Clearly Misunderstood

WELCOME BACKKKK! Today's episode is about a new trending topic: Gaslighting. Ever felt like your sense of reality was being subtly undermined? That's the heart of our conversation today. We're dissecting the complex phenomenon of gaslighting—unpacking the ways it can warp and weave through our perceptions. We'll navigate the fine line between miscommunication and manipulation, and...

Hey, hey, hey! Grab your favorite pumpkin inspired snacks and listen in as we embrace the spirit of HALLOWEEN! From our unapologetic love for this holiday to what concocts the ideal spooky ambiance! Is it the crisp fall air? A Twilight rainy day? A good movie with a lit candle? You tell us! Join in on our last spooky season themed episode as we talk about all things Halloween and costumes. Enjoy t...

Welcome backkkk! This week we're diving into the unexplainable depths of Dark Psychology! It's still spooky season and Hava and I are here to unravel the mystique of one of her favorite topics: serial killers. Y'all know her obsession, but have you ever wondered who first intrigued her into this world? We discuss the puzzling blend of pain and pleasure in violence, the controlling worl...

Happy Friday the 13th! Dim those lights, grab your popcorn, light your fall-scented candle, and listen in as we unravel the irresistible allure in eerie music, heart-stopping jumps, and emotional manipulation of scary movies. What is it about scary movies that keep us coming back for more? Join us as we explore the psychology behind our fascination with the "scary." We're giving some l...

Hey, hey, hey! Guess who's back! We're bringing you a hauntingly good time in our newest episode as we take a deep dive into the world of Fears and Nightmares! It's October and it’s Hava’s favorite time of year! We're kicking off the spooky season with talks about spirits, nightmares, our personal paranormal encounters and more. There’s no emoji of the week, but this week we end gi...

Let's get to the bottom of it guys, do you believe it's in a man's nature to cheat? Do you believe all men are cheaters? Do you think cheating is okay? In this week's episode, we hash out our truths and feelings about the trending topic of cheating. We speak about our own personal experiences and definitions of cheating while discussing the big debate about why cheating has been no...

Sooooo this week we wanted to talk about the elephant in the room; roommates. Do you have any roommate horror stories? Do you like rooming with others or do you prefer to live alone? Tune in to this week's episode, where we talk about our crazy roommate experiences and our opinions on rooming with others! Much love to all of our listeners. Follow us on IG! https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?ig...

Another week, another epiiiiii! This week we felt the need to take the time and talk about why we decided to create a podcast, what we've learned from podcasting, and why podcasts are so popular in our generation. What was the podcast that got you into listening to podcasts? What do you look for in a podcast? Do you listen to podcasts that have grown outside their original scope or genre? In t...

Yoooo, welcome back! In this week's episode we of course start off with a beautiful string of thoughts performed by Hava's ADHD, then we have a candid convo about relationship closure and making amends. Is "finding closure" without the other person selfish? How do you approach closure with someone you've hurt or wronged? Tune in to this episode to hear our personal perspectives...

Welcome back everyoneeee! What is your favorite holiday? Which holiday do you think is unnecessary and we should get rid of? As we reflect on this year's Juneteenth and with the 4th of July around the corner, we take this episode to talk about holidays! Prepare for a laughter-filled journey through the holiday calendar that's guaranteed to leave you entertained! And as always, listen for t...

Do you think being vulnerable is a weakness? Why is it so hard to do? In this week's episode, we cover the topic of vulnerability, why being vulnerable is such a difficult task to overcome, and when it is hardest to stick up for yourself. This episode is the perfect mixture of a deep convo and lightheartedness. We hope you enjoy it as much as we do! ...and as always, listen for this week's...

Welcome back everyone! This week we're embracing the randomness, so buckle up! We talk Tupac and outside etiquette, Don Toliver, cheesecake and more! Also somewhere in the episode, you get a sneak peek of Wesley for real singing! We're just having fun this week and hope you'll enjoy it with us too!  P.S. Listen for this week's emoji!

Summer is around the corner! Are you having a hot girl/hot boy summer? What's your go-to alcoholic beverage? This episode is a mix of our own personal nostalgias with our summertime favorites. And as always, remember to listen in for this week's emoji.

Hey everyone! Yes, we took a bit of a hiatus again :( If you could build your perfect partner would you? We cover questions like whether love at first sight is real or whether love is “enough”. How important is physical attraction? Should you be friends before getting into a relationship and does it make sense to stay friends if the relationship ends? This episode is full of juicy debates! Listen...

Welcome back to the podcast everyone! This week we discuss the subject of secrets! What makes someone trustworthy? Have you ever regretted sharing a secret with someone? Is it ever alright to share a secret? We talk about it all plus more! p.s. Listen out for the secret emoji to send us! 

What's happening y'all! This week's episode is all about dating! After airing out our own misunderstanding, we talk about the complexities of dating. Are y'all dating, talking, or just exclusive? Should the guy always make the first move? Are you a cat responder? Listen and find out! 

Heyyy everyone! This week's episode is a mental health check. Do you find yourself spiraling at the little things? What do you do to get yourself out of that rut? We speak about it all and more. Enjoy the real talk and some laughs. And always remember, "no is a full sentence." 

Do you think having FOMO is a negative thing? What do you fear you're actually missing out on? In this episode, we hash out what FOMO means to us, when we feel it the most, and how our personality types influence what we fear the most.

Okay guys we know we've been MIA but we're back and we're better. In this week's episode, we talk about why we took a break, how we identify ourselves, and how confidence and identity go hand and hand. When someone asks "Who are you?" do you respond with what you do or who you are inside?

How do you handle not being good at something? In this episode, we sit down and discuss things we are not so good at. We cover a range of topics like our frustrations in not being good at something, maintaining friendships at work, and noticing when we are even going through issues and need to rest and relax. As always thanks for listening! Follow us on IG! https://instagram.com/hava_turner_?igshi...

Buckle up! This weeks episode is a bit of a roller coaster! The show starts with a somber moment about dogs before talking about all things pain: How we do or don't cope with pain, emotional vs physical pain, our first painful memories and more!  IG: @hava_turner_ @_wesleycox

It's Game Day! Would you rather drink or nah? This week we go back and forth about our worst fears, pet peeves, worst habits of a potential partner, and so much more. Enjoy! 

It's Hava's Kobe year, turn up with us! We talk about birthdays, festivities and reflect on how things change as we grow older. Shout out to my fellow Pisces!

This week we've been stressed. Better to talk about it with y'all than let it build up. What's been bothering you lately? Alleviate your stress by listening to ours!

valentines day + single = self care, well self care is everyday in our world technically, but extra self care this week.