Come Away By Yourselves

This week we celebrated the Feast of St. Thomas Aquinas.  Thomas believed that the Crucifix was his greatest book and source of wisdom.  Guided by St. Thomas, we too can learn great spiritual lessons of from Christ by contemplating his passion.  https://comeawaybyyourselves.com

"He who loves his life will lose it, he who loses his life for my sake will find it."  Finding our true life, and our true selves, means handing ourselves over to Christ.  Losing our lives for the sake of Christ is a transformative union with him.  This takes work and an acceptance of suffering.  There is no resurrection of ourselves in Christ without the cross. https://comeawaybyyoursel...

Like the apostles themselves, the life of the Christian is a call to be close to Jesus and to go out and spread the Good News.  Holiness and apostolate are two sides to the same divine vocation.   To be an apostle, however, we have to confront various obstacles which would keep us from sharing Christ with others.  https://comeawaybyyourselves.com

The Baptism of Jesus speaks to us of his incredible humility.  Without being a sinner, Jesus plays the role of one by letting himself be baptized by John the Baptist.  Humility unlocks our ability to love God and others.  It protects our peace and joy.    https://comeawaybyyourselves.com

The Feast of the Epiphany invites us to set our on our own journey to find Christ.  Christ is the Truth, the light of Life.  To find him means to deepen in our understanding and acceptance of the Truth about Him and about ourselves.   https://comeawaybyyourselves.com

Holiness is God's own will and resolution for us.  In calling us to be holy God resolves that we be such.  Holiness is the fullness of charity.  To respond to our call to holiness, to live this divine resolution, is to learn to love God in himself and in and through all things.  

Heading into Christmas we turn our hearts towards the Christ Child.  Christ is our great Christmas present from God the Father.  Mary and Joseph give him the gifts of their faith, hope and love.  These are gifts that we too can give to the Baby Jesus.  https://comeawaybyyourselves.com

Given as part of a Novena to the Immaculate Conception.  https://comeawaybyyourselves.com

A reflection given for the Novena to the Immaculate Conception on Mary as "Mother of the Fallen Away."

In Advent we prepare for the coming of the Christ Child at Christmas. Jesus, who found no room in the inn at Bethlehem, can find room in our souls and our lives if we prepare well for his coming. Making room for Jesus means clearing other things out, finding time for prayer, and welcoming him in others. 

What is the Kingdom of God and the Kingship of Christ?  How can we be loyal subjects of this Kingdom?  What keeps us from letting Christ rule as King? https://comeawaybyyourselves.com

Jesus encourages us to pray constantly.  This advice is seconded by St. Paul and many other saints.  Scripture teaches us the many benefits of habitual prayer: joy, motivation, peace and fruitfulness.  Prayer is the very shape of Christian life: a sharing of our life with Christ's.  https://comeawaybyyourselves.com

Prayer was a regular part of Jesus' daily life.  We can learn a lot from watching when, how and where he prayed.  https://comeawaybyyourselves.com

Given at an Annual Men's Conference.  https://comeawaybyyourselves.com

Jesus's parable of the widow and the unjust judge teaches us to pray with persistence and intensity.  While always confident that God our Father hears and answers our prayers, we are called to exercise this confidence by patient perseverance in our petitions.  "Prayer works."  This is a fundamental Gospel truth.  Prayer is powerful and others depend on our prayers of intercession fo...

After the Rich Young Man goes away sad, Jesus tells his disciples twice that it will be difficult for the rich to enter the Kingdom of God.  The possession of riches comes with the danger of relying on them too much, seeking our happiness in them, falling into a kind of practical idolatry.  The solution to this is detachment or poverty of spirit.   Detachment frees our hearts to love God and other...

When Job sees God he accepts God's plan and submits to his judgment.  In this life, our vision of God is always indirect and partial.  "We see through a mirror dimly." It takes thus faith to trust in God's plan and his providence especially when things are difficult or go against us.  In this life, faith in God's promises substitutes for sight especially in moments when it...

The reward for charity is great, the punishment for sin is daunting.  We live in a battle between good and evil, between joy and misery.  Victory in this struggle is not just a matter of effort but of clear spiritual vision.   https://comeawaybyyourselves.com

Matthew's response to his vocation demonstrates a great deal of trust in Jesus.  His Gospel emphasizes Jesus's deep appreciation of faith and his disappointment at its absence.  Trust in Jesus should be absolute, lending a great certainty to our faith in his Church and in all of his teachings.  "Faith is the evidence of things unseen."  This means that at times we will have to...

Christ's Triumph on the Cross defeated sin and death.  It was a triumph of love over selfishness.  This victory needs to be repeated in our own lives, in our own carrying of the Cross.  Sin and selfishness have to be defeated in us and this entails the acceptance of suffering and sacrifice; in a word the acceptance of the Cross.   Suffering is inevitable in life, but whether it is redemptive...

Our Faith constantly encourages us to overcome our fears.  This entails standing up to them and being open to fearful situations.  Christian courage, however, is primarily based on belief in God's powerful presence and protection.  With God, "whom shall we fear?"   https://comeawaybyyourselves.com

St. James describes the word of God has "having been planted in us."  This gift of God leads to the growth of His own Life in each Christian.  To foster the growth of the word in us we need to remove obstacles and create an environment in which it can flourish.   https://comeawaybyyourselves.com

St. Bartholomew's first meeting with Jesus is recorded in the Gospel of St. John.  Introduced by Philip, Bartholomew is struck by Jesus's already knowing him before they ever met.  Jesus is struck in turn by Bartholomew's sincerity, "an Israelite in whom there is no guile."  Our own Christian life is a matter of meeting Jesus, finding that he already knows and loves us, an...