Calm Connection Parenting | Neurodivergent, Meltdowns, Emotional Regulation, DMDD, Tantrums, SPD, Defiance, Angry Behaviors

In today’s episode, we tackle a question that many parents of emotionally intense children ask themselves: Is this just a phase, or is this emotional intensity something we’ll have to navigate for the long haul?   We dive into how emotional intensity can fluctuate with age and developmental milestones, and how it might evolve into something that stays with your child through adolescence and adulth...

Have you ever had parenting whiplash? You know, when your child goes from laughing to losing it in a matter of seconds? Maybe it’s because you picked the wrong-colored cup, said ‘no’ to a snack, or asked them to turn off their game—suddenly, you’re dealing with a full-on emotional eruption, and you have no idea how you got here. But what if I told you there are actually patterns behind these emoti...

If you’ve ever thought, "Why does NOTHING work with my child?!"—you’re not alone. I used to think I had this whole parenting thing figured out, but then life threw me a curveball: a child with ADHD, mood disorder, big emotions, and challenging behaviors.  And let me tell you… the traditional advice? It failed us completely. But when I made one simple shift, EVERYTHING changed. Today, I’m...

Moms, we get it—parenting can feel like a never-ending juggling act, especially when you’re also trying to advocate for your child’s needs. But what if the secret to being the best advocate for your child starts with taking care of you first? In this episode, Elyse Scheeler joins us to share her powerful PRAY acronym, a simple reminder to help you prioritize self-care, find the support you need, a...

Ever feel like your child’s emotions are on a wild roller coaster, and you’re just trying to hang on for dear life? Trust me, you’re not alone! In today’s episode, we’re going to explore the world of emotional intensity in kids—and the avenues you can pursue in navigating a tricky path through the intense emotions and behaviors. Think of this episode as your parenting roadmap to turning emotional...

Do New Year’s resolutions leave you feeling stressed or discouraged? 🙋‍♀️ If you’re a parent of a uniquely wired child, you know it’s not about just checking things off a to-do list—it’s about growing, learning, and adapting to what really matters. In this episode, I’m sharing a fresh approach: a simple tool that will guide you, motivate you, and keep you moving forward—without the added pressure...

What happens when reality is nothing like what you imagined? Mary, the mother of Jesus, knew this feeling all too well. In today’s episode, we’ll take a heartfelt, down-to-earth look at the first Christmas through her eyes—her struggles, her questions, and the beauty she found in the unexpected. If parenting your uniquely wired child has brought challenges you didn’t see coming, this story will in...

Does your child seem to experience emotions on overdrive—outbursts that can be shocking, irritability that feels constant, and meltdowns that leave everyone drained? Parenting a child with these challenges can feel overwhelming and isolating, but you’re not alone. In this episode, we’re shedding light on Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD), a condition that might explain these intense be...

As the holidays approach, many parents of uniquely wired children feel the weight of family expectations and the pressure of navigating family gatherings. You want to enjoy the holidays and make memories, but instead, you’re dreading the judgment and misunderstandings from family members who just don’t get it. If your child struggles with behaviors that others don’t understand — meltdowns, emotion...

Are you dreaming of a calm and joyful Christmas, but feeling frazzled rather than festive? Between juggling gift lists, family gatherings, and managing your child's emotions and behaviors, the holidays can quickly turn into Christmas chaos. But it doesn’t have to be that way!  In this episode, I’m sharing 3 practical tips to take the chaos out of Christmas and help you reclaim the joy and con...

Does the holiday hustle make you feel more ‘bah humbug’ than ‘ho, ho, ho’? If so, you’re not alone! Holidays can be as full of emotions as they are with festive lights. So, if you’re looking for a holiday season that balances joy and the real feels, you’re in the right place. Let’s talk about how to navigate holiday gatherings, embrace your own pace, and find little sparks of joy—even when holiday...

Is your family caught in a dreadful cycle of grumbles and entitlement? Creating a family-wide attitude of gratitude can seem daunting, especially in the midst of big emotions and challenging behaviors. But it's entirely possible! Ready to take that step? Let's explore practical strategies to nurture gratitude within your family, so you can  transform everyday moments into opportunities f...

Have you ever muttered…“I don’t have what it takes." "It’s never going to be better." Sound familiar? You’re not alone! This week, join me and life coach Amy Wadlington as we dive into the limiting beliefs that hold many parents back—and discover how faith, connection, and community can change it all.  Ready for a fresh perspective and some heartfelt encouragement? 🎧 Grab a cup of...

Have you ever looked at a child who just couldn’t sit still or focus and thought, ‘They must have ADHD’? What if I told you that’s only part of the story? ADHD is one of the most misunderstood conditions out there. For years, I believed the myths—until my own family’s journey showed me the truth.  ADHD isn’t just about kids bouncing off the walls—it’s about brain differences that affect everything...

 Ever feel like parenting is like solving a Rubik’s cube?  Your child’s personality might just be the missing piece that puts it all in place! This week on Calm Connection, we’re unlocking the secrets to your child’s behavior by diving into their personality strengths, struggles, and emotional needs—and trust me, it’s a game changer. Whether your kiddo is a Noise Maker, Peace Maker, Plan Maker, or...

Get your copy of  The You Zoo Personality Cheat Sheet ! In this enlightening episode of Calm Connection Parenting, we explore the powerful connection between a child's personality and their emotional responses.  Discover why understanding personality types is essential for fostering deeper connections and effectively managing big emotions. We’ll dive into the four primary personality types, s...

Do you remember when you used to see a child have a meltdown in public and think, “My child will never act like that!”? I know I did. I was convinced that I would be the parent with the calm, collected child who breezed through life without a hitch. But then, I became a parent myself. Now, I find myself navigating the emotional ups and downs of raising a highly sensitive child, and let me tell you...

Get your Chaos to Calm Cheat Sheet at ParentingWithPersonality.com Do you ever feel completely lost when your child has a meltdown? One minute they’re fine, and the next, you're experiencing an emotional explosion! And you don’t even know what triggered it. It’s exhausting, right? In today’s episode, we’re  getting to the bottom of it! In this episode, I’m sharing what’s really behind those m...

Have you ever felt like no matter what you try, your child’s meltdowns and big emotions just don’t seem to get better? I’ve been there—confused, frustrated, and desperate for answers. In this episode, I’m sharing our story, the struggles we faced, and the strategies that helped us build a calm connection with our child. Stick with me—because by the end of this episode, you’ll see that there’s real...

🌟Welcome to the Calm Connection Parenting Podcast! 🎙️ Do the meltdowns, big emotions, and challenging behaviors leave you feeling overwhelmed and disconnected from your child? You’re not alone—and you don’t have to keep feeling this way! Whether you’re raising a highly sensitive child, navigating intense emotional outbursts, or just trying to bring more peace and understanding to your home, this...