COR Parenting Conversations

Caley’s kicking off another “Behavior Bytes” series to help parents better understand and respond to common early childhood behavior. In this byte-sized episode, we tackle the common situation of a child looking RIGHT AT YOU and doing exactly what you’re telling them NOT to do!  For more behavior support within a like-minded community, check-out Caley’s COR Community: www.caleykukla.com/cor T...

This is the time of year that children, teachers, and parents tend to anticipate the end of the school year and transition into the next one! This can lead to an increase in stress behaviors such as rigidity, increased aggression, more emotional sensitivity, and other frustrating behaviors. Prep yourself and your children in advance with these simple, tactical strategies! Links mentioned in the sh...

How do we approach conversations with our partners about parenting when our philosophies don’t align? How can we have productive conversations instead of explosive ones? Sheina and Caley answer these questions and so much more in this COR Parenting Conversation.  You can find out more about Sheina’s support and membership to feel in love with your partner again at: https://www.loveafterbaby.c...

***Mature content warning. Not recommended for young ears.**** In this week’s COR Parenting Conversation, Caley is joined by New York Times bestselling author, Jessica Lahey, as she discusses the tricky conversation around alcohol. Whether you’re a parent navigating life in a culture where substance use is prevalent OR a parent who is breaking cycles around substance abuse, this is a MUST LISTEN.&...

In this COR Parenting Conversation, Caley tackles a common misperception that Conscious Parenting is Permissive Parenting. She explains a practical, applicable tool to help parents set limits with their children in a way that empowers parents to be confident, compassionate leaders.  For more information about The Limit Setting Guide or the COR Community, head to: www.caleykukla.com/cor . This...

This is SUCH an inspirational episode!! Full of a mother’s journey from reactive to responsive parenting and how that shaped her son, their family, and ultimately her son’s legacy after his passing at age 24. Join Caley and Ginny as they discuss her upcoming book: “Blue Star Grit: A Mother’s Journey Of Triumph and Tragedy Raising a Defiant Child Into An Exceptional Leader” .  Ginny Luther is...

Caley sits down to have a conversation with the founder of Kind Cotton, Kaitlin Johnstone . Kaitlin, a former kindergarten teacher, felt pulled to leave the classroom to create connection and kindness on a greater scale through children’s literature. This conversation will inspire as well as inform.  Click HERE to learn more about Kind Cotton.  Click HERE to learn more about Caley’s COR...

Need more tools in your toolbox for the “whiney” days? The days that just seem like, no matter what you do, the whining persists and YOU struggle to stay regulated because it starts to take a toll. Caley gives you some fun and creative strategies to help reset you AND your child through laughter in this episode!   For more information about the COR Community Membership head to www.caleyk...

Baby talk, helplessness, and “fake” crying are common early childhood behaviors that trigger parents! Why do our children do this?! How can we support them in a way that also moves them past this behavior? Caley answers these questions and more in this episode! Get ready for Caley's Get Silly Challenge - a 7-day supported challenge to increase connection and decrease power struggles. The fun start...

It’s not just your child who resists transitions and you’re not the only parent exhausted by the daily battles to get in the car or come to the table! Why are they like this and how can we help?! Caley PACKED this episode with helpful reframes AND practical strategies to build connection and decrease power struggles.  Transform power struggles with giggles and receive simple strategies in the...

Punishment and discipline tend to be synonymous in mainstream parenting. How will a child learn without punishment? Amanda and Caley tackle this question with practical action steps and real-life examples from their own lives with school-aged boys!  Amanda and her husband David are the founders of Flourishing Homes and Families. You can find out more about their ministry at: @flourishinghomes...

Have you ever tried a parenting strategy from social media and had it blow up in your face? Chances are, you didn’t do anything “wrong”. Sometimes, timing is everything. Join Caley as she deep dives into children’s different regulation states and how we can effectively respond.  For more conversations like these, check out the COR Membership at www.caleykukla.com/cor This podcast uses the fol...

