Blended Kingdom Families Podcast

Anger is the topic of discussion for this edition of Let’s Therapy. In it, Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk about anger, especially as it relates to your marriage and blended family. They offer signs that point to out-of-control anger, and they offer suggestions for working through anger so that it doesn’t cause problems in your relationships. Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community?...

In this third podcast in the series “Beginning to Blend,” Scott and Vanessa discuss potential challenges facing blended families after everyone has merged into one household. They talk about how to navigate rivalries, guidelines for blending children of differing genders, and fostering relationships among family members. We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfami...

This episode focuses on a problem that goes overlooked in many marriages: alcohol addiction. Scott and Vanessa lay out the risk factors for alcohol dependency as well as its signs and symptoms. They also offer suggestions on how to help your spouse (or yourself) if you suspect an addiction is developing. Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram , Facebook , Y...

In this second podcast in our series on “Beginning to Blend,” Scott and Vanessa discuss what you can do during the engagement period to prepare for blending your families. These discussions and action steps can pave the way for smoother transitions into your new life together. We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement Want to join the Blended Kingdom F...

In this episode, counselors Scott and Vanessa Martindale tackle the issue of teen suicide. They discuss the warning signs that might point to suicidal ideation and the difference between suicide and self-harm (like cutting). They also offer help to parents whose child or teen might be struggling with their mental health.  Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instag...

In this episode, we address a question we get asked a LOT: When do I introduce a potential spouse to my children? Scott and Vanessa use their dating story as the backdrop for this conversation. They share their experience and offer their suggestions for when and how to talk to your children about your romantic relationship. We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredf...

This podcast episode is all about practical steps you can take to make sure your marriage stands on strong footing. These tips might seem simple, but they are powerful. Try them out and you’ll see just how much they will strengthen your relationship with your spouse. Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram , Facebook , YouTube , To support this ministry and...

In this episode, we had the privilege of talking with Dr. James and Ginger Dellaripa, creators of The Family Core, an app to help families of all kinds with communication, organization, and engagement. Together, we talk about the importance of communicating and staying informed across blended households. Their app is available on their website, www.thefamilycore.com , in the App Store (iOS) or in...

In this podcast episode, Scott and Vanessa discuss the signs and symptoms of substance abuse in both adults and teens. They also share the best way to approach a loved one who is struggling with an addiction.  Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram , Facebook , YouTube , To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continu...

In this last episode in a three-part series on sex, we have an honest discussion about enhancing sexual intimacy. We offer you the perspective of both the husband and wife. We also give you tips on cultivating a more fulfilling sex life with your spouse.   Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram , Facebook , YouTube , To support this ministry and help ensure...

For this podcast, we address anxiety in children and teens. We talk about the types of anxiety,  symptoms to look out for, and how we as parents and stepparents can help our children and stepchildren as they deal with anxiety. Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram , Facebook , YouTube , To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around...

This podcast addresses an important question: How do I talk about sex with my spouse? Communication about physical intimacy is an important part of your marriage. Sometimes these conversations will feel awkward and uncomfortable, but they are necessary for a more fulfilling marriage. We talk about the best ways to approach the subject. We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilie...

This episode focuses on how to support a spouse who is dealing with mental health struggles. We talk about some of the signs and symptoms that indicate your spouse might be struggling emotionally, and we offer suggestions for how you can show your support and concern in a healthy, helpful way. Be blessed in all you do! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram...

This podcast is the first in a series focusing on physical intimacy in marriage. We discuss what may be hindering more frequent connections as well as steps you can take to create more intimate encounters. Every marriage is different, but sex is vital to every marriage.  We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement Want to join the Blended Kingdom Familie...

Welcome to the first episode of Let's Therapy!!  In this first episode of Talk Therapy, we discuss the intersection of mental health, faith, and blended family. Everyone faces mental health challenges, even characters in the Bible! Those struggles can affect your marriage and blended family, so getting the help you need is important. A healthier you leads to healthier relationships! #letsther...

In this episode, we tackle the tough topic of what to do when your ex marries again. We talk about the emotions that can surface for you and your children, how to have those awkward conversations with your ex’s new spouse, and how marrying again can affect your children.  Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram , Facebook , YouTube , To support this ministry...

In this episode, we sit down with Dave and Ashley Willis to talk about their book, The Counterfeit Climax . We broach the subject of talking about sex with your spouse, overcoming intimacy issues together, and more. If you and your spouse are going through a rough patch, do not lose heart. Your marriage—and your physical intimacy—can be rich and meaningful. For more of Dave and Ashley Willis:  htt...

In this episode, we sit down with the president of Abilene Christian University, Dr. Phil Schubert. We talk about the benefits of Christian universities, important college experiences, and how parents in blended families can prepare as their children  leave for college. Letting go of our children and stepchildren can be scary, but God has already prepared them and you for this chapter in your blen...

In this episode, we discuss the danger of mentioning divorce in a season of marital difficulty. We talk about the power in deciding it is not an option (except in some cases, of course), and we share tips to strengthen and fortify your marriage.  We pray this podcast blesses you this week! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect...

In this episode, Scott and Vanessa sit down with our podcast producer, Dyanna Groves, to answer questions brought to us by our Blended & Redeemed Launch Team. We discuss a variety of topics, from working with your spouse and using the Blended & Redeemed Study Guide to parenting teens in blended families and praying for your ex-spouse.  If you have questions that aren’t answered in this epi...

In this episode, we meet with Pastor Brady Boyd to discuss essentials for a healthy marriage , God’s redemption in blended families, and His faithfulness to bless generosity. Your remarriage and blended family story can be a testimony of hope and a tool for sharing the gospel. Your marriage can be an example for your children and can help break the generational cycle of divorce. Whatever your blen...

Since filming this episode, Kait Warman became Kait Tomlin in marriage. Congratulations, Kait! For this week’s episode, we had the opportunity to meet with Kait to discuss relationships, dating, and dealing with rejection. You may have heard the saying, “You can’t love someone else until you learn to love yourself.” There is truth in those words. Knowing your worth in Christ allows you to bring gr...

This week, we discuss how and why we might want to extend an olive branch to our ex-spouse and why the holiday season is a great time to do so. If there is any lingering contention between your ex-spouse and you, we want to share some strategies and opportunities to improve that relationship. You can make this season less stressful for your blended family. We pray this podcast blessed you today! ...

This week’s episode is all about navigating holiday transitions between homes. No matter what time of year, transitions can be difficult for everyone involved. We share some practical ways you and your co-parent can work together to ease the stress, anxiety, and frustration your children may be feeling so that they can have fun and experience joy during the holiday season. Want to join the Blended...

For this week’s episode, we talk about the unique challenges facing blended families during the holidays. Scheduling and planning, sharing time with children, and trying to work with your ex-spouse can feel like a daunting task. We share some practical ways to navigate this season so your blended family, your children, and your ex’s family can all enjoy the holidays.  Want to join the Blended King...