"Come On, Man" Podcast

Roissy, also known as Chateau Heartiste was one of the original figures in the manosphere. Someone compiled his old blog posts into a couple of books, and one of them, "Heartiste On Game" has a short chapter on dread game. I'm all for playing a little passive dread game in a relationship. It keeps your girl's competition anxiety active, keeps her on her toes, and most importantly...

Joining me today is the legendary and very humble Dr. Shawn T. Smith, author of books such as The Tactical Guide to Women, The Woman’s Guide To How Men Think, The Practical Guide to Men, Surviving Aggressive People and the User’s Guide to the Human Mind. I recently finished the Tactical Guide To Women, and thought it was phenomenal, and decided to reach out to Shawn on Twitter to set this up. Foll...

I recently finished the timeless "Meditations" by the Roman Emperor, Marcus Aurelius. Not only was he an Emperor, but he was a stoic philosopher as well. A lot of these quotes teach us about the power of our own thoughts, opinions and how those shape our perceptions of reality. It also goes hand-in-hand with my Practical Law of Attraction course too! Let's talk about it today! // COU...

I worked on the long term relationship chapter of my upcoming book this weekend. I managed to knock out the outline for it and I actually got some writing done on it. It's not going to be as long as my dating and spinning plates chapter, but it doesn't need to be. There's only about 7 key concepts I think guys need to know in order to keep the fire of attraction burning long term anywa...

Joining me on the podcast is Nick Fransen, a licensed acupuncturist and functional medicine specialist. He is the U.S. distributor of something I never really heard of until just recently called Rubimed, that comes from Switzerland and apparently changes how you think. Learn more at: https://www.privianaturals.com/ // COURSES // Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com The C...

Men for centuries have suffered from alopecia, better known as male pattern baldness. Based on some of the comments I get on my YouTube shorts, and occasionally on TikTok, there's a lot of you guys out there who are more insecure about it than I am. So I figured it would be good to dedicate a live stream to your options if you happen to be follicly challenged, like me! By the way, my personal...

My friend Rudy from the Rude Advice Podcast sent me a clip from a recent interview on Rich Cooper's channel with Macken Murphy, a GRS-funded scientist at the University of Melbourne who argues that although the Red Pill claims that everything a women does in relationship can be attributed to hypergamy, the data points don't show that. I've even also seen Dr. Shawn T. Smith, the author...

Brother Nathan Manion joins me today to talk about his 3% journey where he came from a place that not a lot of men have had to endure. Not only did he go through a nasty divorce dealing with false allegations & custody battles, but he also had to endure the loss of a child. This sort of thing is enough to make a lot of men zero out. When men are knocked down like this, they have two options. S...

I had a pre-recorded interview with Ryan Fowler of Inner Masculine this week. In preparation for the interview I downloaded his free e-book on how the subconscious works and why it keeps us stuck. He also gave me access to his course on his Subconscious Optimization System. You can find all of that at https://www.innermasculine.com/ . Reading through his material, I wanted to look at how one could...

I FINALLY finished my extremely long dating & spinning plates chapter in my upcoming book this past weekend! The last sub-chapter is on how women will bring up exclusivity by the seventh or eighth date on average (Assuming you are only going out with her once a week in the beginning). They may even say they love you by this point, but that's not always the case. I've seen this play out...

Joining me this week on the podcast is a former shipmate of mine from the USS Shiloh (CG-67), Larry Beach! We're not necessarily talking about game, dating or the usual stuff today. We're talking about being sailors between 1998 and 2002 when I served in the US Navy! Follow Larry on Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/batnite // COURSES // Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonman...

There's an old article written in 2012 on the No Ma'am blog about how women are like the most responsible teenager in the house. The idea is that effectively communicating with women is almost impossible because although they may agree to things in the moment, that is based on their feelings in the moment. Feelings are fleeting, and her ideas and actions are just as fleeting because they a...

