Car Ride Conversations For Sports Families

Mastering Habits: Law 2 - Make it attractive Join host Valerie Alston on this episode of Car Ride Conversations for Sports Families as she dives into the science of habit formation and motivation. Learn how to connect habits to purpose, enjoyment, and identity, and discover practical tips from James Clear's book, 'Atomic Habits.' Valerie discusses the dopamine feedback loop, temptation bundling, a...

Kickstart Your Year: Build better habits - Make it Obvious In this episode of Car Ride Conversations for Sports Families, host Valerie Alston discusses the importance of habit formation over motivation for achieving long-term goals. She dives into the science of habit formation and shares practical tips on building effective habits for athletes and their families. Valerie highlights the significan...

Navigating Athletic Slumps: Insights and Strategies  Every athlete experiences slumps—periods where performance doesn't meet expectations. In this episode of Car Ride Conversations for Sports Families, host Valerie Alston explores the nature of slumps, why they occur, and how to overcome them. Valerie shares her personal story of switching to left-handed hitting in softball and the growth tha...

How to Turn Failure into Success: The Growth Mindset for Athletes Failure isn't the enemy; it's the best teammate you can have. In this episode of Car Ride Conversations for Sports Families, host Valerie Alston discusses the importance of embracing failure as part of the growth process for athletes. Valerie explains how a growth mindset, where athletes view their abilities as improvable with effor...

Unlock Your Athlete's Potential: The 24-Hour Rule for Post-Performance Reflection Join host Valerie Alston in this insightful episode of 'Car Ride Conversations for Sports Families,' where she introduces the 24-hour rule to help athletes move past their performances—both good and bad. Learn how to use an effective post-performance review process to build confidence, stay motivated, and focus on fu...

Keeping the Gratitude Alive: Thanksgiving Conversations with Valerie Alston In this special Thanksgiving episode, we explore the power of expressing gratitude out loud to deepen relationships and turn appreciation into action. Valerie shares practical tips for sparking meaningful conversations about gratitude at the Thanksgiving table and beyond, along with insights from her extensive experience t...

Harnessing the Power of Gratitude for Mental Toughness and Performance Discover how gratitude can be a powerful tool for mental toughness and performance in sports In this episode of Car Ride Conversations for Sports Families, host Valerie Alston delves into the concept of mental toughness and emphasizes the importance of gratitude as a powerful performance tool. Valerie explains how practicing gr...

Transforming Youth Sports: The You Matter Ankeny Classic Softball Tournament In the final part of our series, host Valerie Alston engages in a deep conversation with Justin about the You Matter Ankeny Classic, a unique softball tournament focused on mental health and sportsmanship. Justin shares how he brought together counselors, coaches, and athletes to create an event that emphasizes character...

Coaching Wellness: Building Youth Mental Health through Sports In this episode of Car Ride Conversations for Sports Families, host Valerie Alston continues her discussion with Justin Boger, a board member of the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. They explore the critical role sports play in fostering youth mental health and wellness. Topics covered include current trends in youth mental...

Handling Emotions and Sportsmanship in Youth Sports ft. Justin Bogers Join Valerie Alston and special guest Justin Bogers, a dad, coach, and board member for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, in this insightful episode of Car Ride Conversations for Sports Families. Explore the highs and lows of youth sports, focusing on building character, mental health, and sportsmanship. Hear an ey...

The True Essence of Youth Coaching In the final episode of the Special Car Ride Conversation series, host Valerie Alston and her dad, a former coach, delve into the core values that matter in youth sports. The discussion covers the significance of emotional regulation, body language, and prioritizing effort over outcomes. They offer insights on maintaining open communication between parents and ch...

Parent Coaching: Essential Advice for Building Resilient Young Athletes  In this episode of Car Ride Conversations, Valerie Alston and her former coach/dad share crucial advice for parent coaches. Discover how to define your role, why life skills trump the scoreboard, and managing emotional highs and lows while coaching your own child. Learn about transforming average athletes into game chang...

Mastering Calm: Techniques for Athletes to Control Nerves and Enhance Performance In this episode of 'Confident Calm Clutch Car Rides Conversations,' hosted by Valerie Alston, discover how you can train your brain and body to stay calm under pressure. Learn to recognize personal signs of stress through the stoplight analogy, and explore simple yet effective tools like deep breathing and reset cues...

