Controvert Podcast

What's considered "normal" age gaps to date someone? Women will think "is he too old?" Men will think "am I borderline pedo?" When we were younger, dating someone 4 years older/younger used to be considered a BIG GAP. For people past the age of 20, that "normal" age gap and other age gaps start to vary between man and woman, older and younger. A person&#...

THIS CHICK GOES TO A RAVE WHILE PREGNANT! If you're thinking about having kids, think twice if you're not mature/able to care for yourself. We break down bad examples of parents having kids and being irresponsible. Sometimes, the best decision is to be responsible enough to walk away from having kids. ♠️ More of our Podcasts >> ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify Channel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ♠️ Follow...

She came STRAIGHT to the Controvert Studio for our FIRST DATE. We break down the fallbacks of teasing and other dating miscommunication. Problems with teasing over text, introducing to friends, social proofing virtually, voice messages on dating app, & much more... ♠️ More of our Podcasts >> ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify Channel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ♠️ Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ |...

In China, women past the age of 30 yrs old is considered a "LEFTOVER WOMAN." To some men though, 30+ yr old women can be FITTING, actually. Men as a whole, however, think of these "Leftover Women" as a depreciated asset. We talk about how the negative stigma IS ACTUALLY NOT THAT BAD depending on your preferences and how this stigma may make men neglect some pretty good options....

In China, Women believe men should pay on a date so it shows a man can "take care of her when she's pregnant." But what if he has enough to pay for the date to trick you into believing this? Would showing he's a man with other aspects (heavy lifting, taking initiative, ability to do DIY work) be the key rather than financial show? In any case, Men are suffering financially. They...

Men are starting to feel LESS INCLINED to treat a woman right. They're starting to not see the value for paying on dates. When men pay for dates, what does he want after? Hint: NOT SEX. The analysis of why this trait LACKS IN AMERICA is explained, why men pay for women LESS because of the lack of this trait. For the ladies out there, learn how to get guys to pay for women by unlocking this tra...

Coming home from a long day of work: "I DESERVE TO REST." Netflix n chill. Slack off. Rest. We've all been there. But are you really happy doing this? Co-host Dalan shares his experience cancelling Netflix and WHY YOU SHOULD DO MORE even AFTER finishing a tiring work day. This video is for those who want to get out of being stuck at their level. Wanting to maximize Delayed Gratificat...

What is the average a man can ejaculate? For women, this is key to why guys wouldn't want to have sex with you. It could possibly not be because he's seeing other girls. It could possibly not be because he doesn't find sex appealing with you. But it could just be something simpler. Most men get really tired after sex or masturbation. Andrew Tate, however, claims any ejaculation doesn&#...

FEMINISM IS SPREADING WORLDWIDE. From two men that have heavy experience dating OUTSIDE of America, guest speaker Axel and the host Panda compare one of the top minority races: Asian and Latin. How masculine or feminine women are is discussed across both countries (Taiwan and Mexico). The presence of the Feminist Movement is also looked at - whether or not it is spreading across Asian or Latin cou...

Women usually date older men. Men usually date younger women. But what about a guy's kink to date older women? There's a lot of talk about podcasts saying women over 35 yrs old is a depreciating asset. But this host intentionally dates women past 35 yrs old? Get into the mind of why some men would choose to give the older "depreciated asset" women more love than the youngins! ♠️...

We see an increasing amount of people being overprotective of their mental health. Are we influencing ourselves to believe we have "depression" the more we talk about it? Especially in the younger gen like Gen Z's...has it gotten to a point of placebo? Check out this talk to see how we as a society are beginning to romanticize a mental illness. ♠️ More of our Podcasts >> ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Guys usually become fuckboys because they lost "The One". But here's another reason why guys turn into fuckboys, and additionally, why they should not pursue "The One" at an early age & the consequences of pursuing "The One" at such a young age. This is good insight for those who are just graduating high school, in college, or just about to graduate college. T...

The common ideology since the dawn of time is to get married, have kids, and we would be happy. Why do we see so many parents having kids when they can't support themselves and they end up making their child happy and themselves unhappy? Are we doing it really for ourselves or for outside influences? We talk about how people are misled into wanting kids & impacts. ♠️ More of our Podcasts &...

