Paul B.
"Come On, Man" Podcast
Men’s Relationship Coach | I help men master masculinity and overcome breakups, divorce, rejection, and dead bedroom frustration. Learn to fix sexless marriages, revive lost intimacy, and rebuild lasting attraction using red pill strategies, alpha male confidence, emotional resilience, and leadership skills. Conquer nice guy syndrome, approach anxiety, and betatization. Get expert dating and texting advice, screen for compatibility, get your ex back, move on after heartbreak, and attract high-value women. Transform pain into power.
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Episodes
Sex Transmutation: The Hidden Law Behind the Law of Attraction 15.05.2026 1:07:10
Everything you've been taught about manifestation leaves out the one thing that actually makes it work. The Rosicrucians, Napoleon Hill, and Neville Goddard were all describing the same physical practice using different vocabulary, and none of them said it directly. This episode breaks down the complete system: how sexual energy is the highest creative vibration available to you, how to direct it...
She Came Back: 20 Things You Need to Know First 13.05.2026 1:13:39
She texted. Your brain immediately started writing a story about what it means. It doesn't mean what you think it means. Most men who take their ex back skip 20 critical questions they should have answered first, and they pay for it when it falls apart the second time. This episode covers the real psychology behind her return, what she was doing during the silence, and the one question that tells...
Understanding Female Nature: How to Master the Frame 11.05.2026 1:14:40
Most men fail in relationships because they try to logic their way through biological instincts. In this episode, we break down the fundamental principles of female nature, from the hardwired reality of hypergamy to the hidden meaning behind her "check engine light" tests. We explore why 80% comfort is the fastest way to kill desire and how Briffault's Law dictates the value you must bring every s...
The 5 James Bond Archetypes: Which One Are You? 08.05.2026 1:11:39
Most men are operating with a flat, one-dimensional personality that breaks under pressure. In this breakdown of "Becoming the Operator," we analyze the five James Bond archetypes — The Predator, Diplomat, Soldier, Executive, and Recruit — to show you how to integrate their strengths while avoiding their fatal flaws. Stop being a reactor and start building the internal infrastructure of a man who...
Is She Faking It? Signs You’re Being Fooled in the Bedroom 06.05.2026 1:10:01
Most men believe they are better in bed than they actually are because she never says a word. The reality is that women can put on a convincing performance to protect your feelings or bring an encounter to an end. In this breakdown, we expose common performance traps and show you how to read real, involuntary signals that cannot be faked. Learn how to pay attention to physical feedback like muscle...
The 10 Laws of Masculine Leadership: Stop Asking for Permission 04.05.2026 1:18:28
Most relationship issues start the moment a man stops setting the tone. In this breakdown of Chapter 5 from my book Keep Your B*tch: A Red Pill Guide to Relationships, we explore why leadership is about direction, not control. We dive into the "Dinner Test," why hesitation kills attraction, and how to handle emotional tests without losing your cool. If you've been caving to pressure or waiting for...
The 4 Levels of Frame: Which One Are You Operating From? 01.05.2026 1:20:18
Are you living in a state of unconscious reaction, or are you the architect of your own reality? In this interview, we sit down with Raith Deantoir, author of The 4 Levels of Mental Frame, to discuss the blueprint for masculine sovereignty. We explore the transition from the Reactive Frame — where your emotions are at the mercy of approval and external triggers — to the Sovereign Frame, characteri...
Stop Sending This Opening Message (It’s Getting You Ghosted) 29.04.2026 1:04:58
Most guys think their opener is the problem, but she's already decided to unmatch before you even hit send. In this episode, we break down the psychology of the dating app inbox and why your first message is failing. From the "Hey" forfeit and over-investing to the reality of competing in a crowded inbox, we explore how your profile does the selling for you. Learn how to trigger an emotional respo...
How To Maintain Sexual Attraction: The Truth About Long-Term Lust 27.04.2026 1:07:49
Maintaining sexual attraction is about mastery of frame, mystery, and physical dominance. In this episode, we break down why constant validation kills desire and how to keep her chasing your attention. Learn the mechanics of building tension through pacing, why emotional dumping is a silent killer of lust, and how to use the betatization process to stay ahead. We cover everything from high-testost...
How to Have Mind-Blowing Sex: Master Her Pleasure 25.04.2026 1:47
Discover the secrets to unforgettable sexual experiences and elevate your intimacy. This guide reveals how to understand female pleasure on a deeper level, moving beyond common misconceptions to become the man she truly desires. Learn techniques and psychological insights that transform average encounters into extraordinary moments, ensuring she's thinking about you long after the bedroom sess...
20 Red Pill "Frame" Secrets from Reality Transurfing (Stop Reacting!) 24.04.2026 1:26:41
Explore 20 powerful Red Pill concepts derived from Reality Transurfing, focusing on mastering your mindset, controlling your frame, and becoming your own mental anchor. Learn to resist manipulation, understand pendulums, and stop needing external validation. Discover how to detach from outcomes, manage inner and outer importance, and avoid the traps of guilt and inflated situations. This video off...
The Simple Secret to Training Your Woman Like a Dog (and it Works!) 24.04.2026 2:13
```html Grab Keep Your B*tch 👉 https://mybook.to/KeepYourB-tch Discover how to effectively train your woman using operant conditioning, rewarding positive actions and withdrawing attention from negative ones. Learn why most men inadvertently train undesirable behaviors by reacting incorrectly and how to flip the script to encourage affection and respect. This method, rooted in how dogs and childr...
