Covenant Army Marriage Podcast

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy Howell deliver a clear, convicting call to action for husbands and wives. This is not about entertainment. These are marching orders for covenant couples who are serious about honoring God and protecting their marriage. The heart of the episode centers on a growing concern with dishonor in the way spouses speak to and about one...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy tackle one of the biggest cultural and spiritual battles of our time. Everyone has an opinion about why marriage is declining. Some blame irresponsible men. Others blame modern, progressive women. But the truth runs much deeper. Behind the statistics, behind the narratives, and behind the shifting desires of the next generation...

In this eye-opening episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy pull back the curtain on a threat most couples underestimate. It isn’t dramatic. It rarely feels dangerous. But if left unchecked, it quietly chips away at trust, intimacy and unity. They call it what it is. The silent threat of social media. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast 00:30 The...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy tackle a reality most couples eventually face. The person you married won’t stay the same, and neither will you. Change can feel unsettling. It can make you look across the room at the one you love and silently wonder, “Who are you becoming?” But instead of running from that tension, this episode shows you how to lean into it wi...

In this hard-hitting Covenant Army Marriage episode, we confront a painful but common reality-many people let themselves go in their marriage, and don’t start taking care of themselves, physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually, until after their marriage has already fallen apart. We unpack why this happens, how complacency slowly kills connection, and why pain becomes a wake-up call for s...

Many couples stay together “for the kids,” but secretly, one spouse is already planning their exit. It’s called The Secret Divorce — a quiet decision to leave once the children are grown. In this raw and truth-filled episode, we expose the spiritual deception behind this hidden plan and the damage it does to hearts, homes, and generations. Whether you’re the one planning to leave, or the one sensi...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, hosts Brent and Lucy delve into the essence of biblical manhood, emphasizing that true leadership begins with submission to Christ. They challenge the worldly view of leadership as power and control, presenting a transformative perspective where leadership is rooted in love, humility, and service, as exemplified by Jesus. Chapters 00:00 - Intr...

In this powerful and heartfelt episode of The Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy unpack one of the most overlooked, yet most powerful, spiritual weapons in marriage—humility. They get real about how pride quietly sneaks into relationships, turning every disagreement into a battlefield and every conversation into a competition. Through biblical truth, raw honesty, and relatable examples...

In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast , Brent and Lucy speak directly to spouses who feel stuck in a marriage that feels lifeless or beyond repair. With raw honesty and biblical truth, they remind listeners that what looks dead to man is never too far gone for God. Chapters 0:00 Introduction and Welcome1:30 Addressing Lifeless Marriages3:45 The Power of God's Word6:15...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy discuss the transformative power of sacrifice in marriage, drawing parallels between biblical altars and the marriage altar. They emphasize the importance of daily sacrifice, surrender, and unity in a God-honoring marriage, sharing personal anecdotes and biblical insights to inspire couples to strengthen their covenant. Chapters...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, hosts Brent and Lucy delve into the critical issue of passivity in marriage. They explore how passivity can manifest in relationships, its dangers, and how it can lead to emotional and spiritual disconnect. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Covenant Love and Purpose 00:57 Understanding Passivity in Marriage 04:08 Biblical Insights on Passivity 10...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy discuss the detrimental effects of an independent mindset on marriage. They emphasizes that marriage is designed for oneness, not independence, and explore how this mindset can create cracks in relationships. The conversation includes biblical references to support the idea of unity in marriage and offers practical steps for cou...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, we explore the foundational scripture of Deuteronomy 6:5-7, which calls us to love the Lord with all our heart, soul, and strength, and to impress these commandments upon our children. We discuss practical ways to integrate this scripture into our marriages and families, ensuring that our faith is not just a part of our lives but the very core...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent & Lucy dive into the pressing topic of spiritual warfare amidst a global revival. They discuss the increasing hunger for God, the significance of spiritual battles, and the role of prayer and repentance in reclaiming strongholds. The conversation emphasizes the importance of unity in marriage and the power of spiritual weapons in nav...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, we confront one of the most painful dynamics in marriage—when a wife courageously shares her hurt, but instead of being heard, she’s met with anger, blame, or defensiveness. What begins as an attempt to bring healing often turns into another wound, leaving her voice buried under silence and frustration. We expose the enemy’s lie that a woman’s...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, we delve into the age-old struggle of the blame game in marriage. From the story of Adam and Eve to modern-day relationships, we explore how focusing on our partner's faults can blind us to our own. Join us as we discuss practical steps to shift from blame to self-reflection, fostering a marriage rooted in humility and unity. Discover how...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent & Lucy dive into the intricate dynamics of leadership within marriage, focusing on the husband's role as the spiritual leader. They explore the common misconceptions that equate leadership with control and discover the true essence of Christ-like leadership. Through personal stories and biblical insights, they discuss the importa...

In this special episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, and join us as we unveil the "Forged For Mission: The Sacred Blueprint of Marriage," a transformative course designed to equip couples with biblical tools and strategies to thrive in their covenant mission. Discover how to guard your marriage against subtle attacks, build deep intimacy, and embrace your co-mission as partners...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy discuss the often misunderstood verse Genesis 3:16b, exploring its implications for marriage and relationships. They emphasize the impact of sin on the dynamics between husbands and wives, illustrating how the curse has led to power struggles and competition instead of partnership. They also share practical tools for overcoming...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent & Lucy tackle the real and often hidden battle of temptation in marriage. From emotional attachments and secret struggles to pride, bitterness, and the lure of counterfeits, temptation threatens to weaken the covenant God designed to be unbreakable. Drawing from Scripture and real-life scenarios, we uncover why temptation shows up, h...

In this raw and necessary episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy tackle a battle that many couples face but rarely talk about: using sex as a weapon in marriage. Whether it’s out of anger, hurt, control, or manipulation, withholding intimacy isn’t just emotional sabotage, it’s spiritual warfare. Drawing from 1 Corinthians 7:5, we unpack how intentional deprivation opens the...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, hosts Brent and Lucy tackle a common yet silent struggle in marriages: the thought of having married the wrong person. They explore how this lie can creep in during times of conflict and disconnection, and emphasize the importance of combating it with the truth of God's word. The discussion highlights the cultural misconceptions about marr...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, hosts Brent and Lucy tackle the difficult question of why God does not always restore marriages. The conversation delves into the pain of divorce, the consequences of sin, and the hope that can be found even in suffering. Chapters 00:00 Understanding God's Role in Marriage Restoration 02:39 The Nature and Character of God 05:31 The Complex...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, hosts Brent and Lucy delve into the topic of defensiveness in marriage, exploring its roots, effects, and how to combat it. They emphasize the importance of humility, love, and open communication as tools to foster intimacy and connection. The conversation includes practical steps for couples to break the cycle of defensiveness, such as pausin...

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, hosts Brent and Lucy explore the intriguing question: Does God speak to us through dreams? They delve into biblical examples, such as Joseph and Pharaoh, to illustrate how dreams have historically served as a divine communication channel. Tune in to discover practical ways to steward dreams in your relationship and deepen your spiritual intima...