19 yr old @loganduong (CEO of AlphasOnlyClub), featured in @whatever podcast, comes to give his ALPHA MALE / RED PILL philosophy. Behind the scenes of what his thoughts are on the panel for Dating Talk #54 (whatever), his personal life, and why modern dating is failing. ♠️ More of our Podcasts >> ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify Channel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ♠️ Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠...

A Mother who was EXTREMELY SICK for two weeks STILL cooks on a HOLIDAY WEEKEND. In Modern Dating, men have trouble finding women like this. Men and Women are more equal now, but maybe the household NEEDS powerful women like this? Men probably can't even be this powerful in the household. Is there a decreasing amount of unmarried modern-day women that can still do what this mother does? ♠️ More...

A weak man tried to destroy me recently. Here are 4 reasons you should STOP hanging out with WEAK MEN. Depression is a serious issue, but there comes a time where you need to prioritize YOURSELF. You are an average of your FIVE closest friends. If you let these weak men drag you down consistently, you lack the capacity to drive yourself forward and also put yourself in a dangerous position. ♠️ Mor...

Our FIRST ever Guest Speaker: A girl that goes to Alcohol Anonymous (AA) meetings shares her modern dating experience dating her COUNSELOR. Check out her perspective on dating, with her seasoned experience only dating GANGSTERS and her crazy stories of being locked up in jail, getting her counselor fired, hooking up with Controvert Host, her thoughts on masculinity/femininity & much more.... ♠...

After matching with someone on a dating app, you text them for at least a week to "get to know them" before meeting up. Texting online is to see virtual compatibility. But texting for at least a week gets tiring. Especially when you have to do it EVERY time before meeting up. Is it effective to keep texting a person or is it better to just hasten the process by meeting up? Let's Disc...

RELATE with this lost recent grad. He has graduated two years ago and STILL LOOKING for a direction. On the other hand, Panda, a former bad student, getting expelled from high school, having poor grades in college, and not that smart - a FAILURE - achieved success with all his handicaps. This podcast features experiences from a rookie and a veteran, how to develop your career, and how to get a job...

Men can cheat, but women can't. This is what Andrew Tate says. Why? Because of "STATUS". A man can take care of a woman but she in turn is expected to tolerate him cheating? We dive deeper in this interview analysis comparing a woman's pride, self-respect, a link to slavery. Disclaimer: We are not expressing ourselves as Tate supporters or Tate haters, and we are providing a neut...

Traditional culture paved the way to make women think they should date older men. That was proven from the beginning of time due to biological factors. Asides from biology, what reason do women date older men? Many were led to believe in the quality of maturity. Does age correlate with maturity that much? ♠️ More of our Podcasts >> ⁠ ⁠⁠Spotify Channel⁠⁠ ♠️ Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠Tik...

Is dating multiple people the next big wave? Since relationships are failing now, maybe being open about sexual exclusivity is key. People in modern day can't control themselves, so why not embrace it? We may have all been LED to believe traditional relationships are key. What if we were tricked..... ♠️ More of our Podcasts >> ⁠ ⁠Spotify Channel⁠ ♠️ Follow Us: ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠...

Why do relationships fail in modern dating? For Women, It's not because men are trash now. For Men, it's not because women can't do housework. Or that marriage is a whole business, or standards are getting higher....but could it be because of something else? Compared to our parents' generation (boomers), what is the problem with the generation of young people now? Find out as we br...

Are western women not as desirable anymore? Find out more from the Host having heavy dating experience with both sides. About the Host: Panda was born and raised in Los Angeles, California where he was able to gain extensive dating experience as a f***boy in an Asian fraternity. During Covid, he traveled to Taiwan and lived there for 2 years, having been able to date extensively there. Both playin...

Our FIRST Podcast where we show why YOU need to get started today. STOP WAITING FOR WHEN IT'S PERFECT TO START. We show how bad our setup is and we still utilize that as a starting point for our podcast. Some (or you) will never start since they want to wait for the PERFECT TIME. Start TODAY not TOMORROW. No matter what circumstance, follow your dreams, believe in yourself. #growth #motivation...