Understanding Hypergamy: The Key to Female Desire Explained 23.04.2026 2:15
Grab Keep Your B*tch 👉 https://mybook.to/KeepYourB-tch Discover the core concept of hypergamy and how it fundamentally influences female desire and attraction. This video breaks down this innate instinct, explaining why women are drawn to specific qualities in men and how understanding this can demystify relationship dynamics. Learn how to navigate the dual nature of attraction, balancing strengt...
Why Women Love Men With a Mission (The Real Reason!) 22.04.2026 2:14
Grab Keep Your B*tch 👉 https://mybook.to/KeepYourB-tch Discover why women are drawn to men who prioritize their mission and purpose. Learn how this focus not only keeps your masculine energy vibrant but also provides a sense of security for your girlfriend or wife. We delve into how building confidence through consistent action and embracing challenges is the foundation of true self-assurance. Un...
She Left You But She'll Come Back (And You Won't Care) 22.04.2026 54:41
Discover the profound truth about relationships ending: the person who caused you pain today may one day return, but you'll find you no longer care. This video explores the journey from intense heartbreak and the struggle for breakup recovery or divorce recovery, to a state of genuine indifference. Learn how the dynamic shifts, why a person might test you, and how focusing on self-improvement for...
Comfort Is a Trap: Why "Good Enough" Destroys Your Relationship 20.04.2026 51:26
Most men who lose a good relationship don't lose it in one big dramatic moment. They lose it slowly, one small concession at a time, until the guy she originally wanted has quietly been replaced by someone comfortable and predictable. This is episode 3 of the Keep Your B*tch series, going chapter by chapter through Paul Bauer's Red Pill Guide to Relationships. Chapter 3 is about what happens when...
Neville Goddard Was Right: Your Assumptions Run Your Life 17.04.2026 54:15
Neville Goddard's chapter on free will from The Power of Awareness is one of the most misunderstood ideas in the self-improvement space, and it maps directly onto everything we talk about on Frame Fridays. The short version is this: you don't actually do anything. Your assumptions do. Every outcome in your life, every relationship, every result, flows from the concept you hold of yourself right no...
The Reason Online Relationship Advice Isn't Working on You 15.04.2026 1:21:35
Most men consuming relationship content are getting worse results the more they learn. They're stacking frameworks from every coach and guru they can find, building a Voltron of theories that points in a dozen different directions at once, and none of it is working because they skipped the only question that actually matters: what do you want? Until you answer that honestly, every tactic you pick...
How to Set the Tone in a New Relationship: Assertiveness & Boundaries 13.04.2026 53:39
Discover how to establish a strong foundation in your new relationship by mastering assertiveness, understanding communication dynamics, and setting clear boundaries. Learn why overexplaining signals insecurity, the power of presence over volume, and how to enforce standards without conflict. This guide explores how women test men, the strategic use of silence, and the crucial difference between c...
Are You Making THIS Mistake in Your Sexless Marriage? (Fixing Relationships with Frame) 10.04.2026 1:14:35
In this Frame Friday episode, we expose the dangerous trap of using 'dread' or manipulation to fix a sexless marriage. Most men approach fixing their relationship by trying to make their wives do something or realize something, inadvertently creating covert contracts and frame loss. We'll dive into a forum post that breaks down why focusing on dread levels, scoreboarding, and ultimatums backfires...
Why You Recreate Bad Relationships After Divorce 08.04.2026 1:10:18
Many men after divorce or a significant breakup find themselves in strikingly similar relationships with new people. This isn't coincidence; it's often a pattern of behavior that keeps us stuck. This video dives into the behavioral loops that trap men over 30 and men over 40 in repeating relationship cycles and provides insights on how to finally break free and build healthier connections. Discove...
Why Your "Purpose" Is More Important Than Your Relationship 06.04.2026 56:45
```html Stop drifting and start leading. Discover the 10 essential foundations of a dominant masculine presence to build unshakable confidence, purpose, and frame. Most men struggle with attraction and respect because they lack a solid internal foundation. In this episode, we break down the "Foundations of a Dominant Masculine Presence" — the core principles that separate high-value men...
Stop Believing Lies: How to Identify and Overcome Self-Limiting Beliefs 03.04.2026 1:14:03
Discover how your self-limiting beliefs trap you in primal states of fight, flight, or freeze, based on principles from David Bayer's 'A Changed Mind' and David Hawkins' Map of Consciousness. Learn to identify false beliefs by listening to your body's signals and understand how shifting to empowered states can radically transform your mindset. Improve your results and help you become the man you a...
The Rebound Trap: Why Your Next Relationship Won't Heal You 01.04.2026 56:37
Discover why jumping into a new relationship after a breakup or divorce often leads straight into the rebound trap. This video breaks down the common rebound patterns and shows why they usually fail, not because you are unlucky, but because you are avoiding pain instead of dealing with it. You will learn what real recovery looks like and why healing after divorce or a breakup has to come from inte...
Is Your Marriage Sexless? How to Turn Things Around (Even After Years) 30.03.2026 57:31
Are you stuck in a dead bedroom situation and wondering if your marriage can be saved? Many men dealing with marriage problems believe self improvement alone will revive intimacy, but the reality is often more complex. This video breaks down why simply “doing the work” might not be enough to re inspire genuine desire from your wife, especially after long periods of sexlessness. You’ll learn practi...
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