Brain Based Parenting

Send us Fan Mail Often times we focus on the BIG SCARY issues but those hopefully are rare.  What we do deal with on a daily basis are the less significant behavior issues, that when handled well we can prevent many larger issues down the road.   Join us as we talk about meeting needs, practicing re-dos, the difference between time outs and time-ins, and how grounding works with less significant b...

Send us Fan Mail This episode is an introduction into the heart of discipline, revealing its true purpose as a guiding light for our children's growth. We untangle the common misconceptions that paint discipline as punishment and instead, showcase its incredible ability to foster wise decision-making and self-growth in our young ones.  As we navigate the often murky waters of parenting and ed...

Send us Fan Mail Join us today as we talk about  Relationships and Disorganized Attachment.  We delve into the disorganized attachment style, where predictability is a luxury unknown to the child. Day by day, their caregivers' responses fluctuate from warm and loving to absent or even violent. Imagine the turmoil of never knowing what mood your caregiver will be in, and how that uncertainty s...

Send us Fan Mail Join us on a journey through the effects of parenting styles on the lifelong path of attachment, as we contrast the experiences of children with avoidant and ambivalent attachments. With our expert panel, we dissect how an overcontrolling approach can stifle a child's ability to make decisions and cultivate confidence. We examine the psychological threads that connect childho...

Send us Fan Mail  Join us as we navigate the complexities of avoidant attachment, forged in early childhood by caregivers who were consistently unavailable or unresponsive. Through insightful discussions and personal anecdotes, we explore how this attachment style shapes individuals' perceptions of themselves and the world around them. From the origins of avoidant attachment to its profound i...

Send us Fan Mail Parenting in the age of screens and distractions presents unique challenges, but this episode invites you to rediscover the power of Attachment. We share stories and insights on how truly being present and engaging with your child can preempt potential missteps and deepen your understanding of their unique personality. Plus, we explore how play isn't just fun—it's a fund...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever pondered the invisible threads that connect us to our loved ones? Today's episode peels back the layers on the profound concept of attachment in parenting, revealing the ways in which our first bonds with caregivers fundamentally shape our future relationships. We're joined by Sam, Katherine, and Mike, who generously share their personal journeys, shedding...

Send us Fan Mail Today we have some very special guests!!! Larry, Lisa, and Dennis join us to talk about SAMA and its 5 principles.  We dive into how utilizing the SAMA assisting process and the 5 principles can help deal with anger and aggression. For more information please go to: https://satorilearning.com/ Contact: podcasts@calfarley.org  To Donate:  https://secure.calfarley.org/site/Donation2...

Send us Fan Mail Discover the power of "lending" your developed frontal lobe to your teen in need, setting the stage for better choices without extinguishing their fiery independence. Stories from the trenches of adolescence remind us that we're not alone when words sting, and we explore strategies that help keep the family ship afloat. Finally, ready your sails for the journey towa...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt at a loss when your child's emotions run high, wondering how to soothe their turmoil? Join us  as we unravel the mysteries of the limbic system's role in brain development. Our conversation ventures into the heart of emotional regulation, emphasizing why it's essential to connect with our children on a deeper level before jumping to logic and reas...

Send us Fan Mail Unlock the secrets of your child's developing mind as we navigate the complexities of the Diencephalon, the brain region instrumental from birth to age three.  We share insights into how this area governs critical functions like sleep and appetite, while also laying the groundwork for emotional regulation and social interactions. Discover why a caregiver's attentive resp...

Send us Fan Mail Unlock the secrets to your child's mind with our latest episode, as we journey through the fascinating landscape of brain development . Prepare to have the veil lifted on the brain's extraordinary capacity for change, particularly in the early years, and discover how the experiences we provide for our little ones lay the foundations for their future. From the crucial fir...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt the rush of conquering a new challenge, where the unfamiliar becomes a thrilling playground for growth? Join us as we, alongside guests Michelle Maikoetter, Suzanne Wright, and Mike Wilhelm, swap tales from the frontier of leadership and the great outdoors, revealing how pushing past personal boundaries can lead to unexpected discoveries about ourselves. We navi...

Send us Fan Mail In this special bonus episode of Brain-Based Parenting, we  deviate from the regular format to share touching, heartwarming stories celebrating the myriad experiences of parenthood. We reflect on the swift passage of time , recalling poignant moments that brought both joy and emotional challenges. Approaching the end of his direct parenting journey, Joshua reflects on the value of...

Send us Fan Mail Today, we explore the essence of purpose and its profound impact on the lives of young individuals. From defining purpose as a fusion of personal aspirations, skills, and contributions to contemplating its role in fostering fulfillment and connection, this conversation illuminates the multifaceted nature of purpose within the context of youth development. We will dissect the layer...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered how power dynamics influence your parenting style and your child's development? Dive into an insightful conversation with our guests Michelle Maikoetter, Suzanne Wright, and Mike Wilhelm as we navigate the often complex seas of power, control, and ego in parenting. We aim to shed light on the positive and negative implications of power, the role fear plays in co...

Send us Fan Mail You know that feeling when you watch your child battle with self-assurance, enthusiasm, or motivation? It's a hurdle we often face as parents, and in our latest episode of Brain-Based Parenting, we shed light on this challenge with the help of our in-house experts, Michelle Maikoetter,  Suzanne Wright, and Mike Wilhelm. We delve into achievement struggles, how they manifest,...

Send us Fan Mail Can you remember the warm, comforting feeling you had when you first realized you were part of something special, something bigger than yourself? That's what our guests Suzanne Wright, Mike Wilhelm, and Sam Serna and  Joshua Sprock will be unpacking today. We'll take you on a journey through our unique stories of acceptance and value, as we reminisce about our experience...

Send us Fan Mail Is your child displaying defiance or over-compliance? Let's explore this together as we navigate the often misunderstood concept of 'felt safety' in children. Our Vice President of Training and Intervention, Suzanne Wright, along with Senior Chaplain Mike Wilhelm and Sam Serna Assistant Administrator of Residential Programs, delve deep into personal experiences and...

Send us Fan Mail Curious about what it takes to foster a sense of safety, belonging, and purpose in children? Ever wanted to understand the fundamental needs of children and the role of curiosity in maintaining restorative relationships? Welcome to a brand new episode where we, along with our esteemed guests Michelle, Suzanne, and Mike, explore Cal Farley’s model of leadership and service. We dive...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wonder how our brains impact the way we parent? Distinguished experts from Cal Farley's  Boys Ranch, Joshua Sprock, Michelle Maikoetter, Suzanne Wright, and Mike Wilhelm, join us today to illuminate this fascinating subject. Together, we explore the intricacies of brain-based parenting, emphasizing how crucial it is to be purposeful, empathetic, and patient in fostering...