Blended Kingdom Families Podcast

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Top Tips from 20 Years of Successful Blended Family Marriage, Scott and Vanessa are joined by Ben and Debbie Kohnle, a happily married couple with nearly 20 years of experience navigating the unique challenges of blended family life. They share valuable insights about prioritizing marriage, raising children with intentionality, keeping faith at the center of fam...

On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa are joined by Dr. Michael and Tracey Maxwell. Dr. Maxwell is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Tracey is an Independent Health Coach, together they discuss the complexities of blending families, remarriage, parenting, and maintaining a firm foundation centered on Christ.  Discover practical tips for building and maintai...

In this powerful episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale sit down with Pastor Brandon and Susan Thomas, founders of Keystone Church and authors of A Legacy That Lasts. Together, they explore practical strategies for instilling Godly character in children, modeling resets, and embracing humility by owning mistakes. Discover how these Christ-centered principles...

In this Thanksgiving-inspired episode, we explore how blended families can thrive by embracing gratitude. Discover practical ways to choose thankfulness, reflect Christ's love, and celebrate the blessings God pours out on your blended family. Whether you're navigating challenges or celebrating victories, this episode equips you with encouragement and faith-filled insights to represent Ch...

Whether you’re preparing for marriage, are newlyweds, or have been married for decades, this episode of BKF podcast, Marriage God’s Way: The 4 Laws for a Lasting, Thriving Relationship, is packed with wisdom to help you build a lasting marriage that honors God.  Scott and Vanessa are joined by President and Founder of XO Marriage, Pastor Jimmy Evans, for an inspiring and encouraging conversation a...

On this exciting episode of the BKF podcast, Beating Blended Family Burnout: Overcoming the Invisible Mental Load Together, Scott and Vanessa discuss an important topic impacting many marriages and blended families - the invisible mental and emotional load that so many spouses in blended families carry. Join us as we explore what this often-overlooked burden looks like and how it affects your rela...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, A Stepmom’s Faith-Based Guide to a Thriving Blended Family, Scott and Vanessa are joined by Courtney Williams—a wife, mother, stepmom, and faith-driven lifestyle influencer—to share her journey in creating a thriving blended family. From single motherhood to a beautiful family of eight, Courtney opens up about the challenges of merging house...

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Spotting the Signs: Tips for Parents to Tackle Bullying For Good, Scott and Vanessa unpack the challenging topic of bullying— from cyber to verbal to physical, and how bullying affect kids today. Learn from real-life examples, discover the common signs of bullying, and gain valuable tips on how parents can create safe, open environments for communication and sup...

Are you starting the journey of blending a family and striving to build a marriage that honors Christ? In this episode, Beginning to Blend: Building a Christ-Centered Blended Marriage and Family, Scott and Vanessa are joined by friends Stephen and Kate Srein, a newly blended family navigating the challenges of merging two families into one. From parenting styles, co-parenting dynamics, to building...

In this episode of the BKF podcast, Scott and Vanessa discuss a challenging issue that impacts all blended families: understanding and managing screen time. With statistics showing kids spend up to 9 hours a day on screens, they explore practical solutions to create balanced and healthy media habits. They share their own family’s rules on screen time, discuss the dangers of excessive exposure, and...

In this episode of the BKF podcast, How to Overcome Favoritism - Practical Tips to Improve Your Blended Family, Scott and Vanessa discuss the challenging dynamics of favoritism within blended families. They discuss how favoritism can impact both biological and stepchildren, ways to identify signs of favoritism, and share strategies you can implement to help ensure every child feels valued. With re...

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, When Your Spouse Puts The Kids First: Reclaim Your Blended Family Marriage, Scott and Vanessa tackle a common issue faced by blended families: when one partner feels like their spouse is choosing their children over them. Learn how to set healthy boundaries, communicate openly, and maintain a strong marriage while raising a blended family. They also share practi...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Family podcast, Scott and Vanessa explore the complex legal challenges faced by blended families, including child custody modifications, visitation rights, co-parenting struggles and more. Whether you are going through or preparing for a legal dispute, this practical advice, rooted in both faith and professional guidance, can help you navigate these tough sit...

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Eric Kennedy, author of Marriage After Addiction: Take Back Your Life Together. Eric shares his inspiring journey from battling addiction to finding faith, recovery, and building a blended family. Learn how he overcame addiction, rebuilt his life through faith, and now helps others navigate the challenges of addiction and recovery within their relationshi...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott Martindale is joined by friend and special guest Dr. Jon Chasteen, Senior Pastor of Victory Church. Together, they discuss leadership and how to be a "Re-Leader" in your blended family. Learn how to navigate the complexities of trust, patience, and leadership when you’re tasked with fixing something you didn’t break. Discover...

Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Blended Family Podcast! On this episode, How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale dive deep into one of the biggest challenges in blended families: How to teach values to both biological and stepchildren. Are you struggling to integrate different backgrounds and traditions in your family? Don’t worry! We’ve...

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Strengthening Church Communities in Blended Families, Scott is joined by Pastor Wade Smith, the Executive Pastor at Victory Church, to discuss the critical role of community within the church. They dive deep into why small groups are essential for growth, especially in today's content-driven world, and how intentional relationships with godly friends can tr...

Navigating life in a blended family comes with its own set of challenges, from connecting with children to overcoming the social stigma that often surrounds these unique family dynamics. In this powerful episode, How to Overcome Social Stigma in Blended Families, we explore the keys to building strong, lasting bonds with your children while addressing the external pressures that can impact your bl...

Welcome to the BKF Podcast! In this episode, What is Parental Role Confusion in Blended Families and How to Overcome It, Scott and Vanessa dive into the challenges of defining parental roles within blended families. Discover how to tackle role confusion between biological and stepparents, address  inconsistencies across households, navigate loyalty conflicts that children may face and much more! J...

Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Top 4 Co-parenting Tips for Blended Families. In this episode we welcome back Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) Ambassador Sidney Chaplin to discuss her top 4 tips for effective co-parenting in blended families. Sidney shares personal experiences relate to fostering healthy blended family communication, avoiding making kids choose between parents, a...

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment , Scott and Vanessa Martindale explain the vital role of discernment in co-parenting. Discover how the Holy Spirit guides us to make wise decisions, maintain healthy relationships, and avoid common pitfalls in blended families. Whether you're struggling with communication, dealing with manipulation, or seekin...

In this episode, Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective, Vanessa Martindale interviews Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) ambassador Sidney Chaplin. Enjoy this encouraging discussion about common toxic co-parenting behaviors and how to avoid them. Sidney shares her experiences and offers practical tips for maintaining a healthy co-parenting relationship. From avoiding negative talk about t...

Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Healthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective as Vanessa interviews Sidney Chaplin, a Blended Kingdom Teens ambassador, about healthy co-parenting from a teen’s perspective. Sidney shares her experiences and offers valuable advice for parents navigating co-parenting relationships. From setting boundaries to encouraging positive relations...

Join us on this episode, Are you Co-Parenting with a Narcissist, as Scott and Vanessa discuss the complexities  co-parenting relationships can have with a narcissist in blended families. They also provide insights into understanding narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and the impact it can have on co-parenting dynamics. They offer practical advice on setting boundaries, maintaining your mental...

Welcome back to the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast! In this episode, How to Handle a Toxic Co-Parent: Practical Advice, we dive deep into the challenging world of co-parenting and discuss how to avoid toxic behaviors that can harm your blended family's dynamic. Join Scott and Vanessa as they share practical tips to help you navigate co-parenting with respect, communication, and love. Whethe...