Coupled With...

In this powerful episode, I’m joined by therapist Edan Zebooloon, LMHC, for an honest, eye-opening conversation about male vulnerability—why it’s so hard, why it matters, and what often gets in the way. We explore the emotional bind many men live in: wanting to connect but feeling trapped by a culture that equates emotional expression with weakness. Edan shares his personal journey of surrendering...

What do you do when you’re not the one who lashes out… but the one who shuts down? When your partner’s emotions take over—and your voice disappears? This episode is for the partners who hold it all together. The ones who manage, soothe, edit, and shrink—just to keep the peace. If you’ve ever felt like the only way to stay in your relationship is to go quiet, you’re not alone. Inside the episode, I...

Let’s be honest— You didn’t fall in love over spreadsheets and garbage duty. But now? You’re stuck in a cycle where the dishes feel like a personal betrayal, the laundry sparks arguments, and the unspoken resentment is starting to feel heavier than the mental load you’re carrying. In this episode, I’m breaking down what’s really going on when couples fight about chores—and spoiler alert: it’s not...

Ever found yourself mid-argument thinking, “What am I even saying right now?” You can feel your voice getting sharper, your heart pounding, the words flying out before you can catch them. And afterward? The shame. The self-blame. The fear you’ve done damage you can’t undo. This episode is for you —the partner who reacts quickly, deeply, maybe loudly... and who hates that it keeps happening. In thi...

Host: Dr. Rachel Orleck Guest: Shannon McCune, LMHC What makes a real apology land? Why do some repair attempts make things worse, not better? In this episode, Dr. Rachel Orleck is joined by therapist Shannon McCune for a grounded, eye-opening conversation on how to truly repair after conflict. They unpack why well-meaning explanations often backfire, what a real repair looks like in the moment, a...

You want love. You have love. But sometimes… closeness still feels like a threat. You shut down. You lash out. You say you’re fine—but inside, your system is bracing for the worst. This episode is for the partner with trauma—the one who’s been through things that made love feel unsafe. The one who’s still learning how to trust connection without losing control. In part two of this two-part series,...

When you love someone with relational trauma—someone who's been abandoned, betrayed, or emotionally neglected—it can feel like you're always walking a tightrope. You're trying to be patient, consistent, and safe… but sometimes, no matter what you do, it still feels like you're being punished for pain you didn’t cause. In this episode of Coupled With , Dr. Rachel Orleck breaks down the hidden dynam...

Holding Space for the Heartbreak: Navigating Pregnancy Loss & Infertility 💬 Episode Summary: Pregnancy loss and infertility are heartbreaking—and often invisible—realities that deeply affect couples on every level. In this tender and honest conversation, Dr. Rachel Orleck sits down with reproductive psychologist Dr. Julie Bindeman to explore how these experiences impact relationships, communi...

Blame feels powerful in the moment. It gives us a sense of control, a sense of righteousness — but it also creates the very disconnection we’re trying to avoid. In this episode, we’re taking a brutally honest and compassionate look at blame: why we do it, how it protects us, and how it slowly erodes trust, intimacy, and emotional safety in relationships. If you ever find yourself thinking: “Why am...

Host: Dr. Rachel Orleck Guest: Alicia Webber, Reproductive and Perinatal Therapist Episode Summary: Infertility can feel like one of the most isolating experiences a couple can face — but it doesn’t have to push you apart. In today’s heartfelt episode, Dr. Rachel Orleck is joined by reproductive and perinatal therapist Alicia Ferris to explore how couples can stay connected and support each other...

Why You Lose It in Love: The Truth About Self-Regulation and Connection Learn how attachment, nervous system wiring, and co-regulation shape your relationship dynamic. Why do we lose it when we care the most? In this episode, Dr. Rachel Orleck breaks down the real reason self-regulation feels impossible in close relationships. You’ll learn how your attachment style wires your nervous system for pr...

In this powerful and intimate episode, Dr. Rachel Orleck sits down with coach and infertility warrior Urvi Shah to explore how healing from vaginismus not only changed her body, but deepened her relationship. Together, they explore the emotional toll of vaginismus, the mind-body connection, the power of pelvic floor therapy, and how opening up to her partner helped Urvi reclaim intimacy, trust, an...

Hosted by Dr. Rachel Orleck, Couples Therapist & Coach Do you find yourself overthinking every text before you send it? Or rehearsing exactly what to say so your partner doesn’t get upset—or so the conversation stays “calm”? That’s not just communication anxiety. That’s relationship perfectionism. In this episode of Coupled With… , we’re talking about: Why perfectionism shows up in your relati...

Hosted by Dr. Rachel Orleck, Couples Therapist & Coach Ever find yourself having the same argument on repeat? Or walking away from a conversation wondering, “How did we even get here?” You're not alone—and there’s a reason for that. In this first episode of Coupled With… , we’re diving into: What attachment theory actually is (in everyday, real-life terms) Why conflict isn’t just about what yo...

Hosted by Dr. Rachel Orleck, Couples Therapist & Coach If you’ve ever felt like your relationship takes  too much effort  for how much you care about each other—this podcast is for you. In this short trailer episode, I’m giving you a peek into what you can expect from  Coupled With… Whether you're feeling stuck in repetitive arguments, walking on eggshells trying to say things “...