Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie
Black iNQueery
Black iNQueery is your home for all things Black and Queer. Listen along each week as your hosts, Raymond Wise, Randy Nygel, and BoDaBaddie, discuss the ups and downs of the human experience from a Black Queer perspective with a whole lotta laughter! Nothing is off limits; dating, the church, chosen family, and of course whatever mess is making headlines each week. These three friends are happy to add you to the group chat. So kick off your shoes, throw on your bonnet, and welcome home! New episode every Thursday!
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Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie
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Latest episode
Jul 9, 2026
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Episodes
We Come To This Place For Magic 11.10.2024 1:15:45
This week, your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie discuss all things movie: their favorite tropes, their favorite films, and the ones they can't stand. Listen along and drop us a line on social media to share some of your favorites! This week's word on the curb is Kelsey (who? exactly!) is modeling Nicki Minaj's shoes... why? Send us Fan Mail Subscribe to our Patreon...
Can She Use Yo Comb? 26.09.2024 1:25:51
This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie discuss interracial dating. Listen along as they share their experience with dating across different cultures, and highlight the joys and woes of those relationships. This week's WOTC is Janet Jackson and her chaotic comments about Kamala Harris, and nobody is laughing at the Sh*ts & Gigs hosts this week after their comments...
Ableism 19.09.2024 1:30:23
This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie discuss ableism and how we can all do a little bit more to make our communities more accessible for all. This week's word on the curb is F*** Bad Boy and Diddy! Send us Fan Mail Subscribe to our Patreon ! Follow Black iNQueery on Instagram
Divorce, Babes 12.09.2024 1:31:30
This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie discuss their thoughts and views on marriage and divorce. Listen along as they share the impact of divorce on their personal lives and relationships! Word on the curb is NLE Choppa has the gworls in a tizzy and Kendrick Lamar has Louisinana up in arms. Send us Fan Mail Subscribe to our Patreon ! Follow Black iNQueery on Instagram
WOTC: The DNC, Sir Davis, and Summer D*ck 29.08.2024 1:51:01
This week we're back with a Word on the Curb episode to wrap up August! Listen along as your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie review each day of the DNC, discuss Alicia Keys turning down nine million dollars, and the phenomenon known as "Summer D*ck"! Send us Fan Mail Subscribe to our Patreon ! Follow Black iNQueery on Instagram
Breaking the Competitive Cycle 22.08.2024 1:27:00
This week your hosts Raymond Wise, Randy Nygel, and BoDaBaddie share their struggles with comparing themselves to others and the victories that come with healthy competition. Listen along as they reflect on a society that makes almost everything a competition, and learn what tools are helpful to them when the competition gets a little too real. This week's word on the curb is Sexyy Red'...
The Foods That Raised Us 15.08.2024 1:09:25
Hope you're not hungry! This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie dish out their hot food takes and discuss the cultural significance of "saving recipes". Grab a snack and listen along as they share their fondest foodie memories, and create the perfect menu for their ultimate dinner party! Word on the Curb is we do not play about Jordan Chiles! Send us Fan Mail...
DEI, It Matters 08.08.2024 1:35:26
This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDabBaddie discuss the movement to erase DEI initiatives and programs nationwide. Listen along as they share experiences of what happens when there is no space for DEI, and discuss how to move forward without the tools and resources that DEI provides. Word on the curb is that the Olympic games shined a spotlight on gender, and one athlete'...
WOTC: Entertainment... at What Cost? 01.08.2024 1:34:16
This week is a jam-packed Word on the Curb episode! Tune in to hear hosts, Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie share their unfiltered thoughts and reactions to some of the top headlines in July. They cover everything from Kim Burrell to Kamala Harris to the Olympics in Paris, it's all here baby! Oui oui indeed! Send us Fan Mail Subscribe to our Patreon ! Follow Black iNQueery on Instag...
The Dangers (and Perks) of a Femme Presentation 25.07.2024 1:28:57
This week, your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie discuss the best and worst parts of a femme presentation. Listen along as they recount first-hand accounts of misogyny in the queer community, and how they break stereotypes rooted in the binary of gender roles. Word on the curb is Biden gave in and threw in the towel, meanwhile, Chicago Mayor Brandon Johnson's glam budget is......
50 First Dates/How to Lose a Gay in 10 Minutes 18.07.2024 1:32:14
BNQ is back this week with another episode about dating! This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie spill the tea on all the things that can go right on a first date, and of course, the almost never-ending list of what can go wrong! Listen and laugh along as they laugh over the chaos of it all. Word on the curb is the AKA's shared space with the leather daddies and Trump d...
Democracy Sashays Away 11.07.2024 1:32:07
This week you should probably brace yourself, your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie are discussing politics. Listen along as they share their concerns, critiques, and opinions on the current state of American politics and the horror that is Project 2025. Send us Fan Mail Subscribe to our Patreon ! Follow Black iNQueery on Instagram
The Bonnet Chronicles: Cecred Scalps & Texturism 04.07.2024 1:25:22
Taylor Casey is still missing. Taylor, known for her vibrant and loving personality, has been practicing yoga for 15 years and went to the Sivananda Ashram Yoga Retreat to fulfill a long-term goal of deepening her practice. Eager to return to Chicago, she looked forward to sharing her newfound knowledge and experience with others. Taylor Casey was last seen in the area of Paradise Island, Nassau,...
