Considered Chaos

 How comfortable are you when talking about money with your friends? In this episode we discuss friends in different financial situations from yourself and how it affects things like going out to dinners and committing to events like birthdays, weddings, bachelor parties, etc. When should you pull out and say "No, I will not participate in this", or, "Yes, this one's on me"...

In this episode of considered chaos, hosts Daniella and Jonathan talk about how no matter your preferred method of communicating with your friends, there are so many nuances involved. Between navigating political differences among your close friends, to establishing boundaries with your “work friends”, we uncover some of the many varied levels of friendship dynamics.

Hosts Daniella and Jonathan explore how the 90s shaped our behavior and personalities and how these influences seem to have faded in the in the age of extreme viewpoints. We dive into societal expectations of women, discussing the rise of femcels, trad wives, and a few female celebrities we're tired of hearing about. Throughout this episode, we tackle the big question: Are straight men the problem...

Hosts Daniella and Jonathan share their thoughts on the latest "epidemic" to take over the world - this time, it's only affecting lonely young men. But is this a new thing or has it always been a thing? What's causing it? Why are these men lonely? SO many questions! Tune in for answers.

With more people making health conscious decisions, alcohol sales have been on the decline, causing club culture to die, which brings us to today's episode. Is coffee the new social lubricant? From coffee dates, to coffee parties and coffee shops - the coffee craze shows no signs of stopping as social environments revolving around coffee continue to emerge and garner widespread praise and atte...

There’s a whole lotta noise and mess on Instagram these days—but as much as we love to hate it, we just keep coming back for more. As two chronically online (and borderline cheugy) individuals, Daniella and Jonathan weigh up the pros and cons of every Millennial’s fave platform, while discussing social media etiquette and the many faux pas that users continue to commit. From unfollowing to birthda...

People LOVE to say they're "sorry" but do they really mean it? Hosts Daniella and Jonathan talk about trust, betrayal, forgiveness and holding grudges as they revisit moments where they've been wronged/have wronged others in the past. NEW GAME ALERT: Sexual Awakening - Cartoon Edition.

BONUS EPISODE: Daniella and Jonathan take a closer look at the New York Time's ranking of Top Super Bowl Halftime performances, while reliving some iconic and not-so iconic moments, along with their favs and least favs of all time.

Daniella schools Jonathan on some Super Bowl sports stuff (as well as the Kendrick Lamar & Drake beef). Jonathan lists reasons why these capitalist sporting events suck. The duo also unpacks a recent article on GenZ not having any bar etiquette, and offers some tips for these whippersnappers to be more tolerable and respected. NEW GAME ALERT: Sexual Awakening.

Daniella and Jonathan are back behind the mics, ready to bring some Miami heat to your speakers! In this debut episode of their brand-new podcast, they dive into how the Grammys finally got it right, break down the politics of friendship (and why you shouldn’t take an uninvited night out personally), unpack the latest sports world drama, and introduce a wild new game to play with your friends: Qui...

One wet, cold, snowy night, my boyfriend, a good friend and I were having cozy winter cocktails, when the subject on people posting tributes of deceased friends to social media but not disclosing the cause of death came up in conversation. This sparked a three sided debate... I say, if you’re gonna post it, you owe us the details. My boyfriend thinks that that’s private and it needs to be respecte...

We welcome Mikey - the founder of OUT MY CLOSET - a successful non profit organization created to provide resources to homeless LGBT+ youth. Not only to we talk about this amazing organization and how it all started, we also talk about partying and nightlife (where I nitpick the hell out of the NYC gay scene) the difference between NYC gays and the MIA gays, how Mikey and I have been subjects of u...

I had the pleasure of being interviewed by K, host of ‘Lost Spaces’ - a podcast about lost queer venues and the impact they had on the people who drank, danced and loved within them… In this episode/therapy session, I unpack a lot of memories from my early days in the club scene where my at the time boyfriend would drag me to Diskotekka (my first gay club), and how it shaped me to be the gay I am...

