Classy & Confident In Christ

Pray that your future husband has a fruit of the spirit to be evident in his life. There are 9 fruit of the spirit which are love, Joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfullness, gentleness, self control. With those applied in his life he will understand his relationship with God and make it stronger. His relationship with God will be applied to your marriage.

Its important to be comfortable in your waiting season. God is looking forward to reward you because you've been obedient and you never stopped looking for him. Continue to preserve in your single season and you'll be blessed when you get married.

Pray he is understanding when things don't go as planned. Pray he has a spirit of compassion not just for you but others. Show he has a caring side not always a hard core side. Psalm 119:130 The unfolding of your words gives light;     it imparts understanding to the simple.

We need more men not just to be men,but to be Ephesians 5 men. Let him take the lead. Ladies sit back. If you want to know how a man should lead Ephesians 5:21-33

Be obedient to Gods word When we'reobedienttoGod we won't have to sacrifice. 1Samuel 15:22 And Samuel said, “Has the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to listen than the fat of rams

We need someone to hold us accountable. We need strong godly figures to assist us with who God has called to be ! Seek people in your life who truly wants you to win.

Wisdom is better than silver and gold! I rather have Jesus. We all need wisdom to make choices. Gods wisdom is better than the knowledge in our own heads. Keep asking God for wisdom so we can be directed in the right path.

As Christians sometime we forget what God has done for us that we forget to go back to him and praise him when we finally get what we wanted. This episode speaks on how we have to keep seeking God even after we meet our future husband. We have to keep stepping in our purpose. Remember we have to keep seeking God everyday .

You'll never know the pain his parents may endure or what they are currently going through. Also don't you want to be able to have peace to know you get along with his parents?

Seek God first in Everything he does. When you seek God you'll have peace. It is important when things get tough or easy he finds a way to make time for God.

There's so much temptation in the world. Pray for him to be protected from his eyes ears and mouth. There are multiple wounds that access to sexual sin. There is no filter on anything now a days. Its best to pray a hedge of protection over future husbands life. Even asking God to deliver him before you meet.

Watch how he makes decisions, are they healthy or toxic? Does anyone help influences his relationship Decisions? Decisions help you grow or stunt your growth. He needs a prayer warrior like you to intercede.

Nothing better than your husband spending his time in the WORD not in this WORLD. Men still out there reading the Bible!

Peace makes everything flow better. When you're peace with yourself then you're family will peace in the home.

Give a man a fish,he'll eat for one day. Teach a man how to fish, he'll never be hungry. A man should be willing to be a student. 1 Peter 5:5 - Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all [of you] be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble.

This episode explains why & how your husband needs to also be submissive to authority. It is good to know, he knows how to correct himself .Obedience is better than sacrifice.

Pray that our future husband knows God on a deeper level so that no one can change his ways of thinking or loving God. The world will try to be a big influence in your life if you let it. When you stay deep in the word you know God for himself.

Your husband has to know God. He has to let his flesh die. He has to love you like Christ has loved the church. If he lets the world distract him, how can he properly lead your household. How is he supposed to love you if he's focusing on sin? As a wife like you already are, you must be a chief intercessor of his life before you even meet him or become one with him. Let's get into position!

30 days of Praying for your future husband. As a wife you are a chief intercessor. You may be ready for a husband, but you may not be ready to take on things that God wants to deal with in him.

Bone of my flesh of my flesh. Whatever you do now affects your spouse. Are you making great choices in life? Or are making poor choices? Even though you haven't met your spouse yet,you are their chief intercessor ! Its important to pray for them while you're unmarried. They may be dealing with things you cant handle as their spouse. Let God work through them and deal with them.

Fear is the enemy. We don't reach our full level of greatness when we let fear dictate our lives. Theres so much we can do for Gods kingdom but we give the enemy more glory than we do God. God did not give the spirit of fear,love and power of a sound mind. God is calling us out to the forefront. Are you going to step up or step back when God calls you?

He that finds a wife,finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. ‐Proverbs 18:22 . We focus on wanting a husband & what he should do. We have to look at ourselves and figure out if we're in the position to be a Proverbs 31 wife. Being a wife isn't just cooking and cleaning. Marriage is more than a social concept it's a kingdom concept! It's time for kingdom marriages to be birthed.

God is my husband. Even when I have an earthly husband. God is my husband. Ephesians 5 man is the goal. We submit to being a man's wife who isnt even a husband.

How do you know marriage is on the table? Is it something you've always desire? Did God place the spirit of marriage in your heart? God will change you to be put in position. God will allow situations to happen in order to prepare for a kingdom and Godly marriage. We will go over several signs God is preparing for the kingdom with marriage.

We've thought about it once that we're ready for our future spouse but have we prayed for them? I'm pretty sure majority of our answers are NO. Prayer can change a bad day to good, imagine what a simple prayer can do for your spouse. There are a few examples in this podcast on what to pray for.