listen in on Allie's transformative story. How one introverted girl is discovering the true nature of love, by shifting her focus, by changing up her habit, and by learning how to cause connection and love; rather than waiting or hoping for something inspirational or magical to happen. 

Why are you single, really? Your single pals, why are they single? Is it because of challenging circumstances out there? Or is it more than that? Might it really be more about YOU and the "devil inside" that you know is lurking below the surface? Listen in with me as we dig into these questions: What makes you hard to match? Hard to be with? And why are you WORTH IT? 

Who do you know? Listen in as I share examples of courageous personal networking strategies that transformed once-stagnant love lives. How to find and engage the angels and golden nuggets who are tucked away in your personal networks, on your phone's contacts list, in your social media communities. What would happen if you re-thought your own veto process, to relax those maybe not so important no-...

Headaches/stomach aches...which do you truly prefer? Which do you dislike more? Listen in as we take an honest look at the REAL reasons for why so many are choosing to stay uncoupled. And are you missing real connection because of the relationship you have with your PHONE? Are you out of practice in the fine art of being truly present? Let's take a look together!

Julie has Brian Howie in the Guest Chair today, Creator of the Great Love Debate. How has his love life evolved over 7 years and 400+ live shows about dating? Which are the best cities and the worst cities for dating? Brian addresses the evolution of our gender issues and the contribution that the pandemic has made to our dating culture. Plus, why is Brian hopeful, enthusiastic and encouraged abou...

Might you be wise to rethink the kids issue? Is the type of person you're hoping to date likely to go for you...at this time in your life? Join me as we address the sensitive fertility/age issue. Hear how Holly handled things when her boyfriend's ex re-entered the picture. And how to gracefully spin a political mismatch.

Why is it that I typically encourage men and women NOT to hire a matchmaker? How might you meet someone without even becoming the matchmaking client? What's a Mitzvah Match and how can you get in on that action? Listen in as I share inside scoop on how to get "in" with your local matchmaker, even if you're not the one in that high priced hot seat.   

Coach Rori Raye is in the hot seat today, teaching us about Modern Siren Skills, the subtle energy shifts that serve to draw a man in. She sheds light on the words and the body language that inspire romance and commitment. What can we learn from boredom and discomfort? And why chaos and messiness can sometimes be a good thing!   

What is love addiction? How can we know if our cravings and desires have crossed the line into obsession? Psychotherapist Sherry Gaba guides us through a thought-provoking, eye-opening discussion that reveals the nature of, and the impact, of love addiction. How it originates, how it takes hold and also how we can release it. She gives us tools for rewiring our brains for true love, first for ours...

Have you missed opportunities for partnership and companionship based on something related to...money? Are your expectations around money realistic today? At this time in your life? In today's world? Dive in with me on the exploration of money and how it impacts our decisions regarding dating and relationships. Where are you on the Entitlement Scale? What resentments have built up over time for yo...

First dates by Zoom are increasingly commonplace. Don't avoid them; rather, join in on my discussion with Rachel Greenwald on how to prepare for your Zoom date. Rethink how you're entering and exiting your online dates. Discover the power in your voice as your connection tool and the gift that is your focused presence. Creating topics, questions and tactics to cause connection and intimacy, even t...

How might your alcohol habit or dependency be impacting your dating life? Join in on my conversation with James Swanwick, author of "The 30-Day No Alcohol Challenge" to take a peek at what may be a pesky little (or not so little) deterrent to your creating the relationship you truly desire. Could it be that choosing to release alcohol from your lifestyle will result in greater freedom, enhanced co...

Is "your type" the right choice for you, in reality? Listen in on Robin's story, as she and I wrestle with that question, and as she develops the courage to consciously choose to engage with men who are off-type. And how one guy got the girl through patience, persistence, confidence, and a bit of yard work!  

Join in on my conversation with Kathryn Alice, on recovering from loss and discovering the blocks that both protect us and limit us. How to release unhealthy attachments to a past love, former lifestyle or limiting belief, to clear space for fresh, new beginnings. What is Crazy Love? How to manage hot chemistry and how to recognize a true soulmate candidate. Plus, secrets to aligning on the pace o...

How large is your generosity of spirit? How courageous and compassionate have you been being with your communication? When we screw up, the value in a sincere apology and how to restore trust and engagement. Is why you're single related to your alcohol or pot smoking habits? Is it time to do a 30-day No Alcohol Challenge? What might happen to your dating life if you carved off that extra 10-20 pou...