Create Your Fate

"The only way out of a rut is through it. Stop searching for distractions and start searching for yourself." ~ Meg In This Episode: Learn the 4 steps to get out of a rut See how you can appreciate where you are Use it to see where to go in the future Practice the 5-Why Method Great for all Enneagram Types! Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! Have you been constantly in...

"Perhaps the reason you don’t notice your progress is because you keep raising the bar." -- Meg In this episode: Understand why we hold ourselves to impossible standards and how it leads to burnout. Recognize the subconscious programming behind perfectionism and self-criticism. Learn how to shift from self-punishment to self-compassion. Take actionable steps to make rest a requirement, not a rewar...

"Your brain will always choose a familiar hell over an unfamiliar heaven. Because its one job is to protect us and keep us safe. It does not care about happiness. It cares about safety." -- Meg In this episode: Bravery is an action, not a feeling—stop waiting to “feel” ready. Your brain prioritizes safety over happiness, but you don’t have to. Shift from “what if” to “what is” and take the drama o...

"If all you ever do is focus on the parts you want to change about yourself, you'll never accept yourself...and if you never accept yourself, you'll never be able to love yourself." -- Meg In this episode: Understand what true self-acceptance is See how self-acceptance is related to self-worth How to have a more authentic sense of self How to stop that inner-critic voice inside of your head Get yo...

"Happiness isn’t something you find—it’s something you practice." — Yaniv Shanti In this episode: Why happiness isn’t just about joy—and what it really means to be happy The biggest traps people fall into when chasing happiness How to break free from external validation and cultivate self-acceptance Practical ways to train your "happiness muscles" and shift your mindset Get your free 7-day trial t...

"You are not going to be able to love yourself until you accept yourself, and you are not going to be able to accept yourself if you keep trying to change yourself because you're focused on all the things you hate about yourself." – Meg In this episode: Understand how the "why" behind your actions determines success or failure. Learn how negative motivators, like self-hate, sabotage long-term succ...

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." – Marianne Williamson In this episode: Why you are not the exception to success—you are just as capable as anyone else. How self-doubt and limiting beliefs are keeping you from stepping into your full potential. The importance of recognizing the difference between fear and truth in your minds...

"Most of the time, when you say 'it's not worth it,' what you really mean is I'M not worth it. " -- Meg In this episode: Your decisions should be based on worth and alignment with your future self , not fear, difficulty, or cost. What you focus on expands—shifting your focus from obstacles to value changes your entire experience. Self-worth directly impacts decision-making; whe...

"There's nothing. more valuable than being free of an affliction that you know is pulling you down, whether it's alcohol or any substance or a behavior." -- Tina Hines Wrotenbery In this episode: Explore the benefits reducing and eliminating alcohol in your life How to go beyond just "Dry January" and still have a social life Dive into holistic practices, such as Breathwork, to help you navigate l...

"We continuously show up for other people, which is great --but we can sacrifice ourselves along the way." -- Meg In this episode: What choosing yourself in 2025 looks like Sneaky ways you have been self-abandoning and not choosing yourself How to align yourself to get back to your true authentic self How to choose (and love) ALL parts of yourself Begin your 7-day trial to the FATE online life coa...

"Integrity to yourself is more important than integrity to anybody else." -- Meg In this episode: Learn how easy it is to change your mind Understand the art of doing what you want Why changing your mind can be scary How to know if you’re making the right decision for you Begin your 7-day trial to the FATE online life coaching community FOR FREE ! Get unlimited access to coaching tools, Enneagram...

" Energy flows where your attention goes. If your mind automatically goes to the worst case scenario or to a negative potential that does not exist yet, that is where you are sending energy to meet you." -- Meg In this episode: Learn how to focus on the facts and nothing but the facts Stop worrying about every little thing Figure out what your emotions are actually telling you Find out what your t...

" You don't have to to feel responsible for other people's emotions. Who you were is not who you are. Identify who you want to be and take small steps to becoming that person." -- Meg In this episode: Learn how to stop people pleasing Survive and thrive through this holiday season Stop being overcommitted to other people Start realizing that you are not responsible for other people's emotions Begi...

