Buckle Up Babes

We talk a lot about Narcissism on this podcast, but this week we're taking it back to basics. So I've brought back my favorite "Nice Guy" Narcissist expert Eleni Sagredos. We're breaking down the basics, sharing stories, and giving you some red flags to look out for.    And shocker... we had a lot to say so this will be a two part episode.    Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense  Elen...

For this week's episode, we're sharing a super interesting conversation from my other podcast - the Mr. Pick Me and Manhater Podcast that you all are going to love... or hate? Hate to love?  It's the story of a man who cheats on his pregnant wife - told by the woman he betrayed. But this isn't a tragic tale. No, no, no. According to them, this is an inspirational tale of a woman who stood by her m...

When it comes to Trad Wives, we can all agree that they're looking to take us back to olden times. Little did they know, the Times would be the one to deliver the biggest blow to the facade they attempt to project.  And by Times, we mean the New York Times.  On today's episode we are talking about Ballerina Farms and more specifically Hannah Neeleman. And while it may be hard to find sympathy for...

Buckle up friends, this one is the dooziest of doozies. Our guest today is Lisa aka Tiktok's _Stronger_than_before. She's a relationship coach who specializes in abusive relationships... and the perfect co-host to talk about an extremely popular "nice guy" Tiktok therapist that has some truly terrible takes.  Oh you want an example? How about him making MULTIPLE videos about how people pleasers ca...

Did anyone have tightening jar lids on their manipulation bingo card? Us either. But this week we're talking about a man who tightened jar lids right into a divorce. At first this story seems silly, but as we dig deeper into the details we realized it was never about the lids and always about control.    And we wan't to hear from you! What do you think of this Jar Lid Debacle? And what's the simpl...

Buckle up friends because this is one of the craziest stories yet. We're talking about the absolutely insane story of Brooke Schofield, Clinton Kane, and one of the most unhinged PR strategies of all time - using a woman you traumatized for Tiktok clout to market your new song. And that's not even the craziest part...    This episode has everything... mentions of handsome squidward, 14 part Tiktok...

Kate is back and ready to talk about a topic that gets both hosts thoroughly heated.... THE IMAGINARY FRIEND ZONE. If you're on the internet then you've undoubtedly heard men complain at some point about being "friend zoned" because apparently the worst thing in the world is to be... a woman's friend. But what doesn't get talked about enough is the real pain women suffer when they realized the "fr...

Chesko (The Speech Prof) is back and we're talking about the Ashley Madison (the cheater's only dating website) documentary but more specifically - the Viral "Christian Family Vlogger" with an Ashley Madison account. Because if "Nice Guy"s love anything, it's being absolute hypocrites. Buckle up my friends because this episode is an absolute DOOZY where just when you think it can't get any worse,...

Buckle up friends because today we are spilling some very personal, piping hot tea. Recently we had to speak out against a predator in our community and let's just say.... it didn't go as planned.    We were askedan organization to share our experiences with a predator, they did the right thing and chose not to use him, but their other choices.... you'll have to hear to believe.    F THE NICE GUY...

When you're a woman making content on the internet, one thing is certain. Men are going to say some CRAZY shit to you. And we're not talking your average mean troll comments, we're talking absolutely unhinged. On this week's episode, we're breaking down some of our craziest comments and as always my friends... BUCKLE UP! This episode has. everything toxic men talking about diapers, toxic men talki...

You all are in for a special treat this week. We're brought Payton back on to tell one of our family's favorite "nice guy" stories. It is truly a classic and something that could only ever happen to Payton - the queen of the 90's rom-com shenanigans. This episode has everything... brocollini, bunk beds, break up marathons, and so much more!   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: Fthe...

In a world where so many horrible men have podcasts, it's refreshing to hear a self proclaimed "neutral" podcaster who kindly and calmly discusses "important" issues. But often these "nice guys" are just wolves in sheep's clothing pushing the same misogynistic BS in prettier packaging.  This week we've brought on one of my favorite creators Therese Lee to breakdown one such man. Buckle up my frien...

