JOY 94.9 - Queer Podcasts for all our Rainbow Communities: Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Bi+, Transgender, Intersex, Queer, Questioning, Asexual, Ally, LGBT, GLBT, LGBT+, LGBTQ, LGBTI, LGBTIQA+, LGBTQIA+
Big Bi+ Questions
“Is it just a phase?”… “Am I actually gay?”… “Do you like men or women more?”. Big Bi+ Questions (BBQ) looks to tackle the questions that bi+ people have heard a lot, or questions they’ve asked themselves! Why are these questions so common? How does it make us feel? How have we responded? Why can’t we sit in chairs properly? The hosts have a fun chat about the BBQ of the week with special guests and listener-submitted questions. Join the conversation by emailing bigbiquestions@joy.org.au
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JOY 94.9 - Queer Podcasts for all our Rainbow Communities: Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Bi+, Transgender, Intersex, Queer, Questioning, Asexual, Ally, LGBT, GLBT, LGBT+, LGBTQ, LGBTI, LGBTIQA+, LGBTQIA+
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Jul 4, 2026
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Why is there bi+ erasure in the animal kingdom? 13.08.2025 44:11
Why do so many animals get caught up in the human debate about bisexuality? This week on Big Bi+ Questions, Tamzyn, Little Jase, and Raena are joined by our resident scientist Dr Cat to explore bisexual erasure in the animal kingdom. From bonobos to penguins, lions to Lisa Mitchell’s Animals, we ask: do animals even care about labels, or is that just a human thing? We dive into same-sex behaviour...
Why are you asking? 07.08.2025 55:20
The big question in this episode is a little different. It’s not a question that bi+ people get asked a lot and it’s not a question bi+ people ask themselves. It’s a question bi+ people might respond with when asked about their identity – Why are you asking? Raena, Jase, and Dave were joined by JOY presenter CJ, who shared their multi-gender attracted identity journey befor...
Why is bi+ visibility important? 24.07.2025 47:50
In this episode of Big Bi+ Questions, we were joined by Andrew “Doogie” MacDougall, host of the Pride & Puck podcast and an advocate for LGBTQIA+ inclusion. Doogie shared his journey with settling into his multi-gender attracted identity and we unpacked what bi+ visibility looks like across different environments, how it’s shifted with age or political climate, and what subtl...
Does being bisexual exclude non-binary people? 16.07.2025 47:57
In celebration of International Non-Binary People’s Day (14th July), the team had a chat about a misconception that bi+ are sometimes asked about: ‘does being bisexual exclude non-binary people?’. Our non-binary co-host Little Jase shared an insight into their identity and journey and we talked about ways you can play, test things out, and feel comfortable with your gender expression....
Where are all the Bi+ sports people? 09.07.2025 52:52
Where are all the bi+ sports people? To help us answer this big question, we were joined by passionate sports inclusion advocate and proud bisexual man, Kade Matthews. We also welcomed back previous guest Joey Talison and introduced our new co-host Raena to the Big Bi+ Questions team. Together, we had a chat about bi+ visibility in professional and non-professional sports, why openly bi+ athletes...
Where’s the bi+ in showbiz? 03.07.2025 51:51
So where is the bi+ in showbiz? We asked cabaret queen and drag darling Tash York to help us find out! With her trademark humour, powerhouse voice, and glitter-drenched bi+ visibility, Tash joined us for a big bi+ chat about being part of the cabaret and drag scenes, how her identity has evolved, and what it really takes to own the stage. We also talked burlesque, bi+ confidence, and why performin...
Why are you so greedy? 25.06.2025 48:46
Being greedy is a harmful bi+ stereotype but where does it originate from? On this episode of Big Bi+ Questions we were joined by psychologist and podcast host, Juniper Muller, and we had a big chat about how bi+ people can deal with this stereotype being placed upon us. Check out Juniper’s podcast, Trans Sexual, an adult podcast for trans pleasure, at www.transsexualpod.com or wherever yo...
Are bi+ people welcome in the leather community? 19.06.2025 44:02
Do you want to be part of the leather community but worried you’ll be excluded because you’re multi-gender attracted? It’s a question that bi+ people can ponder, especially because the leather community can sometimes be perceived as a closed community. On this episode of Big Bi+ Questions, we were joined by Andrea, Brock, and Johnny from Melbourne Leather to chat about the leathe...
Do I have to come out as bi+? 11.06.2025 48:10
Coming out usually doesn’t happen just once, but coming out once can sometimes mean you have to be ‘out’ everywhere. Whilst others may be able to choose where they are ‘out’. Joseph Talison, author of ‘What not to say to a bisexual’ and ‘Discovering Douglas’ joined the Big Bi+ Questions team for a chat about coming out and being out, and why it...
Why can’t we sit on chairs properly? 29.05.2025
Sure, there are some harmful bi+ stereotypes out there but there are a lot of fun ones such as the stereotype that bi+ people can’t sit on chairs properly. On this episode of Big Bi+ Questions, we had a big bi+ chat about where these stereotypes came from, how we feel about them, and how they can help bi+ people feel part of a community. If any of the topics in this episode bring up difficul...
Am I Actually A Lesbian? 22.05.2025
How do you know if a label still fits? That’s really what this episode’s big question is about – whether that’s someone who currently labels themselves as multi-gender attracted but thinks they might be a lesbian, or someone who labels themselves as lesbian but thinks a multi-gender attracted label might suit them better. The Big Bi+ Questions team were very grateful to be...
What does a bi+ voice sound like? 21.05.2025 42:15
It’s a huge big bi+ JOY Radiothon episode! We were joined by the voice that is John Deeks, all the way from pansexual Paris. John gave us an insight into his multi-gender attracted identity and we had a chat about the big question ‘what does a bi+ voice sound like?’. You can continue signing up to be a JOY member and donating at joy.org.au ! Connect with the Big Bi+ Questions...