"We say yes, because we don't want confrontation. We don't want to feel guilty. We don't want someone not to like us." -- Meg In this episode: Learn how to say no AND mean it How to still say yes to yourself Find out why it is so hard to say no and see how to overcome the need to say yes Let go about worrying how other people perceive you Begin your 7-day trial to the FATE online life coaching com...

"Here's a really great thing about triggers. People don't trigger you. People show you what your triggers are." -- Meg In this episode: Learn what a trigger is and when to take responsibility for them Discover the damage (to yourself!) for blaming your triggers on others Find out what do your triggers say about you? How to stop letting other people trigger you Begin your 7-day trial to the FATE on...

"The universe likes clarity. Once you align your current energy with the energy of your manifestation, it allows you to receive and attract the things you desire because it is a clear match." -- Meg In this episode: Learn how to clean your energy (and why it's important) Find out why your manifesting isn't working Dive deep into the practice of Ho' Opono Pono Start healing attachments and restorin...

"You don't have to reinvent the wheel. Just remember how the wheel works." -- Meg In this episode: Ways to discover who you truly are Unique and fun ways the universe talks to you and how to listen Explore the idea of Life Cycles (numerology) The importance of having your values...and not forgetting about them Begin your 7-day trial to the FATE online life coaching community FOR FREE ! Get unlimit...

"Learn to ask yourself this simple question: What is this costing me?" -- Meg In this episode: Learn what an "energy vampire" is and identify 5 energy vampires that are draining your energy Learn this one simple question that can help you protect your energy so you can live a more peaceful life Identify toxic friendships in your life and self-sabotaging behaviors Find out how to prioritize your ne...

"You have purpose. You have a sense of self. You have a soul. You have divinity within you. You can unlock these beautiful, beautiful experiences for yourself." -- Meg In this episode: Break down the difference between your ego and your essence Learn why ego is not your friend and see how to know when it's trying to take over Find a way to ensure your life is not stuck on repeat Unmask the tricks...

"When you let go of perfection, you create space for innovation because you're not fearing making a mistake or taking a leap of faith" -- Meg In this episode: Learn the 4 steps to overcoming perfectionism Find out what the root cause of perfectionism is Discover why it's ok to make mistakes Become ready to change your entire outlook when it comes to being "perfect" Begin your 7-day trial to the FA...

"I deserve the things that I want. I deserve to be successful. I deserve to get what I want." -- Meg In this episode: Learn why failure is not the scariest thing out there How do you feel when I say "What if it all works out?" Unpack the fear of success and how it is vastly different than the fear of failure Figure out how to stop self-sabotaging yourself once you unpack these self-limiting belief...

"You can't trust and control at the same time because you cannot allow and control at the same time." -- Meg In this episode: Learn why you might be refusing to let things go Deconstruct the idea that we can control everything in life and learn the power of "releasing the outcome" and how to do it Discover how to manifest your desired outcome (or something even better!) by learning to let go of th...

"You are allowed to feel multiple emotions at the same time, and that doesn't mean you are not ready just because you do." -- Meg In this episode: See how reframing ready from "feeling" to "decision" can immediately implement the changes you've been putting off Find out WHY you're not making big moves Learn about the power of decision making and how it will help you overcome the fears keeping you...

"Ask yourself: Am I listening to understand? Or am I listening to respond?" -- Meg In this episode: Find out why listening is so hard and how to improve your listening skills See how improving your listening skills can help deepen your relationships and connections in life Grasp how your Enneagram may affect how you listen Learn this powerful listening exercise that you can practice with your part...

"I am telling you to take ownership of your annoyance and your anger, because when you do that, that is when you can actually make change " -- Meg In this episode: Learn how to become less triggered by other people and situations Take ownership of the anger and annoyance in your life Accept and get rid of those irritating situations How to identify your triggers Begin your 7-day trial to the FATE...