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We're talking bare-minimum dating and why so many singles have stopped trying to impress their matches. Plus, a woman writes in worried if she's being stalked by her man's ex. Also listen as we discuss why childless singles struggle to date partners with kids. Master Online Dating Online Courses https://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/ How do I (30F) balance the amount of effort I put into OLD in a c...

A man decides to tell a woman *exactly* why he ghosted her. That kicks off a discussion about online dating for plus sized singles and how hateful messages they receive might have a connection to the current political climate. We also answer two listener letters from women about how to handle a man's erectile issues and what to do when someone doesn't respect your boundaries.

We dig in to the groundswell of negativity towards online dating that's spreading across the internet. Has COVID made it worse? Are men to blame or are women being too picky? How can we turn things around? BONUS: We give you an online dating hack that might be the very thing that helps you find love. Get my Master Online Dating Online Course here: https://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/maste...

SPOILERS ABOUT THE UNDOING IN THIS EPISODE! They'd been dating 3 months when she learned he'd been sleeping with other women the whole time. Now what does she do? We also talk about background checks, Googling dates and when it's appropriate to put a cheater on blast.

We've got it all this episode! First we talk about value judgements around first date sex and why sex should never be traded for exclusivity. Then we discuss why it's time we normalize being long-term single or never having had a relationship. We throw in a bit of mad-cap self-created dating app drama and close with a talk about co-habitation and whether you should hold on to your apartment until...

The pandemic isn't over just because you're over it, kids! We're talking COVID dating problems and why it's okay for men to show interest in sex. We also discuss how we sometimes conflate getting used for sex with someone simply losing interest. And don't miss our take on why there's a line when you decide to take revenge on an ex. I(30F) missed so many signs that it was just a hookup for him(32M)...

We talk about expectations around who confirms the date and when, messaging on dating apps and video dates. Also covered is dating while you're losing weight and the importance of posting accurate photos.

We're talking fake engagement rings and why some women wear their wedding bands after divorce. We also discuss a woman contemplating outing her married FWB to his wife. Plus, we introduce our new segment called There's A Sex & The City Episode For That. I’ve Been Sleeping With My Friend for Eight Years. Should I Tell His New Wife? https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/10/dear-prudence-sleeping-wit...

If you knew something about a friend's appearance was keeping them single, would you tell them? We discuss that and ways people set their first dates up to fail. Should I tell my friend that her stained teeth might be holding her back in OLD? https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jdtrfk/should_i_tell_my_friend_that_her_stained_teeth/

We're talking the ups and downs of dating in 2020, social media stalking and signs that connection you think you have with someone is all in your head. Follow us on Instagram: @thechristanm @1sarahg Sex, Lies & Expectations https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/sex-lies-and-expectations Boyfriend blocked me on social media https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/j595vp/boyfriend_blocked_m...

Drama! We talk about why a man's best friend might be sabotaging his engagement. (Hint: Girl, get a job!) We also discuss why trying to change a man's bad behavior rarely works. My Boyfriend’s Best Friend Is Urging Him Not to Marry Me https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/09/dear-prudence-boyfriend-best-friend-no-marriage.html Stop “Teaching” Women How To Deal With Men They’re Dating https://mediu...

A woman asks why she's always the side-piece but never the girlfriend; an obnoxious British man can't figure out why he's still single; and we talk which dating sites are full of scammers and which apps work best for singles over 40. Always a Mistress, Never a Missus https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/j5xdf2/always_a_mistress_never_a_missus/?sort=new Snobby Brit https://www.reddit....

Anybody else sick of the Brad Pitt/Jennifer Aniston saga? Because we are. We're talking James Comey fuckery, The Notorious RBG, dead parents that aren't really dead, and the stigma around not being close with your family. Submit a Dating Advice Letter https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question I’m Estranged From My Parents, but I Tell People They’re Dead https://slate.com/human-interest/2018...

This one has it all! Listen to a man's Tinder Tirade after being rejected and a woman's Tik Tok rant about having to pay her half of the tab. PLUS we get break down what people really mean when they want someone "healthy." Free Online Dating Advice Zoom Session https://www.eventbrite.com/e/singles-ask-answer-online-dating-advice-session-wcertified-dating-coach-tickets-122868012533 Sydney man sacke...

A reader asks what she should do about being uninvited to events because she's single. Sarah and I also parse an essay by a man weirdly proud of being dumped for no reason. Also listen in as we advise a PhD candidate on whether she should prioritize her education or dating. PLUS! We have the PERFECT response for the age old question "Why are you single?" She Ended Things After the Second Date and...

To mask up or not to mask up during sex. That is the question. We also talk about Chris Evans' apparently unremarkable penis and why men's opinions of women don't matter.

This one's about figuring out your dating league and when to shoot out of it. We also talk about the dangers of dating a narcissist. FOLLOW US ON IG @thechristanm @1sarahg @womenologypod Is it a bad idea to continue to sleep with someone (36m) who indicated he’s not looking for a relationship? https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/inpi8k/bad_idea_to_continue_to_sleep_with_someone_36m/...

We talk about the Glossier cosmetics drama and toxic work environment, discuss whether oral sex is necessary for a great sex life and once again out a fake Medium writer who's probably a dude. OUTTATHEGLOSS ON INSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/outtathegloss/ I HATE GIVING ORAL SEX TO WOMEN https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/dislike-oral-sex-advice.html

A listener asks if she should dump a guy for oversharing on their second date. We also discuss how to answer that awkward question of "What do you do?" when you're unemployed or unable to work. Should She Dump Him For Oversharing https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/should-she-dump-him-for-oversharing

We talk about how Bella Thorne massively screwed over sex workers, the stigmas single women over 40 face, and say "Fuck That Guy!" about a man who used a woman for sex and then blamed her for gaining weight. The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/the-stigma-of-being-40-never-married-childless Dumped for Gaining Weight https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthir...

We're talking why women settle for casual sex, the dangers of marathon dates and red flags we often ignore. Sexting after marathon date https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/igrwll/speechless/ Guy messages me asking for something casual https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ifak8d/guy_messaged_me_asking_if_im_interested_in/ Why do women settle for FWB? https://www.dateologyc...

We talk the pair and a spare theory and how men aren't the only ones that date multiple people at the same time. Also discussed is a creepy story about a Tinder match gone wrong and how to protect yourself from dating app stalkers. WHY DID SHE DUMP HIM AFTER SEX? https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/is-she-stringing-him-along

We talk about a man who wishes his girlfriend would wear more make-up, creepy Tik Tok pick-up artist/sex pest Russell Hartley, and why men are so intimidated by women who enjoy sex. Help! Is There a Non-Sexist Way to Tell My Girlfriend She Should Wear More Makeup? https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/dear-prudence-dating-makeup-beauty-sexism-advice.html Russell Hartley on Tik Tok https://www.t...

Whether it's a physical impairment or invisible illness, dating with a disability is a conversation we don't have often enough. In this episode, we discuss how and when to disclose a disability and the awkward conversations that arise; what should be included in a dating profile; and why able-bodied singles need to educate themselves about how people with disabilities navigate day-to-day life. On...

Why do people have to ruin a perfectly good Zoom date by being creepy? Get tips on how to navigate those awkward on and offline date moments. Also listen in as we discuss older women/younger men relationships and why so many women take to the internet with their stories. AWKWARD FIRST DATE TIPS https://www.christanmarashio.com/post/let-s-talk-awkward-zoom-dates A BEGINNER'S GUIDE FOR THE YOUNGER M...