BROKE GIRL THERAPY

TBH Zotowski and I had no idea what to talk about for this episode. After several shots of tequila and a couple of beers, we decided to drunkenly talk about fuck boys. Turns out, the topic of "fuck boys" is a lot more triggering for me than I thought. I should probably go see a therapist, heh. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For me and Alexis, being a "boujie hoe" is the next step after going through the hoe phase. Because we've had a fair share of "fuck boys", we learned to be selective and keep our standards high. We love sex, and are open to having fun, but it takes way more than just a boba date to get us in the mood. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We go on dating apps in hopes to find someone we are compatible with. You match up with someone you think is attractive, and you set up a date to meet. The conversations are great, the vibe is right, and there are NO red flags. BUT WHY DA FU*K DON'T YOU FEEL ANYTHING? Because It's not a match. James and I went on a date last year (he was my very first Hinge date) and we openly admit the lack of ro...

Some of us only have a carry on bag while others have baggage that we need to check in and pay extra $50 for because it’s hella heavy. Rachel is now in a happy and healthy relationship, but she carried a lot of luggage along the way to get to this point. The reality is, we all have been through disappointment or trauma in our lives that have shaped us to being the person that we are today. It’s ab...

Being a serial dater is exhausting. I needed a break, so I gave myself a 3 month "dating cleanse" to relax, refocus, and get my life together. I'm feeling determined and ready to get back in the game, and I believe I have a better understanding of who I am and what I want. Let's see if I finally get this sh*t right. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In honor of pride month, I wanted to take a moment to shine light on the LGBTQ community. In the past, I have invited plenty of gay men on the show to give their point of view, but never have I invited a gay woman. Frankie, a "baby lesbian", is someone who finally came to terms with her sexuality only within the past year. She shares the differences between dating men vs. dating women and the stru...

Imagine becoming a mom while your lifestyle consisted of partying and trying to get your sh*t together. It's not about you anymore, and you have to figure out the best way to transition your youthful lifestyle to motherhood WHILE still balancing your relationship with the father. Bre's story consists of every stage of being a young & single mom who also had to stay strong while she mourned over so...

At times, I've been insecure in the bedroom. Does my hair look ok? Am I doing this properly? Does he care if I didn't shave? I wanted to take a moment and pick Quai's brain to get a better understanding of a man's point of view during sex and how I can tackle my insecurities in the bedroom. I know what I like, but how do they like it? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm a firm believer that no one is really bad at sex, everyone just likes different things in bed. Some people may require a kink...while others are fine just being on top. With oral, some expect the favor to be returned...while others don't even care to do foreplay. Rachel and I share our notes on what we expect during sex, and yes it gets explicit af. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit mega...

I wasn't going to post this episode, only because I felt like "Bobby" didn't deserve any more of my attention. Now that I have taken some time alone, I reminded myself that I'm not doing this for him or for any other man. I do this sh*t for me. Dating is trial & error. We put ourselves out there & we keep our options open. Unfortunately, hearts will get broken and rejection will happen. In this ca...

Online dating is extremely popular in this day and age, but some people can't seem to find the courage or the knowledge on how to market themselves through an online dating app. Greg, an online dating coach, looks over my profile and gives me tips on how to better my chances on finding the appropriate match. He even answers some listener questions that can help some of you guys get over your fears...

The content of BGT is shocking to some people because of how "brave" I am to openly talk about sex. Nadia Bokody is a sex-positive journalist for SHESAID.com, and I can finally relate to someone on the type of backlash we receive as women who are open about our sexuality. But why is it such a taboo subject? Nadia and I break down the reasons why we feel like it's so important to have a sex positiv...

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. There’s a lesson that I still haven’t learned yet, so life just hits me with the same bullshit to see if I really did grow up. “Bobby" was someone I only dated for about a month and a half, and in that short of amount of time I realized how different he was from the rest. Sadly, it didn’t work out. How did I hand...

I believe masturbation is self love and self care, but there's a stigma around it that makes (some) people feel ashamed. I struggle with this. Growing up in a strict religious household has made me feel uncomfortable of the idea for years. I'm trying to shake that off, because it's a beautiful thing to understand and love your own body. Since Jafra always talks to me about masturbation, it was app...

Cuffing season is over and Valentine’s Day is here. According to a ridiculous meme, Valentine’s Day is the championship game when you figure out if you’re in a relationship or not. Rose and I love to be single, but we got ourselves in an awkward situation....with feelings. Did we fuck up? This episode is brought to you by For All Media Productions - check out their YouTube for a full video episode...

It is a known fact that us women are detectives. Give us your first name and we'll figure out who all of your ex-girlfriends are. Do men do the same? One drunken night at The Virgil, I met Zotowski while I was inhaling a messy hot dog after the bar was closed. He asked for my number, and to keep things extremely modern - I gave him my Instagram. Of course I lurked the shit out of him, but how far...

Sometimes regular sex isn't enough, and we find ourselves wanting to explore beyond the basic sh*t. My roommate, Jules, is a perfect example of someone who proudly owns his sexuality and desire for certain kinks. Honestly, I think that's fu*king dope. WARNING: EXPLICIT AF Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Deveon was the VERY first person I ever went on an online date with. You can all thank him for the beginning stages of Broke Girl Therapy, because he paved the way for the rest of my dating career. Since I am now on this new "season" of my life, I want to make sure I don't repeat any old habits. I invited Deveon on to catch up and seek advice from him on a new love interest I have in mind for 2019...

HAPPY NEW YEAR! New year, new goals, new bangs lol. To feel empowered and brand new, I decided to get a haircut to represent a new era for the new year. There's something so exciting about starting fresh, and I wanted to bring that attitude into 2019. For New Years Eve, my friends and I decided to end 2018 with a BANG and celebrate in Koreatown. I'm having a blast, and of course with my luck....TW...

Like it's been said before, ghosting someone in this day and age is extremely common. We meet someone online or go on one date and decide, "eh, I don't feel like talking to them again." In my opinion, the conversation / "closure" isn't really needed. How about if it was a friends with benefits situation or if you were in an ACTUAL relationship with this person? Is it damaging to us if we don't eve...

Most of the time on this show, the perspective comes from a heterosexual's point of view. I was inspired by the last episode, "Gender Roles" and noticed how Sixelaafiercee and I only spoke on a one sided frame of reference. How about the gay community? There's always this talk about the importance of "gender roles", but how does it come to play in a relationship when both parties are of the same g...

I've been on a lot of great dates, but I've also been on a lot of horrible dates as well. This one by far, had to be the worst one. For those who follow me on Instagram, saw that I got excited for a "spontaneous" date but then the next post was me saying that my date dropped me off in the middle of Hollywood LOLOLOLOLOL Of course, everyone is asking "WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED!?" Thankfully, I have a...

The holidays are upon us and cuffing season has begun. There's something about the holiday spirit that influences most of us single b*tches (or is it just me?) to want to find a companion(s) for the holidays. According to the internet, there's a specific timeline that naturally happens when a relationship flourishes during this period. Rose and I talk about how relevant this timeline is to our cur...

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Nowadays, dating is mostly all digital. We find someone through an app, we get to know someone through their Instagram, and we freak out if we don't get a text back. Back in the day, they didn't have any of that. Men had to actually pursue women in person and no one had an Instagram to stalk and find out who their ex is (not that I do that or anything, lolz). Something else has shifted, and it's t...