Create the Work of Your Life

In our society, we are invited to believe that how someone appears on the outside is how they feel on the inside. Pretty on the outside equals pretty feelings on the inside. Appearing confident on the outside means that person must feel confident on the inside. People who look “strong” on the outside must feel strong on the inside. However, how a person appears to you doesn’t necessarily equate to...

There was a time when my internal emotional environment was extremely Inhospitable. This episode shares a key technique I used to walk my way out of persistent and brutal self-talk and into the creation of a compassion, kind and loving internal voice, which made all the difference in the world. Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www. SoulCoach. Today/ . Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera...

When you are part of the way through a challenging situation, path, process or class, your mind may inundate you with thoughts of worry, stress, quitting, and justifying your every complaint. Here is an alternative to following the urgings of your mind by being more deliberate and choosing what you think "on purpose." Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www. SoulCoach. Today/ . Learn more about work...

Have you ever envied the Cool Girls? Or wanted to be a Cool Girl? Do the Cool People have a different experience than the rest of us? And is there really such a thing as the Cool Crowd. Today's episode explores looking good vs. feeling good. Which one "is" your priority? And which one do you "want" to be your priority. Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www. SoulCoach. Today/ . Learn more about wor...

It is possible to let people love you or hate you, or anything in between. When you know who the most important person in the world is, you can let others sing your praises or not. (And that includes mom, dad, child, spouse, whoever). Learn about the one opinion that matters most. Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www. SoulCoach. Today/ . Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create...

As Eleanor Roosevelt said, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." And what if...the opposite is true as well? People can influence us positively or negatively, but ultimately, we own our internal belief systems. Note: I mis-quote Eleanor Roosevelt in this episode. The correct quote is: "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: ww...

As we bring ourselves and our creations into the world, there are moments when our minds will offer up these questions: What's the point? It doesn't matter anyway? It's never going to work? Are you sure you're cut out for this? Learn how to meet The Moments like these. Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www. SoulCoach. Today/ . Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Coll...

Do you have a big creative vision that you want to bring to life? Do you think that achievement will finally prove that you are "somebody" or that you're finally "worthy"? Not so fast. Bringing that vison to life will be challenging and require effort, but you're never compensating for worth. Learn a better way to go about builidng your big dream. Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www. SoulCoach....

Have you ever thought that you shouldn't even be here, that your birth was a mistake, or that the odds surrounding your survival were so stacked against you that your presence on Earth isn't even warranted? This very personal story details the suffering caused by the painful interpretations we believe about our very existence. Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www. SoulCoach. Today/ . Learn more a...

Putting your creative work in the world can feel perilous and challenging to your nervous system. Expect it and plan accordingly. The threat of being eviscerated doesn't have to stop you. You can decide that expressing yourself fully is worth the risk. Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www. SoulCoach. Today/ . Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) wher...