Conversations with a Dom

In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau help two readers who submitted questions about transitioning from a Master/slave dynamic to more of a Daddy Dom/Little dynamic, and what to do if you're kinky but your partner isn't. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your drea...

In this BDSM podcast episode by Kinky Events , Mistress Jayne, a London-based Dominant, shares her story of how she ended up in this world, and how she helps people safely discover kinky connections and intimacy. Mistress Jayne can be found on Instagram @sexcoachsarahjane . Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality w...

In this BDSM podcast episode, I dish out my favourite tips and techniques for heightening submission and having loads of fun in your power-play dynamic. There really are some KILLER tips in this episode that I've used and had fantastic results with for years. Enjoy! Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with...

In this episode of the Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast Moineau and Chief talk to Emily, a reader who emailed in asking if she could share her experiences of engaging in a D/s dynamic after testing positive for the Herpes simplex virus (HSV).  We talk about: What HSV is and what the symptoms are How Emily contracted Herpes What she does and doesn't do in her dynamic to keep herself and o...

*TRIGGER WARNING* On this episode of Conversations with a Dom Chief and Moineau answer a reader's question about DDlg. What is it? How do we practice it in our relationship? And how might you go about introducing it into your relationship? We discuss psychology, why it turns us on, and how to talk to a partner about it. Please note: We also discuss CNC, the R word, childhood trauma, and paren...

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau discuss their trip to L.A.M. (London Alternative Market); why consent is sometimes a grey area, especially when it comes to implicit vs explicit consent; why punishments aren't always what they seem; and then ask ChatGPT what it knows about BDSM (quite a lot!). Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex lif...

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom , the podcast about D/s and BDSM for beginners, Chief and Moineau reflect on their 2022 kinky activities, discuss Chief's new course for beginner submissives, and answer questions asked by the Kinky Events Community members. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality wi...

In this episode Belle talks about her experiences as a beginner submissive, how she overcame shame around her sexual desires, what her submissive training involved, and how getting involved in dominance and submission has impacted her life. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your drea...

Anal aficionado Moineau and anal virgin Belle answer questions submitted by readers of the Kinky Events community (Join here! kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community ) in this sub takeover episode, where Chief has been banished! They answer questions such as: How did/do you prepare mentally for anal play? And is it a different mindset when you were just starting on your own to when you were with Chief...

In this episode Chief and Moineau discuss how they've recently hit a slump, and some strategies they're thinking about introducing in order to keep the dynamic fresh and exciting. You'll learn about the power of rituals, ideas to keep your dominant and submissive energy alive, and how to encourage your partner to take on a more dominant or submissive role. Support the show ---------...

In this episode of the Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast, Chief and Moineau talk to Kels and Tess from Squirm , an adult sex education platform committed to promoting healthy sexual communication. You'll learn ways to improve how you communicate about sex and desires with partners, how to bring up kinks, common mistakes to avoid, and how to be a more effective communicator in general. Rem...

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom , Chief (a male Dominant) and Moineau (a female submissive) experiment with Wisdom , an app where mentors can give talks, share knowledge, and help make the world a better place. They discuss Subspace, Subdrop, Aftercare, and other things related to BDSM and dominance and submission. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life...

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, the podcast all about dominants and submissive's, Moineau (a sub) asks Chief (a dominant) some personal questions about kink and BDSM, including what got him into it, what his favourite toys are, and much more! Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book an...

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom (a BDSM podcast for beginners) Chief from KinkyEvents.co.uk browses through the BDSM subreddit for questions, reads them out, and give some answers and advice. Topics include prostrate massage, when does a sub become a Dom, and funishments. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into...

In this week's episode of Conversations with a Dom Moineau and I are joined by Rosa Maxwell , a sex, love, and relationship coach based in London. We discuss: How to connect to your authentic desires How to share those desires with partner How to overcome feelings of shame about your sexual wants and needs  Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights...

Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk take on Buzzfeed's sex quiz in a head to head battle. Who knows more about sex? Listen to find out. We answer the sex questions and discuss the answers, throwing it tips and tricks to improve your sex life along the way. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my b...

Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk delve into Reddit to answer questions posted to the BDSM subreddits, and read out other people's answers. Questions include "My boyfriends too nice, what can I do?" and "My partner wants a threesome, what should I say?". If you're a beginner Dominant or submissive then these questions and answers will help you avoid the common...

Chief from KinkyEvents.co.uk discusses the trials and tribulations of dating when both kinky and non-monogamous. He discusses the best places to meet other people into Dom/sub dynamics, non-monogamy, and kink, and also at what point you should disclose this bombshell to potential partners. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasie...

Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk chat to Seren Sins , a London based female Dom, and Mistress of Experiences. You’ll learn what drove her to become a Dom, the kinds of experiences she offers, and some incredible tips on how YOU can embrace your desires and implement a little bit of kink into your relationships if you’re just starting out. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode...

Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk discuss the Dual Control Model of sexual response, and take the sexual temperament quiz from Emily Nagoski's book Come As You Are. Follow along and complete the quiz yourself, learn about sexual exciters and inhibitors, and how they can influence your sexual arousal, and impact your relationship. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Tak...

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk discuss how to introduce kink and Dom/sub power play into your relationship for beginners. We discuss: common challenges faced when bringing up kink with your partner; techniques to overcome nervousness, shame, and improve communication in D/s, including using sex menus, sharing porn, and establishing judgement-f...

Chief discusses tips for those who are new to D/s and want to become the best Dominant they can be. This episode discusses consent, your Dom personality, where to find a submissive to date, and a whole lots more about the world of Dom/sub dynamics. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Y...

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom Moineau and I discuss subspace. What subspace feels like? Are there levels of subspace? The two components of subspace What activities put you into subspace? Subspace and consent Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just...

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom I answer questions submitted by readers on my website KinkyEvents.co.uk , including: Do Doms really care about/love their subs? What would be a good punishment for talking back or attitude? Do you take enjoyment in punishments? What is one thing that turns on a Dom? Would you hurt your sub? Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your s...

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom Jessica from Pleasure Island Parties and I discuss sex parties. What really happens at them? How do you get invited? What sort of people attend? This and more are discussed in intimate detail. If you've every been curious about attending an adult play party, this one is for you. Support the show -------------- Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life...