“Children do well when they can” isn’t just a parenting mantra, it’s a core belief that can drastically shift our interactions with our children and every person with whom we interact. Join Caley for the brain science behind this saying and practical tips for how to apply this in your daily life.  Resources mentioned in this podcast include:  The Explosive Child By Dr. Ross Greene Free S...

We cannot hold our children to a higher standard than we hold ourselves is one of my core beliefs when it comes to parenting. Modeling is the most effective way to teach our children skills such as self-regulation. In this episode Caley breaks down self-regulation into 5 different steps for PARENTS, so we can teach our children.  References mentioned in the podcast: Managing Emotional Mayhem...

“Responsive Rhythms” help us plan for success with our children! They create predictability to create a foundational level of safety without feeling stifled and anxious with rigid expectations. In this episode, Caley shares tips, questions for self-reflection, and practical planning steps so you can use responsive rhythms during the holidays.  For a deeper dive into planning for peace, check...

Holidays with children can create such wonderful memories AND they can bring a lot of social and familial pressure. Permission to do what meets the needs of your immediate family members, especially the youngest, most sensitive ones. In this COR Parenting Conversation, Caley discusses common “Holiday Hot Button” topics that can be helped with clear and kind boundaries. Easy-to-remember scripts are...

As we make holiday plans to visit with friends and family, you may find yourself in situations with dogs and children. It’s important to plan ahead for both children and canines to keep everyone safe and relaxed. Dominika Knossalla-Pado, dog behavior expert and the creator of the  @dogmeets_baby  Instagram account, will provide surprising insights into ensuring safety for all during this...

Welcome to November! The holiday season is starting, which can mean lots of fun traditions, family time, and cozy seasonal activities. It can also mean extra stress from activities, expectations, gift-giving, and so much more. How do we simplify the holidays so we can actually decrease the stress and increase the connection with our children? Join Caley and Katy as they give examples from their ow...

As we enter the holiday season, be prepared for the “fun hangover” that will typically follow. In this episode, Caley will explain the *why* behind some of the common challenging behaviors during and after big events AND how to handle them. For more information about the visual schedule head to mightandbright.com For more information about the COR Membership Program, head to: www.caleykukla.com/co...

In this “byte-sized” episode, Caley covers the common early childhood behavior: name-calling .  This is such a common behavior during the preschool years and elementary school! Learn how to approach it, redirect it, and use it as a teaching opportunity instead of shutting the child down or giving the mean words more power.  For more information about the COR Membership Program, head to:...

In this “byte-sized” episode, Caley covers the common early childhood behavior: mean “self-talk” .  This is the “I’m so stupid!” remarks that can be jarring when we hear our children make them, but they can actually be an opening to a beautiful discussion to better understand your child. Join Caley as she gives you pointers to approach this tricky conversation.   For more informatio...

In this “byte-sized” episode, Caley covers the common early childhood behavior: difficulty accepting “no” . Join Caley as she explains the “why” behind it and how caregivers can respond in a way that strengthens the relationship AND reduces the behavior.  For more information about the COR Membership Program, head to: www.caleykukla.com/cor This podcast uses the following third-party services...

In this “byte-sized” episode, Caley covers the common early childhood behavior: yelling & screaming. This can be an especially triggering behavior because it’s SO LOUD and jarring. Join Caley as she explains the “why” behind it and how caregivers can respond in a way that strengthens the relationship AND reduces the behavior.  For more information about the COR Membership Program, head to...

In this “byte-sized” episode, Caley covers the common early childhood behavior: running away & hiding .  This can be a common, confusing, and, at times, scary childhood behavior. Join Caley as she explains the “why” behind it and how caregivers can respond in a way that strengthens the relationship AND reduces the behavior.  For more information about the COR Membership Program, head...

In this “bite-size” episode, Caley covers the common early childhood behavior: ignoring .  How triggering is it when our children flat-out act like they can’t hear us?! Join Caley as she explains the “why” behind it and how caregivers can respond in a way that strengthens the relationship AND reduces the behavior.  For more information about the COR Membership Program, head to: www.caley...