Unlock Athletic Success with Visualization Techniques  Join host Valerie Alston in this insightful episode of Confident Calm Clutch Car Ride Conversations as she delves into the power of visualization and mental rehearsal. Learn why visualization works, how it enhances the brain-body connection, and how athletes of all levels can benefit from this powerful mental training tool. Whether you're...

Navigating Injury: Mental Toughness & Emotional Resilience for Athletes Getting injured as an athlete isn't just about healing your body, it's also about healing your mind. In this episode host Valerie Alston delves into the emotional ups and downs of being injured and discusses how mental skills can speed recovery. Valerie shares her personal injury story, explores the grief process associate...

From Dance to Tennis: A Teen's Journey in Competitive Sports  In this special episode of Car Ride Conversations, host Valerie Alston is joined by her teenage niece, Ireland, who shares her journey of transitioning from dance to competitive tennis. They discuss the challenges of not making the team initially, the motivation behind her continued efforts, and the lessons learned about mental tou...

Mastering Self-Talk: The Ultimate Guide to Staying Focused and Confident Join host Valerie Alston in this episode of Confident Calm Clutch Car Ride Conversations as she explores the power of self-talk and its impact on performance. Valerie introduces the P3 formula—Purposeful, Productive, and Possibility focused self-talk—to help athletes and parents build effective internal dialogue. From sharing...

How to Boost Athletic Performance: Key Focus Strategies for Athletes and Coaches In this episode host Valerie Alston explores the crucial role of attentional focus in sports performance. Discover why it's essential to minimize distractions and learn two effective skills to help athletes direct their attention to what's most important. Valerie also provides insights on how parents and coaches can s...

Building Daily Wins: Boosting Athlete Confidence Beyond the Scoreboard In this episode of Confident Calm Clutch Car Ride Conversations, host Valerie Alston emphasizes the importance of building confidence through small, everyday wins rather than relying solely on stats and big plays. Alston shares practical tips and real-life examples from her experience working with athletes, helping them redefin...

Shut Down the 'What If' Trap: Boosting Athlete Confidence and Focus Welcome back to Confident Calm Clutch Car Ride Conversations with your host Valerie Alston! In this episode, we tackle the common pre-game mental trap of 'What if?' thoughts that cause anxiety and hinder performance. Learn how elite athletes manage these thoughts to stay focused and present in the moment. Discover two key strategi...

What happens when a championship-level coach takes over a middle school team of beginners? In this heartwarming and hilarious episode of Car Ride Conversations, host Valerie Alston and her dad, a former coach, explore what it means to meet athletes where they're at. Listen in on laugh-out-loud stories from their middle school softball days, including a hilarious stolen base mishap, and learn how s...

In this episode of 'Confident Calm and Clutch Car Ride Conversations,' host Valerie Alston explores the 'fade out effect' - the phenomenon where mental skills training fades over time without continuous support from parents, coaches, and the community. Drawing insights from an article about the marshmallow test, Valerie discusses the importance of a supportive environment in ensuring the long-term...

Life Lessons from Coaching: Parenting, Pressure & Growth  In this episode of Car Ride Conversations, host Valerie Alston chats with her dad and former coach about the invaluable lessons learned from coaching over 100 games a year. They discuss how these experiences translate into parenting techniques, the ineffectiveness of yelling, and the importance of values over volume in shaping a te...

Mastering Confidence, Calm, and Clutch: An Essential Guide for Athletes and Parents In this episode of 'Confident, Calm, Clutch Car Ride Conversations,' host Valerie Alston dives deep into the essential traits that make athletes not just withstand but thrive under pressure. Valerie, a former athlete and sports psychology professional, breaks down the three core traits—confidence, calm, and clutch—...

Welcome to 'Confident Calm Clutch Car Ride Conversations' with Valerie Alston. In this episode, Valerie delves into managing nerves and using your body to enhance performance. Learn the importance of controlling your body's responses, using breath as a key tool to maintain calm and confidence, and practical strategies like box breathing and grounding techniques. This episode is perfect for parents...