Charis Alura

We throw the word intimacy around like we know what it means — but do we? This episode is a raw, unscripted dive into what intimacy actually is…and why so few of us ever experience it. It’s not sex. It’s not aesthetics. It’s not performance. It’s the terrifying, beautiful act of being fully seen — and still chosen. We live in a world that teaches us to hide, to shape-shift, to become what’s wanted...

In this episode, I share a dream that mirrored an old wound — and a deeper realization about belonging. It’s a story for anyone who has ever felt left out, unseen, or like they didn’t quite fit the mold they were born into. I explore a friendship from my past, the hidden costs of conformity, and the difference between building a life that looks good from the outside versus living one that feels tr...

In this episode, I take a hard, unfiltered look at the real pandemic — not COVID itself, but the fear that allowed our freedoms to be stripped away without a fight. I dive into the mass manipulation, medical coercion, and cultural obedience that reshaped our world — and the devastating cost of trading liberty for the illusion of safety. From forced vaccinations to the erosion of bodily autonomy, f...

In this raw and unflinching episode, I take on a subject many find uncomfortable: religion—and more specifically, Christianity. With personal insight and historical context, I explore how the Bible has long been used as a tool of oppression, particularly against women. From Eve’s vilification in the Garden of Eden to modern-day restrictions on women’s bodies, voices, and rights, I trace the legacy...

In this episode, Charis Alura explores the unsettling and complex world of the  manosphere . Sparked by Netflix’s powerful and disturbing miniseries  Adolescence ( SPOILER ALERT ) , Charis unpacks the roots of male anger, the appeal of red-pill ideology, and the heartbreaking reality of boys and men growing up without strong masculine role models. With vulnerability and nuance, she shares personal...

In this episode, I reflect on the long-term impact of the COVID-19 era on a generation of children—now teens and young adults—who grew up shaped by lockdowns, fear, and an obsession with illness. From masks in P.E. class to years spent indoors, what has this done to their health, their sense of safety, and their identity? As someone working in a holistic clinic, I’m seeing a startling trend: young...

Greenwood, Mississippi—more significant than you might realize. In this episode, I reflect on how this small town has been the backdrop for powerful stories, from Mississippi Masala to The Help and the tragic story of Emmett Till , a moment that helped ignite the civil rights movement. But Greenwood is more than its painful history—it's also the birthplace of the Mississippi Delta Blues . From...

I’ve been reading Mastery by Robert Greene, and it got me thinking—how do we actually become good at something? Not just competent, but truly great ? Turns out, there are no shortcuts. You’ve got to put in the work, follow what interests you, and stay in the game long enough to get somewhere. Along the way, I touch on The 48 Laws of Power (is power just manipulation?), why I don’t take criticism w...

What if everything you've been told about life, purpose, and fulfillment is a lie designed to keep you small? In this raw and thought-provoking episode, I dismantle the narratives that have enslaved humanity for centuries—dogma, obedience, and self-sacrifice. Religion, society, and cultural systems have conditioned us to believe we're flawed, unworthy, and in need of external salvation. Bu...

In this bold and thought-provoking episode, Charis Alura challenges the overuse of the term "narcissist" and the tendency to demonize others as a way to justify personal decisions. With raw honesty and deep reflection, she explores the dangers of victim mentality , the importance of personal responsibility , and the power of choosing yourself without blame or excuses . Charis dives into so...

In this episode, I dive into the controlled narratives shaping our society, from mainstream media to social platforms. As a Gen Xer, I don’t trust the sources that profit from my ignorance. I once turned to TikTok for raw, unfiltered perspectives—until that, too, changed. We’re witnessing a dystopian shift where billionaires control the conversation, dividing and distracting us. It’s time to unplu...

In this episode, we’re talking about politics—but before you hit the off button, hear me out. This isn't the conversation you might expect. I didn't grow up in a politically engaged world; in fact, the religion I was raised in forbade it. No voting, no opinions, just a strict commitment to neutrality. Now, outside of that world, I find myself surrounded by strong political opinions, but I...

Middle-aged anger—where does it come from, and what is it trying to tell us? In this episode, I dive into the frustration that builds over decades of compromise, societal conditioning, and ignoring our true desires. I explore why so many people wake up in their 40s and 50s feeling trapped in jobs, relationships, and beliefs that no longer serve them—and why anger is not the enemy, but a guide. If...

In this episode, I get honest about my lifelong struggle with friendship—how a deep-seated fear of rejection shaped my habits and how I've grown comfortable in solitude, even when I crave connection. I reflect on the patterns I built from childhood, the barriers I unintentionally create, and the challenge of learning to truly reciprocate in relationships. If you've ever felt like an outsid...

In this deeply personal and thought-provoking episode, I share my experience attending a Sunday service at Ebenezer Baptist Church in Atlanta’s historic Old Fourth Ward—the very heart of Martin Luther King Jr.'s legacy. From the electrifying power of the service to the profound weight of history beneath my feet, this was more than a church service; it was an immersion into a movement. I reflec...

Welcome. I’m Charis Alura, and this podcast exists because I need to speak. Not to get famous. Not to build a brand. But because it’s the only way I know to process life—the anger, the questions, the shifting perspectives. I talk about things most people avoid. I challenge assumptions. I push buttons. Some episodes are explorations, some are rants, and some are quiet realizations. This first episo...