This episode is as chaotic as it is informative, and we're here for it... In this episode we welcome Instagram MEME sensation @SHADYBLUNTS, where we talk about d*ck, social media, memes, more d*ck, self absorbed social media gays, d*ckscrimination and the battle over cut versus uncut, respecting other peoples opinions on social media, D*CK CHEESE and more. As a bonus, throughout the episode we dro...

Seems like every time there’s a new virus going around, everyone suddenly becomes an expert on infectious diseases. Lucky for y'all, by tuning in to this episode, you'll get to listen to one. Yes - a real one. We welcome Paloma Pimentel, an Infectional Preventionist at a community hospital in Miami, Fl. I brought her on to talk about the mass hysteria that has all the gays clutching their pearls a...

We welcome back my boyfriend Dan, who was on a few episodes ago where we discussed why pride branding matters. As promised, we revisit pride month and talk about some of our favorite moments in rainbow capitalism and why they were AMAZINGGG. We also talk about some pride month fails where we call out a few things that could've been done JUST A LITTLE BETTER, and the hypocrisy & double standard...

*VIDEO PODCAST* Every now and then, I like to take a break from all the sex, fetish, and nasty talk and give you all an episode related to health and wellness. I do this because I love us and I want us to take better care of ourselves or whatever. In this episode, I'm joined by Alan and Katie, the creators of Moxa - a health & wellness app created to better educate people on how to prevent dis...

We as gay men grew up in a society that completely invalidates our existence, leaving us to figure a lot of this stuff out on our own... In this episode, we welcome author Matthew Todd, where we discuss his book "Straight Jacket: Overcoming Society's Legacy of Gay Shame". Yes, this is a self-help book - and if you're like me, you think you're perfect and there's nothing wrong with you and reading...

I had the pleasure of meeting Mat, host of MAT TALES - an erotica podcast where he shares stories from his 40 years of sexual encounters with gay men. Thing is, the world has changed over the last 40 years. There was a time when there was no grindr, tinder, instagram (or podcasts), and gay bars were extremely rare, so gay men had to get creative whenever they wanted to meet other gay men; Mat and...

Tune in to YAAAS BRO’S most EXPLICIT episode yet! We welcome back Jeff, our guest from Ep 11 - That’s Kinky Bro, to revisit some kinks & fetishes previously discussed while also expanding on a few other sex related topics such as fisting, Jeff's puppy play journey, getting your toes sucked, our twitter porn obsession, & more... But it’s not all nasty; we also talk about how connection is k...

Happy Pride! So much has happened since the last time I released an episode, so I figured, why the hell not start a new chapter with a new set of guests, a "sort-of" new look and new ways of serving up some gay ol' content. In this episode, being that it's PRIDE, I want us to all understand why we celebrate it in the first place. We're diving into a little LGBT history lesson...

BEHOLD - The Scale Jonny and I spoke of in our our LAST episode... In continuing the conversation on the etiquette of being out on the scene, we reveal our multilayered scale we use to rank how well someone can hang when under the influence of alcohol. Lots of factors go into determining your ranking, such as: How many drinks until you get messy? Do you get aggressive? How sharp is your ability to...

There’s a very real conversation that needs to be had about “THE ETIQUETTE OF BEING OUT ON THE SCENE” because what I’ve been observing over the years has been SHAMEFUL. In this episode, we welcome back my best friend, Jonny, where he and I break it down for y’all and discuss: the politics of drink buying, girls at gay clubs, not picking up on social cues, asking around for drugs, how to handle you...

Throw some True Crime, History Channel, the Cosmopolitan sex column together and you get the Halloween episode of YAAAS BRO. In this episode, we reveal a queer horror icon (which you’ll be shook over), horny witches, tuberculosis vampires, the alleged drugs in our candy, some nightmarish dates a few listeners have been on and so much more, all packed into 37 minutes. If you’re looking for the good...

In this episode we welcome Valerie, a feisty spirit and gem of a human being I met many Saturdays ago while out getting wasted. As one of YAAAS BRO’s biggest fans, Val was V excited to come on and share a few of her ratchet chronicles where she’s had to put several heaux in check (good luck keeping count), her attempts at trying anal, why you should let your man “cheat in peace”, being a mom and h...