There's a huge self-limiting belief that is constantly spread online that men need to have money in order to get women. Thinking this causes guys to spend money on crap they don't need, or give up on dating altogether. That's not necessarily true. Women are drawn to a man's lifestyle, and a man can have a fun and active lifestyle without it costing a lot of money. Instead of buying...

Returning to the podcast is my 3% brother Ryan Kaufman! Ryan has been on the podcast before, and he and I even met up in real life once at our mutual friend Benny's men's retreat two years ago in Georgia. I invited Ryan back on to talk about his experience dealing with flaky women when dating. Women are very flaky by nature, so learning how to deal with them is paramount if you are going t...

This is NOT really a live stream, it's pre-recorded because I am on a motorcycle on my way to Sturgis! For today's topic, I thought it would be good to go back to the old school again and talk about the 15 Lessons For Young Men from "The Book of Pook." Pook was an anonymous forum poster in the old SoSuave forums where Rollo got his start, and someone compiled all of Pook's po...

A big reason why men suck with women, business and life in general is because they just aren't confident. There's lots of reasons why they aren't confident. Past trauma, self limiting beliefs, etc. That ends today! Today I will be giving you 20 different ways you can build your confidence, and take control of you life! // COURSES // Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeon...

Joining me on the podcast for the first time is one of the many brothers I have in the 3% Brotherhood named Matt! Matt is a cop guys, and he’s a little bit of a hard ass, so be on your best behavior! He's also one of the OGs from the original 3% Man group! Connect with Matt on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/matt.kilbourn.79 Follow Matt on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kilpatrick_kil...

A big reason why men suck with women, business and life in general is because they just aren't confident. There's lots of reasons why they aren't confident. Past trauma, self limiting beliefs, etc. That ends today! Today I will be giving you 20 different ways you can build your confidence, and take control of you life! We only got through half the list, we'll do a part two next wee...

This is a key skill that men absolutely must learn if they want to have success with women. Guys who don't know how to properly escalate seggually with a woman run the risk of either friend zoning themselves, or being seen as a creep and scaring a woman away. There is an art to it. Let's discuss it today! // COURSES // Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com The Con...

Returning to the podcast is mi hermano de otra madre, my 3% brother Jose! This is his 3rd time on the podcast. This time we just caught up and talked about wrestling, men's mental health, weight training and business! Follow Jose on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/josesfeir/ Subscribe to his podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/48E8reCRL0lgLsa1XQXCUG // COURSES // Practical Law of Attra...

We've all experienced it at one point or another on the dating market, especially if you are primarily using dating apps to meet people. You match with a girl who looks really hot in all of her pictures, but when you meet her in person, she's a disgusting bridge troll. It doesn't necessarily have to be a bad experience for you. Let's talk about it today! // COURSES // Practical Law...

The other day I was working with one of my coaching clients, and he ended up in a situation with his ex-girlfriend that didn't go so well. The fact that it even got to this point was because of how he was acting around her. He would get lost in his emotions around her, and act passive-aggressively. His passive-aggressive behavior caused her to want to end things, and when she came to his place...

Returning to the podcast is my good friend and former Dating Coach, Benny Lichtenwalner. Earlier this year he changed his business model from Date Coaching to Breakup Coaching, and now he is absolutely killing it in business! So much so that he was finally able to quit his 9-5 job, and pursue coaching full time. We get into the whole getting your ex back thing, but I also wanted to pick his brain...

A prominent guy in the Red Pill space, that you've probably never heard about, wrote a really compelling Reddit post back in 2016 titled, "Don't communicate; leave -- Communication is validation-seeking behavior." The guy who wrote it goes by the handle of Archwinger. You can find it here: https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/dont-communicate-leave-communication-is-validation.3...

In October of 2012, one of the original "3 R's" of the manosphere, Roosh V, wrote a blog article on his now permanently closed Return of Kings blog titled "Why Pickups Fail." You can find an archived version of his post here: https://theredarchive.com/blog/Return-of-Kings/why-pickups-fail.57143 I will be discussing this post today, as well as the importance of writing your...