Broke Up, Not Broke(n)™

Jamie M. Lima welcomes Eric Brotman to discuss the multifaceted impacts of divorce. They delve into the emotional and financial repercussions, emphasizing the importance of financial planning and prenuptial agreements. The conversation covers prenups, title governance, and the role of financial literacy. They explore asset division, taxes, insurance, and the necessity of updating estate plans post...

Jamie M. Lima introduces Julia Hoffman, who shares her personal experiences with divorce. They discuss the cultural stigma and personal challenges faced during divorce, focusing on co-parenting dynamics and societal expectations. The importance of collaborative divorce and post-decision work is highlighted, along with building a support system. They explore navigating new partnerships and workplac...

Jamie M. Lima introduces Kat Newport, highlighting her journey into conflict resolution. They discuss understanding priorities and setting agendas with empathy, as well as strategies for minimizing conflicts and building a supportive network. Kat shares insights on dealing with emotional burnout, rebuilding relationships post-divorce, and preventing past conflicts from affecting future relationshi...

Jamie M. Lima is joined by Larry Bilotta to explore the complexities of relationships involving "chaos kids." They discuss the unique marital challenges and financial implications these individuals face. The conversation covers legal considerations, including mediation, and delves into issues like infidelity, narcissism, and midlife crises. Larry emphasizes the importance of fostering kindness and...

Jamie M. Lima introduces Joey A. Drolshagen, focusing on the critical role of mindset during divorce. They explore overcoming conditioning and emotional barriers, with a particular emphasis on the unique challenges and growth opportunities men face. Joey shares insights on creating a vision and managing finances post-divorce. They discuss the importance of seeking support, avoiding negativity, and...

Jamie M. Lima welcomes Liam Naden, who shares his journey through divorce and rebuilding his life. They discuss leveraging adversity for growth and success, emphasizing the crucial role of mindset in overcoming divorce challenges. Liam explains how embracing uncertainty can enhance resilience, and they delve into the brain's role in navigating tough times. They conclude by stating the importance o...

Jamie M. Lima and Angela Duncan dive into the financial essentials for those navigating life post-divorce. Angela shares her background and provides practical advice on budgeting, building an emergency reserve, and avoiding debt. They discuss common financial mistakes, essential steps to achieve financial stability, and the importance of shifting your money mindset. The episode covers smart housin...

Jamie M. Lima welcomes Melanie Yates to discuss overcoming isolation and addressing the stigma associated with divorce. They highlight the importance of self-care during divorce proceedings and introduce the emotional freedom technique (EFT). Melanie clarifies the difference between self-care and selfishness, emphasizing the need for personal goal-setting. A practical exercise with a priorities wo...

Jamie Lima welcomes Dr. Natalie Marr, who shares her background and personal experience with divorce. They discuss the unique challenges of midlife divorces, the emotional toll of unfulfilling relationships, and the grieving process. Dr. Marr emphasizes the importance of maintaining values, the role of mindfulness in stress management, and the neurobiological effects of divorce. They explore strat...

Jamie Lima introduces Nikki Billou, who shares his insights on becoming a thought leader and building personal resilience through divorce. Nikki discusses his background and journey into coaching, emphasizing the importance of thought leadership during the divorce process. They explore the critical role of support systems, offer key advice for those currently navigating divorce, and discuss mainta...

Jamie M. Lima and Morgan Anderson discuss the critical role of addressing tax issues during divorce. They cover tax debt responsibility, the innocent spouse rule, strategies to minimize tax burdens, and filing status considerations. Morgan shares a case study and offers final advice on managing tax issues.

Jamie Lima delves into understanding marital assets and debts, the significance of the separation date, and the treatment of separate property. Learn about equitable distribution vs. community property, how to value marital assets accurately, and the importance of gathering relevant documents.

Jamie M. Lima emphasizes the importance of choosing the right financial adviser during a divorce. He outlines his qualifications and the role of a CDFA®, shares a real-life example of financial misunderstandings, and offers guidance on post-divorce financial planning. He also covers how to verify an adviser's background, explains fiduciary vs. suitability standards, and provides tips on beginning...

This episode covers the critical role of communication during divorce, drawing from Jamie's professional and personal experiences. It delves into emotional complexities, courtroom consequences of poor communication, and effective techniques like "I statements" and active listening. It also emphasizes transparency in financial discussions, gathering necessary documents, and the benefits of mediatio...

In this episode, Jamie introduces the crucial concept of financial assessments in divorce. He emphasizes the importance of documenting personal belongings, financial assets, income, and expenses. Jamie also discusses post-divorce budgeting and the necessary tools for financial inventory. Listeners are provided with a free inventory worksheet and information about upcoming episodes.

In this episode, Jamie Lima shares insights on financial empowerment during divorce, discussing the emotional toll it can have on you, and the importance of a support network. He underscores the role of financial advisors and previews upcoming talks on asset division, support payments, and expense management. The episode wraps up by pointing out resources available on the Allegiant Divorce Solutio...

In this episode, Jamie M. Lima discusses the mission of "Broke Up, Not Broke(n)", provides insights on financial planning during divorce, and identifies the target audience. He also delves into the emotional aspects of divorce and how they can impact financial success. The episode concludes with inspiring post-divorce success stories.