Hard to Say Goodbye: Navigating Grief 27.06.2024 1:27:40
Taylor, known for her vibrant and loving personality, has been practicing yoga for 15 years and went to the Sivananda Ashram Yoga Retreat to fulfill a long-term goal of deepening her practice. Eager to return to Chicago, she looked forward to sharing her newfound knowledge and experience with others. Taylor Casey was last seen in the area of Paradise Island, Nassau, in the Bahamas, on Wednesday, J...
Mattress on the Floor/Plastic off the Sofa 20.06.2024 1:29:57
This week is all about safe sex! From knowing your boundaries to safe words, listen along as your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie share some nuggets from their sexual escapades. Word on the curb is the TGIF show is showing their slip, and Kenya Moore is suspended from RHOA! Send us Fan Mail Subscribe to our Patreon ! Follow Black iNQueery on Instagram
Daddy Lessons 13.06.2024 1:40:08
This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie share their thoughts on the relationship between fathers and their queer children. Listen along as they unpack memories they have with their fathers, and share the lessons that still impact them most today. Word on the curb is Don Lemmon missed the mark in a major way, and RocNation is getting involved with Philadelphia's public...
Coming Out, Pulling Out, and Going In 06.06.2024 1:36:46
Happy Pride! This week your host Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie reflect on and share their coming out stories. Listen along as they discuss the impact that coming out can have on yourself, and those around you. This week's word on the curb: Black face booksellers, Carlton Banks is lashing out online, and the rap girlies are fighting! Send us Fan Mail Subscribe to our Patreon ! F...
WOTC: Denouncements, Giuseppe Boots, & Kelly Price’s Prayers 29.05.2024 1:39:07
This week's special episode is strictly word on the curb! Your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDabaddie discuss headlines that didn't make it into previous episodes. From Red Lobster to Cam'ron on CNN, the BnQ hosts have thoughts! Listen along and share some of your thoughts by tagging us on IG! Send us Fan Mail Subscribe to our Patreon ! Follow Black iNQueery on Instagram
We Forgiving or Nah? 15.05.2024 1:39:49
This week, your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie get into the nitty gritty of what it looks like to forgive. From forgiving friends, family, and even ourselves this introspective episode dissects the feelings and challenges of working to forgive. Word on the curb is Anita Baker is canceling shows with little notice and teachers are getting fired for their TikTok content...what was i...
Call Me Mutha 08.05.2024 1:28:05
Mother's Day is right around the corner and this week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie take time to give their flowers to all the mutha figures in the queer community. Muthahood isn't about biology, it's about community and celebrates chosen family. Word on the Curb is Drew Barrymore is asking Kamala Harris to be a Mamala and Kendrick Lamar and Drake is giving...
Love & War: Fighting With Your Partner 01.05.2024 1:52:17
While this episode is about fighting with your partner, it's a ki over here at Black iNQueery! Fighting styles, rules of fighting, and how to apologize are all covered on this week's episode. Your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie share how they fight with their significant others and what they learn about themselves, and their partners! As for Word on the Curb, your favor...
And I Oop- The Appropriation (and Assimilation) of Queer Culture 24.04.2024 1:27:10
What exactly is appropriation and what does it have to do with assimilation? Do the two impact the other? & when is it officially doing too much? This week your host Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie discuss the nuances of appropriation and share their thoughts on appropriation vs assimilation. Word on the curb is Ne-Yo got two girlfriends and Kalen Allen deactivated his twitter. Sen...
DL Men 17.04.2024 1:24:13
This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie navigate the complex culture of DL (down low) men. They take a deeper look into the origins of the term and discuss navigating in the queer community that often includes DL men. Word on the curb is Robyn Dixon lost her job- but Serena Williams might be getting a new one?! Tap in! [TW: SA] This episode briefly mentioned SA in the cont...
Queer Code: Keep It Cute! 10.04.2024 1:48:01
Can you date a friend's ex? Do you honor the "dibs" system? If your friend cheats on a partner are you snitching? This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie do their best to come up with a clear set of rules and boundaries for queer friend groups. Word on the curb is Todrick Hall is asking for money and Jerrod Carmichael is on TV sucking white toes! SOS! Send u...
Toxic Turn-Ons & Icks! 03.04.2024 1:37:54
Chewing with your mouth open? Ick! Clapping when the plane lands? Ick! Can't parallel Park? ICK! This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie dive into their list of icks and turn offs, as well as toxic traits that turn them on maybe just a little. Yee, and we cannot stress this enough... HAW! Beyoncé is back with act ii, prepare for stanning! Send us Fan Mail Subscribe to...
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