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Another way of putting this is "How do I balance dating to find a relationship and just vibing to see where things go?" When we're interested in someone, it's hard for many of us to slow ourselves down and let things grow organically. Are we being too pushy when dating with intention? Or are people who just want to vibe way too casual? Submit your question for discussion (scroll down and complete...

Feel like you have no friends? When you ask for help, the common response is to join a community group. But, for various reasons, making friends in these groups is not as easy as it sounds. So how do you find success? We discuss this in the latest episode and set you up with ways to make your search for more friends successful. Subscribe Now: https://www.youtube.com/jarrodking?sub_confirmation=1 S...

Should I Move In Before Engagement? | Many times we wonder what the right steps are to take to get what we want in a relationship. The fear of moving in before getting engaged is there's no strong commitment or plan for marriage in the works and you could end up in limbo. This question comes from Instagram user, @quortney_love. We also have a special guest, Mama Shay! Submit your question: https:/...

Get to know the cast more as Tony walks them through a series of questions that range from sweet to super spicy! *Note: My sincerest apologies for releasing this so late. There was a problem with the service I use to upload these and as a result, there is no video attached (for Spotify listeners). If you'd like to watch the episode, please go to https://youtu.be/XSk4s0R6EeY Submit Your Questions:...

What to Include in a Dating Profile | If you need dating profile tips, we've got you covered! The whole gang is back and rating each other's dating (and hookup app) profiles in an attempt to see what works, what doesn't, and leave you with some ideas about how to give your profile a refresh. Jarrod, Tony, and Melvin also have a tense discussion about the shade thrown between them. Hosts: Jarrod D....

Love it or hate it, small talk is a necessary skill when meeting new people and creating connections. But how do we do it effectively? The hosts give their two cents and explain why it's needed even if some of them may hate it too. Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sarun.nuras/ Melvin Fo...

Have you ever felt like this? You may have no trouble finding hookups, but finding someone interested in more seems near impossible. Sometimes you do all the things right when dating, but after having sex, the guy leaves. How do we navigate this? How do we attract by being sexy, but respected as a potential partner? Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking...

When looking for love, oftentimes our securities get in the way. We don't feel like we measure up to the ideal boyfriend because of what we lack. Is what we're telling ourselves entirely true? Or are we ready for love even when we're a work in progress?  Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun C...

You got your circle and your man, but can they coexist? In a perfect world, many would like it if their friends could be cool with their significant other, but it doesn't always pan out that way. We discuss whether it's a requirement and give advice on keeping the peace between the two camps. Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun Chan | @saru...

You've heard the "Sorry I've just been so busy" excuse, but is it genuine? Why does it seem like they have time for everything else in the world except for building on the initial interest you both had in each other? The hosts discuss this, give you some answers, and it gets a little feisty! Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Hosts: Jarrod D. King...

Ever wanted your relationship with a friend to be something more? It's a tough spot to be in because you never know just what their reaction will be once you share your feelings. We discuss how you got into the friend zone in the first place, if you should even broach the subject with your friend, and how to do it if you decide the answer is yes. Purchase your own Leaning Masculine or Leaning Femi...

Oftentimes we're told that we have to be happy by ourselves and with ourselves before we can find love, but is that true? In our first (and hopefully only) virtual conversation, the co-hosts mull over this question and provide answers to aid you in your journey. Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - htt...

We're currently on a holiday break, but we will be back with more episodes starting January 10th. In the meantime you can go to instagram.com/jarroddking to tune into the Instagram Live Q+A we did just last night. Stay tuned for more!

When trying to attract a potential date or boyfriend, many times we question if who we are is enough. We explore femininity vs. masculinity, what attracts what, and help you come to an understanding about how to behave when trying to attract the man of your dreams. Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/JarrodDKing/ Sarun Chan | @sarun.nuras Instagram - https://...

Picture it: you've found someone you like and the feeling is mutual, but you're not yet exclusive. Should you still have your fun? The answer may be different depending on your personality. We discuss this and get into a heated discussion about what the steps are when going from single to getting the boyfriend title. Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/b...

It's always something! Ever feel like that with your friends? You'll be good for a little while, but those stretches of time come where it seems like you're fighting with everyone. We talk about that and give some advice to look both inward and outward depending on your situation. Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDK...

Many of us have been in dating situations where it seems like once we reciprocate the interest, it turns off the other person. That leads us to wonder if perhaps we should be more secretive with our feelings. So, should you play hard to get? Jarrod feels one way while Tony and Melvin feel the exact opposite. Whose side are you on? Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jar...

If you've ever expressed disinterest in someone romantically, you've probably had someone tell you that you were being too picky. In our moments of self-reflection, we wonder if this is true when dating. In this episode, we search for the line between knowing what you want and being overly specific. Visit our blog for a deeper look at what we discuss: http://www.jarroddking.com/blog Hosts: Jarrod...

Ever try meeting somebody new and the conversation just feels stifled? It feels like pulling teeth trying to strike up a conversation...until you say something that proves your worth to them. It can be a frustrating thing and we discuss that in this episode as well as how to deal with it when it pops up. Subscribe On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/jarrodking?sub_confirmation=1 Visit our blog for...

Ever wonder why it seems like you have an invisible force field that just stops any attractive, eligible man from coming up to you and striking up a conversation? Sometimes it feels like we have to do all the work of introducing ourselves to them to get anywhere. But...that work may not be a bad thing. We discuss some possible reasons guys may not be approaching you and get down to some great solu...

Creating a circle of friends first requires a shift in mindset. You may be closer to it than you think. Friend groups where large groups of people come together and their lives are intertwined have been glorified on TV, but are they realistic? And if not, what does a real circle look like? Get a better perspective on the friends in your life and learn how to create a network that has you as its ce...

If you want to know how to stop feeling sad about being single, this conversation is for you. We give a lot of good pointers, plus debate whether friends with benefits would be a good option and if traditional marriage is the right way to go. We also discuss the frustrating feeling of seeing a recent ex quickly move into another, seemingly better relationship. Visit our blog for a deeper look at w...

Rejection is hard. It's hard to take and some may say it's even harder to give. But, it's a necessary skill when meeting new people. Not everyone is going to be for you. But, it doesn't have to be this scary or awkward thing. It all comes down to being honest and recognizing your power in the situation. There are a lot of revelations in this episode and we of course keep the laughs coming! Visit o...

Why Does Nobody Talk To Anyone Outside Of Their Clique? | In our premiere episode of BoyFriends, we introduce ourselves and discuss why it's so hard to penetrate these little friend groups when at a social gathering. After watching, you'll understand the mindset of the cliques and get some advice on how to navigate the situation of potentially getting blocked out. Visit our blog for more: http://w...

Here's how we'll help you find your circle and your man. First episode coming soon!