Change The Odds

Discover how the stories we tell ourselves shape our feelings, actions, and relationships—with practical tools for deeper, more compassionate communication in marriage and beyond.

What if you never had to fight about money again? We unpack how financial trust, team systems, and intentional spending can transform your marriage.

Is money hurting your marriage? Kevin and Adrienne dive into the five mistakes couples make with money—and how to fix them for good. This episode is part one of a two-part conversation you don’t want to miss.

What does disrespect really look like in marriage? Kevin, Blaine, and Adrian unpack the subtle ways we dishonor our partners—and how to rebuild trust and connection with intentional respect.

Respect isn’t just a nice-to-have in marriage—it’s essential. In this episode, we dive into what respect is, what it isn’t, and how to cultivate it in your relationship. Plus, real-life moments that prove respect makes all the difference!

Is apathy the true enemy of marriage? In this episode, we unpack why drifting apart—not adultery, finances, or poor communication—is the real cause of divorce. Learn how small, intentional actions can transform your relationship and keep you and your spouse connected.

Is your marriage thriving or just surviving? In this episode, we unpack how to intentionally build a relationship rooted in friendship, partnership, and intimacy—before drifting into something you never intended.

What does it take to become a power couple? In this episode, we explore the keys to building a thriving relationship—shared vision, secure attachment, personal growth, and more. Whether you’re in a great place or facing struggles, these insights will help you grow and inspire others along the way.

Are differences in marriage a weakness or a strength? In this episode, we unpack how contrasting personalities, perspectives, and habits can actually strengthen relationships—if handled with respect and understanding. From dishwasher debates to financial mindsets, Blaine and Adrienne explore how their differences bring balance, growth, and unity.

Grief looks different for everyone—but what happens when two people in a marriage process loss in completely different ways? Blaine and Adrienne share their deeply personal miscarriage story, revealing the unexpected challenges, the healing power of community, and how suffering can either pull couples apart or make them stronger than ever.

Your childhood experiences shape your relationships more than you think! In this episode, we dive into attachment theory—the science behind why we connect, argue, and love the way we do. Learn how to break old cycles, build secure attachments, and strengthen your marriage.

Do you greet your kids or your spouse first when you walk through the door? This episode dives into the science of personality, exploring how different perspectives shape relationships, communication, and connection in marriage. Discover how to use your differences as strengths and build a stronger family dynamic.

How do personality and autopilot behaviors impact your marriage? Kevin Thompson dives into agency, bonding, and certainty with Blaine and Adrienne Neufeld, exploring the Enneagram, parenting, and rewiring your relationship dynamics.

Explore the five biggest marriage trends of 2025 with Kevin Thompson. From delayed marriages to flourishing relationships, this episode unpacks the changing dynamics of love, partnership, and family.

Start 2025 right! Kevin Thompson sits down with Blaine and Adrienne Neufeld to explore five game-changing marriage trends for the year, tackling myths about marriage happiness, overcoming distractions, and sharing simple ways to deepen connection daily.

As 2024 wraps up, Kevin Thompson sits down with Pastor Mark Clark to explore themes from Mark’s upcoming book,  The Problem of Life . They discuss how personal growth impacts marriage, the pursuit of joy in a disconnected world, and why facing life’s challenges with faith can lead to flourishing relationships.

Discover how unresolved wounds from the past impact intimacy and how Dr. Barbara Wilson’s transformative study helps women find healing, restoration, and freedom in marriage and faith.

Explore how forgiveness unlocks freedom, restores connections, and transforms exhaustion into engagement. Learn practical steps to let go of grudges, extend grace, and embrace the life you’re called to live.

Discover five practical ways to stay happily married during the holiday season. From tackling stress to prioritizing connection, learn how to thrive as a couple amidst the busyness and expectations of the holidays.

The holidays can be joyous—or stressful. Kevin Thompson and Dr. Barbara Wilson dive into family dynamics, guilt-free boundaries, and how to manage holiday conflicts with love and grace.

Discover how Janelle and Scott McGuckin faced cancer, faith, and marriage head-on, leading to Janelle’s powerful book, The Gift of With . Their journey is a testament to the power of community, resilience, and God’s presence in every moment.

In this episode, Kevin dives into part two of “engagement” by exploring how quieting life’s constant noise can restore clarity, compassion, and deeper connections in marriage, family, and faith. Discover how intentional disengagement helps us focus on what truly matters.

In this episode, Kevin dives into what it means to be truly engaged in a world full of distractions. Explore the importance of prioritizing what matters most in life and relationships, while eliminating noise and worry to live fully engaged.

Will Robins shares his powerful story of survival, addiction, and recovery, as he and his wife, Mandy, navigate life after a near-death experience. From professional golf to battling personal demons, Will’s journey reveals how faith and resilience changed the odds in their marriage.

In this episode, Kevin Thompson explores how the hurried pace of modern life erodes intimacy in relationships and offers practical strategies to create intentional moments of connection amidst the chaos.