Calm the Chaos Parenting

EPISODE 32: In the Calm the Chaos corner of the internet, we're talking about raising out-of-the-box kids, the ones who don't fit the usual mold and sometimes act in ways that make us worry. But there's one challenge that many parents face, yet it hardly gets talked about. That's why I've decided to dive into that big three-letter topic in this ep - OCD. And I've got the pe...

EPISODE 31: This week, we're diving into a topic that keeps popping up in our community, and it's a two-part issue. Firstly, some parents are puzzled about how to help their kids at school as they come home on Fridays exhausted and frustrated, or they flat out refuse to go to school, claiming it's just too stressful. Even when they do go, they return home stressed and unwilling to do h...

EPISODE 30: I’ve spent a decade in this field, and the stories I hear are strikingly similar: "My partner just doesn’t get it."  "I’m a single parent, and it's just overwhelming."  "My partner and I just can’t agree on how to raise our kids." So this week, we’re taking a deep dive into a topic that hits close to home for so many incredible parents out there: Parenting n...

EPISODE 29: Ever had that heart-dropping moment when your kid, in front of the entire family, curiously asks about a wildly embarrassing topic? Or the shock of discovering they were sexting? Or felt anxiety about needing to discuss bullying, divorce, or death with them? In such moments, it's easy to feel flustered and at a loss for words. However, these tough topics are challenges all parents...

EPISODE 28: Over the years, as I parented an autistic child, worked with parents of autistic kids, and met many beautiful and amazing autistic individuals, one thing has always stood out to me: The world doesn't always recognize the wonder in these incredible individuals as I see it. And I've always wished that others could see these humans in their true light. Every moment spent with them...

EPISODE 27: Ever felt like you're ticking all the right boxes in parenting, staying calm, connecting with your child, and yet, your child seems to be that 'exception'? If that's ringing any bells, you're in for a treat with today's podcast! Today, we dig into the world of peaceful parenting tailored for complex kids with Sarah Rosensweet, a certified coach, speaker, and the...

EPISODE 26: TRIGGER WARNING: Today's topic covers self-harm. In this episode, we are diving into a topic that many parents face, yet few openly talk about: self-harm. We'll be hearing from a family who experienced this challenge firsthand. They'll share how they addressed this dangerous and frightening situation and where they stand today. Let's welcome Amanda and Marc Ferraro. Thi...

EPISODE 25: Ever felt like your life is at the bottom of the barrel, thinking things couldn't get any worse? And around every turn, it just feels like more challenges are coming up, especially when it comes to your kids’ behaviors. Ever felt stuck, as if each day was an uphill battle, sinking to an all-time low and struggling in pretty much every aspect: at school around your house in getting...

EPISODE 24: Joining me on this podcast episode is Jenifer Beaney - a CTC community member and a mom of four who is going to talk about her adopted 16-year-old daughter, the tough times they had at first, and how she turned it around. Before joining Jen's family, her daughter was tagged "challenging" so many times, and the people in her life just gave up on her. In just eight years, she...

EPISODE 23: We’ve all heard the horrendous stories of drugs, sex, truancy, friendship drama, and urgh homework, not to mention modern society's constant barrage of social media, influencers, and YouTubers.  I’m not sure there is a parent out there who feels confident, let alone excited, about the teenage years.  That's precisely why today's podcast episode is so special. Joining us is...

EPISODE 22: When I ask my communities what is your #1 biggest struggle, guess what I hear a lot? “Electronic battles” “Sneaking Electronics” “My kid’s addicted to their screen!”  “Getting my kid to get off electronics.”   Sound familiar? Trust me, you're not alone. All of us in this digital age ask ourselves: How much is too much?  What's age-appropriate?  Is screen time harming my child&#...

EPISODE 21: Do you feel like you’re trapped in a loop? Yelling at your kids, fighting with your spouse, and struggling to breathe under the overwhelming weight of daily chaos?  Constantly wondering, "Why am I like this?" or "Am I broken?" Trust me, we've all been there.  We get trapped in these ruts of doubt, self-blame, shame, and not-enoughness, not only in parenting but in m...