What makes a bangin’ bi anthem? Part 2 29.04.2025 24:39
This was such a BIG question that we had to split it over two episodes, and here is part 2 full of even more big bi bangers including Janelle Monáe, Beth McCarthy, Dodie, Halsey and Lauren Jauregai, Demi Lovato, Dove Cameron, and Peaches! Get more bi-conic goodness from PENELOPE on Instagram @i.am.the.penelope . Connect with the Big Bi+ Questions team on Instagram @bigbiquestions or email bigb...
What makes a bangin’ bi anthem? Part 1 23.04.2025 34:07
Is it a bi banger? The Big Bi+ Questions team had a chat with the amazing bi-con PENELOPE about coming out as bisexual and being part of the Bi-Conic float in the Sydney Mardi Gras parade. We then revealed the first three of our favourite bangin’ bi anthems including tracks from Peter Allen, Blur, and Panic! At The Disco! Get more bi-conic goodness from PENELOPE on Instagram @i.am.the.penel...
Am I still bisexual if I have a preference in gender? 18.04.2025 48:05
The bisexual imposter syndrome rears its ugly head with this question, brought to us by our special guest Mia, from JOY’s weekly show, Nouveau. In this episode, find out about Mia’s journey to discovering her multi-gender attracted identity and what it has to do with 2010’s American sitcom, VICTORiOUS. You can catch Mia with her co-host Mietta on Nouveau on JOY, Tuesdays at 7pm A...
Am I masculine enough to be a bisexual man? 10.04.2025 47:56
What does it mean to be masculine enough to be a bisexual man? It’s a big question our guest, Steve Spencer, asked himself on his identity journey so it was the perfect, big question for us to chat about on this insightful episode of Big Bi+ Questions. If any of the topics in this episode bring up difficult or intense feelings for you, we encourage you to reach out for support from a trusted...
How can I be a beautiful ally for the bi+ community? 03.04.2025 50:33
This episode of Big Bi+ Questions is a little different. Usually the big question of the episode is something bi+ people get asked a lot or a question we ask ourselves. This time around, it’s a question that non-bi+ people might ask: How can I be a beautiful ally for the bi+ community? The Big Bi+ Questions team were grateful to be joined by LGBTQIA+ advocate and educator, Sally Goldner, who...
Am I actually gay? 26.03.2025 37:56
It’s a question many bi+ people had asked themselves at some point. In this episode, we were joined by Felipe to explore why this question came up, how we have navigated it, and what it might say about internalised bi-phobia, our attraction, and the pressure to “pick a side.” Felipe also shared his journey of discovering his bi+ identity, which involved a move from Colombia to Australia, bei...
What label should I pick? 20.03.2025 47:45
Labels can be empowering, comforting, and a way to connect with community—but they can also feel confusing or limiting. So how do you decide which one (if any) is right for you? In this episode, the Big Bi+ Questions team is joined by Dr. Catriona Nguyen-Robertson to chat about the big question ‘What label should I pick?’ Find out more about Dr. Cat’s show Science Queeries and he...
Why do bi+ people experience higher rates of poor mental health? 12.03.2025 42:34
If any of the topics in this episode bring up difficult or intense feelings for you, we encourage you to reach out for support from a trusted friend, community, or mental health professional. You can find a list of organisations you can turn to for support on this page: joy.org.au/support Bi+ people have consistently reported higher rates of mental health challenges compared to both straight and g...
How has bi+ TV representation changed since *that* episode of Sex and the City? 06.03.2025 54:13
For a long time, bi+ representation on TV was rare—and when it did appear, it often wasn’t great. One infamous example? The Sex and the City episode Boy, Girl, Boy, Girl…, where Carrie and her friends react very poorly to bisexuality. But how far have we come since then? On this episode of Big Bi+ Questions, the team is joined by writer, journalist, and author Patrick Lenton to discuss the evoluti...
Are you more straight or more gay? 26.02.2025 39:03
Are you more straight or more gay? Bi+ people hear this ALL the time, but what does this question even mean and why do some people feel the need to ask it? Is it because they think bisexuality doesn’t exist or maybe because they’re avoiding their own internal identity questioning. On this episode, we’re joined by our special guest Venetia Brissenden, co-host of JOY’s groovy...
Can I call myself bi+ if I’ve only been intimate with one gender? 19.02.2025 45:49
Ever felt that you weren’t queer enough based on who you’ve slept with? On this episode, Jase and Tamzyn are joined by award winning activist and advocate Ruby, who was part of JOY’s first ever bi+ show, Triple Bi-Pass, on air from 2018 to 2022. Apart from chatting about the big bi question, we also induct the very first person into the Big Bi+ Questions: Bi-conic Figures Hall of Fame....
Where the health is the bi+ research? 11.02.2025 46:41
The Big Bi+ Questions team are looking for bi+ health research. Thankfully, Associate Professor Benjamin Bavinton and PhD candidate Bella Bushby, from the Bi+ Sexual Health and HIV (BiSHH) survey, join them to chat about why more bi+ research is needed and how results from the BiSHH survey will help shape research, advocacy, and better healthcare for bi+ people. It’s a BBQ, BiSHH! If youR...
What is Big Bi+ Questions? 05.02.2025 37:19
It’s the very first episode of Big Bi+ Questions! Get to know your hosts and find out what to expect on this brand new big bi+ show. Connect with us on Instagram @bigbiquestions or email bigbiquestions@joy.org.au . We’d love to hear from you! The post What is Big Bi+ Questions? appeared first on Big Bi+ Questions .
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