Connected Parenting

As parents, we are the architects of our children’s brains, and our parents were the architects of ours. In truth, we are all walking around as adults with programming that was installed before we were seven years old. Self-compassion and loving self-parenting are critical to good mental health and help us be better parents to our children. Join me for some insight and tips on how we ensure we are...

Join me for an episode of guidance, insights, and support on various topics that you, my amazing listeners, have sent in. From nurturing your child's emotional well-being to managing those tricky moments, we've got you covered. Tune in and become part of our parenting community where we learn and grow together. Your questions fuel these discussions, so keep them coming!  Jennifer's Takeaways: Anxi...

My guest this week Korbalagae Kuawogai is not your average kindergarten teacher; she's an absolute expert in her field and the brilliant mind behind "Teach My Kinder." Korbalagae is on a mission to support preschool and kindergarten moms and parents, helping them kick that overwhelming stress to the curb when it comes to their children's reading progress. If you are ready to have your kids actuall...

Social media has an undeniable influence on our kids and for this reason I thought exploring its addictive nature, its impact on young minds, and why setting limits is crucial would be a good place to visit on this weeks podcast episode. Social media isn't going away, so it's essential to strike a balance, providing guidance while allowing our children to also gain valuable digital experience. Joi...

Today's episode is all about you and your burning questions. Since we've received an overwhelming response from you our engaged parenting community, we'll be spreading the answers out across multiple episodes. In this week's installment, we'll delve into 2 of the questions that parents like you have raised. Meet Jennifer Kolari Jennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcas...

Today I want to talk about what to do when your child, teen or young adult child emotionally dumps everything on you. You just get a cascade of all of the stuff that they're having trouble regulating all over you. To be honest, this happens mostly with moms. So today we're going to talk about why it happens and what to do about it. Takeaways:  Moms often get what belongs to everyone else (1:43) Ho...

Today I want to talk about Anhedonia otherwise known as when your teen or young adult child is really flat, nothing seems interesting and they don't like to do things they used to do. It's like the lights have been dimmed on everything. This can be really frightening to watch your child go through this. So in today's episode, we're going to explore ways to support your child, and look at how to an...

Kids and teenagers experience time quite differently from adults. They're usually living in the 'now,' and not concerned with time as we are. As they grow and their brains develop, particularly the frontal lobe responsible for motivation, attention, and perspective, they gradually learn to navigate time and responsibilities. Remember, children aren't miniature adults. Initially, we regulate everyt...

Have you ever noticed how some kids start feeling the jitters weeks before returning to school? The anticipation, the questions... Who's my teacher? Who's in my class? Will I manage the workload? These thoughts can create a swirl of emotions. From excited reunions to nervous butterflies, our kids can feel it all at once. But guess what? It's totally normal and it's our job to help them understand...

 Today we are delving into the topic of nurturing leadership qualities in children while guiding them away from becoming just another follower. Our focus in this week's episode is on understanding how to support kids who struggle with social interactions. Whether your child needs assistance as a follower or already excels socially, this discussion will provide valuable strategies that you can use...

In this episode, we are thrilled to introduce you to Sonali, an exceptional parent coach, the founder of Together Parenting, and the mastermind behind the "Raising Your Strong-Willed Child" series. Join us as we explore Sonali's transformative journey from her own spirited childhood to raising three strong-willed children, which has inspired her to develop a unique fusion of heart-centered and emp...

Summer brings joyous occasions like family barbecues, vacations, weddings, and reunions. While these events are often filled with fun, they can become particularly stressful for parents of kids who are highly anxious or easily overwhelmed – the young Gladiators. In this episode, we will explore ten effective strategies to make these special occasions smoother and more enjoyable for both parents an...

PODCAST RE-RELEASE - I feel like summer is the best time to be a connected parent because it’s the time where you are less busy. Usually, there’s more vacations, or at least some of the major things that kids are doing during the year have slowed down or stopped and there’s time to connect and regroup. Overall it’s a time to really slow down, enjoy life and each other. For this reason I like to ma...

Today, we're talking about overfunctioning and how it can hinder our children's growth and independence when we do things for our kids that they can actually do themselves. We’ll look at the importance of setting age-appropriate expectations for our children's tasks and responsibilities, ensuring they have the chance to grow at their own pace responsibility where they are able. So, if you're looki...

Whether you're navigating the toddler years, tackling the teenage challenges, or looking to strengthen your bond with your partner, this conversation I had as a guest over on the "Smart Family Podcast" speaks to all 3..  Join me along with Dr. Rob Meeder and Toni Nieuwhof for an episode that will inspire, empower, and equip you to create strong, thriving relationships with your toddlers, teenagers...

Anxiety is a beast. A difficult, uncomfortable emotion that can be a challenge to live with on a daily basis . It is an emotion that more and more people are struggling with including kids. In today's episode I want to give you some strategies that you can integrate into your lives every day that will help you and your kids regulate and integrate anxiety.  MEET JENNIFER KOLARI Jennifer Kolari is t...

In today's discussion, we will delve into the world of ADHD, exploring its impact on social interactions, emotional well-being, and behavioral patterns. By gaining a deeper understanding of ADHD from these perspectives, we can navigate the challenges associated with it more effectively. Join me as we unravel the complexities and shed light on ADHD. MEET JENNIFER KOLARI Jennifer Kolari is the host...

In today's episode, we dive into the world of summer camp and why it holds tremendous value for children and families. Although the cost of summer camp can be a barrier for many families, today I'll discuss strategies to make it more accessible, such as exploring financial aid options and cost-saving measures. Join me as we navigate the do's and don'ts of summer camp, offering insights on how to m...

In today's episode, we are shining the spotlight on Fatherhood and all the unique strengths and challenges that come with being a dad. With various external factors impacting our children and parenting as a whole, it's crucial to explore the role of fathers. Join me for this week's episode, let's gain insights and perspectives on how to navigate fatherhood in these extraordinary times. MEET JENNIF...

As a parent, I've often discussed the challenges and rewards that come with raising gladiator children in my work and today I am thrilled to welcome one of those children, my youngest daughter Olivia to the show. She's a true gladiator child, with her feisty spirit, sassiness, and remarkable sensitivity who's insights shed light on the complexities and joys of being a gladiator child. While every...

"I Hate You"... As parents, it can be heart-wrenching to hear these words, especially if our children have intense emotions and difficulties regulating them. In today's episode, we'll explore why these words are sometimes uttered, what actions we can take when faced with them, and how to work towards minimizing their occurrence in the future. MEET JENNIFER KOLARI Jennifer Kolari is the host of the...

From students to parents and teachers, the months of May and June can be particularly challenging and draining. Let's uncover the underlying causes of end-of-year burnout and discover actionable steps to make this period a smoother and more fulfilling one. MEET JENNIFER KOLARI Jennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podc...

In today's episode, we delve into the world of mathematics education and the challenges kids often face when it comes to math. My guest, Rhonda, is an expert in the field with a strong passion for helping children and adolescents overcome their math struggles. Her extensive background in mathematics and education along with her dedication to empowering young minds with valuable math skills is trul...

Welcome to today's episode, and my celebration of all the incredible moms out there. As someone who works closely with families, I have the privilege of witnessing the powerful and limitless love that moms have for their children and their families every single day. It is truly a beautiful thing to see and experience. Despite the challenges and difficulties that come with parenting, a mother's lov...

[PLEASE NOTE: If your child is experiencing something traumatic, seek professional help and support. Today's conversation is for normal everyday moments when children blame others or feel like everything is always going wrong for them.] As a parent, one of the most important things to remember is that your children are always watching and learning from you. By gauging their responses to the world...