EPISODE 20: This week, my dream came true.  All I’ve wanted since starting my blog a decade ago is to help as many parents like me, parents who were feeling helpless and hopeless, to feel less alone. To show them that there is a way out.  And this week, My "Calm the Chaos" book hit the shelves and I know it can do just that.  Because the framework has already helped hundreds of thousands o...

📖 Get your copy of Calm The Chaos Book ! EPISODE 19: It’s here! Today is the day we’ve been waiting for!!  Calm the Chaos book is finally out in the wild after four long years in the making.  And I can tell you, we’re all in a party mood here. Instead of doing our regular scheduled podcast episode, we want to step back and celebrate, not just our journey but the amazing journey of all the thousan...

EPISODE 18: Ever wished you could go back and talk to your younger self and tell them everything you wish you’d known? Well, in this week's podcast, we’re going to do just that. In it, we asked 21 parenting experts the same question:  What message do you have for parents who are struggling, who are where you were at the start of your journey? Because parenting is hard.  And sometimes, it can f...

EPISODE 17: Hey guys, Jason here (again). Before Dayna is back, I'll be doing another solo episode. And this time, let me ask you if you relate to this: You ask your partner, spouse, or your kid to help you with the laundry, and they do. But when they don't fold the towels just the way you would fold them, you get angry at them for doing it wrong. As a result, they stop helping with the to...

EPISODE 16: Hey guys, Jason here! This week we are doing something a little different because I don't have my partner in crime, Dayna, with me. (Because she’s doing some amazing work with Village Impact in Kenya - check additional resources for more details.) Originally, we were going to dive into the fascinating world of sensory processing. But I’m not exactly the expert on the topic… I mean,...

EPISODE 15: Today, we're diving into a topic that I've shied away from discussing for far too long. It's a topic that elicits strong emotions, heated debates, and carries a weight of history and trauma.  Yes, we're talking about autism. As parents raising autistic children, we understand the complexities surrounding autism. We know the struggles, the victories, and the importance o...

EPISODE 14: Living with ADHD can be quite an adventure! Trust me, I know firsthand. Living with ADHD is like embarking on a unique and exciting journey. Sure, it may come with its fair share of challenges, but there's so much more to it than meets the eye. In this week’s post, I am going to dive into the world of ADHD and share my personal journey with it. I share personal anecdotes and reflec...

EPISODE 13: Parenting is a journey filled with joys, challenges, and the constant pursuit of doing what's best for our children. However, amidst the sea of advice and expectations, many parents find themselves grappling with guilt and shame over perceived shortcomings. It's not uncommon for parents to be bombarded with conflicting advice from professionals, experts, and well-meaning friend...

EPISODE 12: If you've ever wondered why the heck your kid does what they do and what it really means, then this is the episode you've been waiting for. This week, we're diving deep into the secrets behind your child's challenging behaviors — stubborn defiance, selective hearing, seemingly constant anger, and many other things parents are usually struggling with. Understanding these...

EPISODE 11: What does it mean to you to be connected with your kid? When you say “connection”, what comes to your mind? I ask this because I believe that there's this whole misconception about what connection truly means.  Many people have this idealized idea of connection time, having a picture-perfect scene straight out of Pinterest or a Disney movie in their heads. You know, birds chirping...

EPISODE 10: If you're going through struggles with your spouse or partner, whether it's about the kids' behavior, money matters, or anything else, ask yourselves: Do you both really want to be together and build a family? Are you on the same page when it comes to your destination? If the answer is “Yes,” then this episode is just what you need. And even if your answer is "No" o...

EPISODE 9: "We don't parent that way." If you've ever said that to your partner and received a fiery glare in return, don't worry, you're not alone. It's frustrating when you and your partner can't see eye to eye on parenting decisions. Trust me, many couples face this same struggle. One question we hear all the time from parents who join our program or attend our f...

EPISODE 8: Are you ready to challenge traditional notions of parenting and create a family ecosystem centered on teamwork and mutual understanding? I'm talking about an ecosystem where everyone's voices are heard and each family member's needs are valued. Sounds like something out of a dream, right? Well, guess what? It's definitely possible, and we're here to show you how. Thi...