When a "feminist" brand made for women by women puts up billboards with taglines like "Thou Shalt Not Give Up On Dating and Become A Nun"... you know you've got a problem. But this advertising choice is not as off brand for Bumble as you may think. Follow us down the rabbit hole.. or rather take this hike down the hive as we breakdown the Bumble fumble.    Go Fund Me's of The Families Kate's Famil...

Kendrick Lamar and Drake are in the midst of an epic rap beef with Kendrick bringing up one particularly damning and disturbing topic... Drake's inappropriate behavior with underage girls. But for those of us who've been paying attention, this is not new information. He's been creepy. He's just had no push back. And he's not the only one.    On this week's episode, Kate is back and we're breaking...

We're back to finish our conversation on grooming... so buckle up because this conversation is a rough ride. As we jump back in, we're diving into why people stay, why they go back, and all of the other "questionable" things people in "groomed" relationships do that actually make perfect sense once you understand the dynamics. This is not an easy listen, but it may be our most important episode ye...

This may be our most important episode yet. Inspired by Baby Reindeer and our own experiences, Kate and I are discussing grooming. We get into what it is, what tactics they us, how common it is with teenage girls and mid 20's men, and really dig deep into our own experiences to make sense of the things that happened to us.  TW: Grooming and mentions (without details) of abuse  F THE NICE GUY LINKS...

So a few weeks ago we talked about the terrible things our ex's did and we STILL stayed. Then someone asked us a question. WHY? Why would we stay with men who were doing unquestionably awful things. Victim blaming aside, the answer to that is complicated... but we're breaking it down. Hopefully some of you can relate.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the...

This week's episode is a little different because it's actually a story Chesko and I shared on our other podcast - Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater (a name so lovingly given to us by an internet troll despite the fact that I don't hate men and Chesko has been picked). It's an AITA from reddit and honestly it's just too good not to share here so buckle up because this one is a DOOZY!    F THE NICE GUY...

There's a trend going around on Tiktok of people saying the worst things their exs did and they STILL stayed. Well, this trend is right up our alley. Kate's back and we sharing our 100% true and 100% embarrassing stories that include being abandoned at a golf course, being told asthma is all in our head, peeing on clean laundry, texting other girls that you love them, and so much more!    F THE NI...

If you're on the Feminist side of Tiktok, a certain "alpha" "dom" "dating coach" may have been dominating your feeds lately. And yes, all of those quotes are necessary. But if you think you know how bad he is, you've only seen the tip of the douche-berg... because we've found his "podcast pilot". So buckle up as Regan and Abby Rosmarin do a deep dive to prove that this seemingly misguided guy is m...

When I say "Nice Guy", you say "Covert Narcissist"! Well, at least the internet does. That's why I've brought on Eleni Sagredos, the author of But They're So Nice: Unmasking Covert Abuse & Narcissistic People.  We're talking about the "Nice Guys" who take so far that they're giving... a personality disorder.    Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense  Eleni's AMAZING book!   F THE NI...

Buckle all the way up friends because this "nice guy" horror story is almost to messed up to believe... if we didn't have all the receipts. My guest Catherine's life was turned into a Jerry Springer-esque nightmare when her "nice guy" husband was caught cheating. But not with just anyone... WITH HER OWN MOTHER. We're breaking down what led up to this, all the bizarre and horrifying details, and ho...

Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater have returned to bring you Part 2 of these HORRIBLE wedding vows. And if you thought the last guy was bad... buckle up.    We're breaking down terrible vows, talking about the ACTUAL BS double standards when it comes to holding bad men accountable, going on a couple tangents, and giving you a very exciting update about our new podcast Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater!    F...

The Dynamic Duo is back - Chesko and Regan... or as an internet troll named us... Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater! On today's episode we're taking on our worst villains yet... grooms who go out of their way to humiliate their brides on their wedding day.  We'll be talking about violent cake smashers and breaking down some viral videos of absolutely disgusting wedding vows. We're really trying to get...

If you haven't yet, make sure to listen to Part 1 of this episode. But, Melanie Hamlett is back and we're talking more about decentering men, the "healed Hollywood man" who refuses to be accountable, why platonic love is so necessary, and so much more!  MELANIE HAMLETT'S LINKS https://www.melaniehamlett.com/publications Mel's Tiktok Mel's Youtube   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: F...