Bourbon & Boyshorts

Listen as we sit down with the “Tastefully Rachet Podcast”....... We start the conversion learning about Syd’s long distance Atlanta boo and discuss expanding your dating search to include the entire country (15:28). Next Sam shares what is keeping her from being with her soulmate (20:05). We dig deeper into the traits of Sam’s dream man: Goal oriented Intentional Great communicator Independent am...

Listen as we sit down with Kolin Robinson the creator of the “Spirit Man”. Kolin shares his experience attending the first Suit & Sneaker party vs. attending Ladies Night. We learn the origin of Spirit Man necklace and the process to request one (15:40). Conversation transitions as we get into the evenings true topic: “Are your friends keeping you single?” There are 5 types of friends That keep yo...

Listen as we sit down with Tenne Thrower aka TNT-Diva. Tenne breaks down what it means to be in her inner circle and what it takes to be removed from inside. What happens when there is disloyalty in your business/romantic relationships? Do you leave? Do you keep doing business? Find out what she does in this scenario. We take the heat off of Tenne and apply pressure to married women who party with...

Listen as we sit down with Ifeanyi owner of Montego Bar & Grille, as well our favorite DJ, DJ Pro2col. Pro2Col shares the story of how he begin to spin and why Kyle Is toughest critic. Next we move into Ifeanyi as he talks about leaving Wall St and Corporate banking to following his passion of becoming a restaurateur. Back into business commentary as both Pro2col and Ifeanyi share stories about do...

Listen as we sit down with Jonta'e owner and founder of Bubbles Galore and participant in our "Panty Dropper Brunch" (Episode 5). We start the episode off creating the atmosphere to be our true and authentic selves. We eventually move the conversation and ask if she is being courted or going on dates. We end on the topic of issue women have with sexuality in the business industry.

Listen as we sit down Carla of Carla’s Sugar and discuss her journey from Lefrak Queens to the Military and beyond. Carla drops gems such as “Never stop listening to your intuition” and the idea of Combat vs. Tact; A battle of wills or a place of peace. Have you made love on a beach of jet black sand? Pay close attention to hear if Carla has during her time in Hawaii. Island fever taught her somet...

This episode goes deep as we touch on Mental health and the dynamic between a son and a mother.... A mother who told her son “I’ll never love you the way you’ll need to be loved”. Listen to see the ramifications of this statement.

In this episode we talk about being “The BRO” to women we are interested in and waiting our turn.. always scheming which earned him the nickname black Zack Morris..And being on boyfriend level while your woman is ready to be a wife

Listen as we sit down with Davonne D'neil and unpack her latest project "Skin Tone Brown". Davonne shares how she wrote her first song and why Delaware State is were the "Culture" lived during her college years. We spend time in the studio as she shows us her techniques for layering her vocals while we learn the science of the studio versus the art form of live performance.

Who are you when you’re sober? Do you like yourself sober? When was the last time you you can honestly say you were sober? Do you like your partner when they’re sober? More importantly can you eat a salad together (27:15)... Listen as we sit down with Jay7d the "Coochie Cleaner" and break down what it means to “live something twice(21:01). Did you know: Vaginal steaming releases soul ties Question...

All women who are looking to be married should ask these two simple questions before wasting their time, “Are you considering marrying me? What would it take for you to marry me...” At some point you have to ask yourself If what you’re doing isn’t working, then fwhat are you going to do different in dating? Listen as we discuss what it means to apologize and when a apology becomes a red flag. Can...

Listen as we sit down with Julius and Julian, the tap dancing duo of the Money Takers. We hear their new song “New New” and get a lesson on booking “Bad Mamas”. More than tapping the Twins are In two upcoming movies, “Time Matters” and “Color Blind” Did you Know: Their first drama teacher was Shemar Moore Their First instrument was the steel drum Their first tap instructor was Savion glover Closin...

Getting to the sweet spot of a marriage or relationship... Are you comfortable in the struggles of a relationship and uncomfortable in the peace. Listen as we discuss relationships and ask the tough question, “Can you love me when I’m unloveable?” Should your wife get in the backseat of your car when your mother is around? Is that a metaphor for a deeper issue you may be having..... “You need to b...

“Dating isn’t a tradition, it’s a culture; more then a necessity...” Listen as we discuss our quarantine eating bits and what happens when you eat 4 McChickens and a 20 piece. We reach back to “Entanglements” and ask the question, Are you entangled if you agree to it?

Listen as we sit down with Ernest Third as he describes how his music has grown as he did. Ernest ask an introspective question that makes the room stop and think ....”Is happiness obtainable?” “What verse changed your life...? If you could write one verse that a million black woman would here, what would it be? “Know your worth/ Even is it’s empty in your skirts” -Ernest Third

Do you have a certain.... how do you say, "je ne sais quoi". Listen as we discuss the idea that "everyone at the bar is equal" (6:17). How can you break through a person's representative and meet who they really are? What steps do you tale? (21:15). What are appropriate first date questions? What do you do during those awkward moments? Coupons on the first date, yes or no? (26:08). Vice Versa: wha...

Listen as we sit down with the family and welcome first time Cousin Bri! We touch on the The levels of women’s friendships and if it’s possible for a woman to reduce the access others have to her without throwing also ruining a friendship. We touch on what does it mean to “have it all together” and is it fair/possible to date someone who doesn’t have their life figured out. We talk about the “Coca...

Listen as we has a in depth dialogue about the sitcoms we watched growing up. We breakdown the role Carl played in his house hold as the Father in "Family Matters" and compare it to Bill Cosby's character Heathcliff. We analyze the dynamic between Will and Carlton in "Fresh Prince" while asking the questioning the emasculation in the depiction of the black father on TV.

Listen as we laugh the night away with the lovely Ms. Ajay. We talk on the role her father played in her life and how that has manifested in her dating life. We learn about being raised by a father and if he has liked any of her boyfriends. Finally we get into "Pretty Girl Problems vs. Pretty Girl Privilege."

Listen as we give roses while we still smell them. Kyle shares why he's naturally introverted and how he manages to be outgoing? Jeremy shares how he as attended church more during the quarantine then prior. We walk into a conversation geared towards holding your friends accountable for their dreams.

Listen as we breakdown the Jordan documentary and what it means for dating. "The Last Dance" knowing the relationship is over. "Bad Front Offices", she having friends that hate. "Trips to Vegas" would you take advantage of the proverbial "Hall Passes".

Listen as we sit down with "The Tax Lady" Sakinah Tillman of Tillman LLC. We discuss the stimulus, what it is and what it means for next year's tax return. Later we transition into the disparities in healthcare and the impact it's having

How everyone is safe out there. Please continue to practice social distancing. This episode we self reflect to determine "what does love feel like?" We both reminisce on the joys of being the side dude. We end the same with our favorite game, "Name that Sample."

Listen as we record our first quarantined episode over Instagram Live. We shout out the teachers during this quarantine period and acknowledge why they are the best to be quarantined with. Have you been checked on during the quarantine... Who's checking your temperature? Dope Chicks of the Week: Ava (@Avaa81) and Chyna (@_Msffg_)

Listen as we sit down pre-quarantine and discuss what it means to give maximum effort, the greatest or highest degree of energy used in producing a desired result. Are you giving your Maximum Effort in all areas of your life? This lead us directly into determining what we are willing to commit too. Dope Chick of the Week: Chef Catina (Cat) Smith, found of Just Call Me Chef.