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In Week 3 of our couple's journey through the book of James, we talk about the difficult but necessary discipline of taming the tongue. If you need help with watching your words and building a world of blessing, this one could be a huge benefit. To get a guide to study the book of James with your spouse, head to carlandheather.com, enter your email address to get the guide sent straight to yo...

In week 2 of our 5 week journey through the book of James we talk about how to make faith move beyond hearing to action and impact. If your marriage feels stuck, maybe it's time to take action on what you already know to do. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

This is week 1 of our couples-walk through the book of James. We get into the reality of suffering and the promise of what it could accomplish as we try and endure some of life's most difficult stuff without losing each other. This episode has a study guide you can use to have your own conversation with your spouse. Get it at carlandheather.com Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl an...

We got in a fight and it felt real familiar to a fight that landed us in counseling a few years ago, so we decided to break it down and talk about it. If you find yourself having the same fight over and over, this episode can help. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

After four decades of marriage, Marty and Lora Schweiterman still look at each other like newlyweds—but with a whole lot more wisdom. In this episode, they share time-tested habits, spiritual rhythms, and intentional choices that help you build a marriage that is built to last. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cart...

Our friend Jill Forbes joins the podcast this week and tells her story of suddenly losing her spouse Heath to a heart attack at 47. She shares openly with us about trying to hold the hope of the Gospel in one of the hardest seasons of life. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

Marriage and family experts Ben and Janet Burns join us this week to talk about how to put empathy into action. Understanding each other on an emotional level can accelerate our connection and help us move towards purpose together! Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

In this episode we talk with our friends Steve and Amber Alverson, an incredible couple working hard to stay connected to each other through busy schedules and 4 small kids. Here is a link to find a ReEngage in your area...this is one of the things Steve and Amber attribute to helping their marriage grow: https://www.reengage.org/locations Here is a link to the fancy salt Steve says they put on th...

In this episode we encourage people to tap the breaks before throwing in the towel on their marriage. Just because it's seems dead does not mean it's over. Don't throw in the towel yet. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

This week we talk about loss, grief and healing with Daniel and Jamie Heard. The Heards share the story of losing their young son William in a choking accident and how it's brought them to the depths of despair and understanding that our pain can be our place of greatest impact. Daniel and Jamie lead Faithfully Restored, a ministry that through hope in Jesus, lifts up women who need care, enc...

In this episode, we dive into the importance of having real, meaningful conversations about sex in marriage. We’ll share why honest conversations about your desires, needs, and fears can lead to a stronger bond and a more fulfilling sex life. If you’ve ever struggled to find the words, this episode will help you start the conversation that could change everything. Send us Fan Mail Looking to conne...

Struggling to communicate with your spouse? You’re not alone — but you don’t have to stay stuck. In this episode we’re breaking down how to fix broken communication, listen to truly understand, and speak with clarity that actually connects. This conversation is full of practical wisdom and real-life insight to help you talk with each other — not just at each other. Send us Fan Mail Looking to conn...

In the conclusion of their story, Myles and Carrie Murphy share what life looks like on the other side of addiction—where healing comes through engaging the Spirit, trust is rebuilt, and God's grace writes a new chapter.  Here is the message that Myles references from Pastor John Piper about Romans 8 that helped him engage the Spirit in a way that led to his deliverance from alcohol addiction...

In this powerful and vulnerable conversation, Myles and Carrie Murphy share their journey through the dark valley of addiction—and the miraculous deliverance that changed everything. Myles opens up about his battle with alcoholism and the toll it took on their marriage. Carrie shares what it was like to walk through those years beside him, praying, hoping, and holding on. This episode is a testame...

This episode offers help for those struggling to forgive the things they can't forget. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

In this episode we talk about our month-long fast from social media and screens in the month of March. It dramatically helped us reconnect to our family and each other. It might be something you didn't know you need. It was for us! Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

In this episode we asked Heather's friends for their best marriage advice. Here's what they said. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

Carl asked his friends for their best marriage advice. Here's what they said... Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

This week's special guests are Craig and Molly Sanborn (The Cheeseball Chick) who share their story of conflict, going in opposite directions and how to get back on the same page after drifting apart. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

In part 2 of this two part series, we talk about our parenting playbook. This episode offers encouragement and help to couples looking for advice on what parenting strategies to emphasize and hope to help kids become healthy adults. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

In part 1 of this two part series, we take on parenting. This episode offers encouragement and help for couples who want to get on the same page when parenting their children. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

This week we present Dr. Tim Muehlhoff and the topic of Marriage and Spiritual Warfare. Tim's book "Defending Your Marriage", is a balanced and biblical look at the very real struggle against forces of evil in our relationships. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

In this bonus episode we share about some of the great things God did at Behold 2025 and celebrate with everyone all the answers to prayer. Thanks for praying for us! Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

This week we sit down with Biblical scholar and former president of Moody Bible Institute, Dr. Michael Easley. We discuss what the Bible has to say about marriage. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

This week we welcome Darrin and Vivian Mabuni to the podcast where we hear their story of facing cancer together and what they learned about "in sickness and in health". Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee