Brown Roots

There is a difference in being a baby daddy and a father. Just like there is a difference in being a father or a parent!

You hearing, You ain't Listening. Tools for creating better conversations.

Our society has always had cancel culture, we just called it something different. Being black balled or canceled are the same outcome, people being mean for the most minute details.  It's high time we start being nice to one another. To achieve this we are going to have to: Clear the air of sarcasm   Learn to disagree peaceably Listen to Learn Become more fair and accepting As long as we...

In the dating world, people wear mask, and it hides who they are from the people they introduce themselves as. Other times it is just standing in proximity, that causes a person to look like someone they are not trying to be. This assimilation is based on nearness or often perceived “shared” values or POV. At some point to be seen, you are going to have to stand away from 304s.

In a 2018 clip of Face The Truth, hosted by Vivica A. Fox and co-hosted by attorney Areva Martin, clinical psychologist Dr. Judy Ho , Judge Mary Chrzanowski aka Judge "Scary Mary," and life coach Rosie Mercado, annihilate a young man forced to be a Hus-son who attempts to express his mental stress. For the full video click link https://youtu.be/yUjf_7XxXIs While the evidence of a sketchy a confusi...

Over the course of time many of us have fallen into a toxic or unhealthy relationship. After doing the shadow work, the excavation and task of holding oneself accountable. The first stage of being in a new and healthy relationship probably feels like a dream come true, you don’t believe it, you see signs that cause you not to trust it or that you are just waiting for the shoe to drop. Let me answe...

Our community is always looking for saviors. We pi. Our work on every other celebrity. Did you know that a simple formula could change the very fabric of everything we know? All it takes is 13 million people committed to change. Let's try to make this community, stand together again.

Toxicity isn't about what is in you, it's about how you respond to the negative traits that you may have. When someone confronts us, too often, we posture up, deflect or deny the claim. That's toxic behavior, my friend. Let's try to listen to what's being said, use the tools, and wait for better results. In this episode, we unravel the unspoken expectations that are often the minor causes of major...

Angry men want to be on top so bad. They want power that they are willing to do mean things, say mean things and take on the scent of other men just to walk in his authority. Men, you have to stop confusing being a really good IT person; a really good businessman, or a father with being Alpha, we call Kap! There is no training, no initiation or class that can make you an Alpha unless you join a fr...

As men, we have berated women long enough and we kinda know that their situation is the out come of some man somewhere. The men in her life have caused her to be as tough, or lost as she is. The blame has to pointed in the right direction and the necessary changes must be made. It’s time to call out the father in us and in their failed childhoods. Once we relearn the steps and processes needed to...

This is not a verbatim summary of the money, rather a brief account of how authentic and accurate the movie is. There is plenty of scholarly research by unbiased sources. There are also revelations of the tactics used to keep the secret hidden. Nonetheless if you are looking for the key to bring the communities together look no further: Published in 2018 Hebrews to Negroes: Wake Up Black America i...

Mathematician have found a way to communicate with numbers effectively. If we were to break relationships down to the root of existence when you have sex you change the relationship from 0 to 1. Does it have to go further, No! Yet it is never 0 again. The practice of this would change the landscape and confusion that plague relationships across the board. The truth would allow us to more accuratel...

What abuse does to a man!

What is Social Engineering it is the use of centralized planning in an attempt to manage social change and regulate the future development and behavior of a society. In this episode I will attempt to unpack the Social Structuring Methods that have been used to cause devastating and long lasting impacts on the Black Community in the form of child support. I don’t encourage not being fiscally absent...

Women are applauded for being disrespectful, mean-spirited and dogmatic. As the major gender of the world; women in the USA abuse their influence in change of social norms. Women say they want better relationships while teaching the language that promotes toxicity and lack of respect. As we began to hold our female counter parts more accountable, then and only then we will began to see the change...

There is one thing more hurtful, pitiful and appalling than a man beating down a woman. It’s when a woman is beating down a man. Women don’t often admit it and the ones that do recognize this toxic behavior very rarely call them out on it, and most men never do. What is it like to experience this? What does it feel like to be in this up close an personal situation? Go on a journey in a series we c...

The clap and the clap back are rooted in and based on respect. However, when it comes to gender the delivery, the intent and the reception are all different.

The tradition is broken, the bond is broken and the honor is broken. You found the love of your life and not it’s over; You are hurt and embarrassed! Do you give the ring back or do you let it go? Do you ask for the ring back “yes or no”? Let’s explore some thoughts on the matter! Oh Lawd, bless this ring!

We got to do a better job of protecting our communities by speaking out against sexual violence in our families!

Ladies stop saying you are the Father too!

There is no less than. Any person needs to see your 100% transparent self! You owe you to be yourself all the time. I believe that in relationships and work related things we are robots to what society wants, however we are here to be the kinda bad that’s good. And the only bad that’s good, is the kinda good that’s bad; that reality is revealed in giving your 100% all the time every time

Men have taken the time to listen and do better. Then are gaining support through thier actions. More and more men everywhere are stepping up to the plate a achieving the results they want and in visioned for thier lives and homes to be.

Our children are scared, our teachers are frightened and we the parents are helpless. We have to do more than pray. We have got to assume the responsibility for our children's protection. They deserve to learn in peace. Our voices united should speak one voice, with one demand; BRING OUR STUDENTS, TEACHERS AND FACULTY HOME SAFELY EVERYDAY!!!! ON EVERYTHING!

So often, we get caught in the habit of being the victim, that we forget to someone else, we are villains too! There is a time when one looks at themselves for the problems they face. It is fair and appropriate to take the blame, to accept accountability is the way to stop being the villainous victim.

Fellas, its time to stop looking like you’re healthy and get healthy! I think we have all discovered that the it’s the person that always says yes or agrees with you, is the person that you most often have the biggest problems with later. There is something magical about healthy discourse. Yet there is nothing healthy about extreme discontent! It’s high time we (both genders, ethnic groups, religi...