Beyond the Letter

In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee Mesa dive into one of the most overlooked yet powerful aspects of marriage: communication. Drawing from James 3, they explore how the tongue—though small—has the power to set entire relationships on fire or steer them toward peace and love. Together, they challenge us to reflect on the impact of our words: are we speaking life into our marriage, or u...

In this episode of Beyond the Letter, Adam Mesa and the team dive into the importance of authenticity and vulnerability in our spiritual walk. They explore how speaking life into others and affirming their God-given gifts not only strengthens relationships but also builds up the Church as a whole. Drawing inspiration from biblical examples like Daniel and Joseph—who modeled servant leadership long...

In this thought-provoking episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee Mesa unpack the biblical model of leadership and submission in marriage. Drawing from the Garden of Eden, they reflect on how God’s design for husbands and wives points us toward love, respect, and mutual support. The conversation emphasizes that submission is not weakness or loss of value, but a recognition of God-given roles that...

In this powerful discussion, Adam and the crew unpack the hunger for authentic faith among young believers today. Contrary to the narrative that Gen Z is running from God, this generation is seeking Him in His purest form. The conversation challenges us to strip away cultural adaptations of Jesus and instead present the raw, transformative power of the Gospel. A moving story of a young woman who b...

Adam and Ashlee are back — and this time, they’re putting each other on the spot with a round of fun, random questions. From imaginary arrest records and life-swaps to cartoon alter-egos (yes, there’s a Care Bear involved), nothing is off-limits. Along the way, you’ll hear about missing license plates, loud tooth-brushing, sun-induced sneezing fits, and why Ashlee will absolutely step in if anyone...

What if deepening your faith meant asking more questions instead of having all the answers? In this thought-provoking episode, the crew explores how curiosity and open-mindedness can strengthen our walk with God. Looking at the example of Jesus—who welcomed people from every background and engaged with their stories—they unpack how respect, patience, and humility create space for meaningful spirit...

Pregnancy isn't just a physical journey—it’s a deeply spiritual one. In this powerful episode, Ashlee Mesa is joined by guests Alize and Nancy to unpack the highs and lows of motherhood through a lens of faith. From morning sickness and fear to unexpected complications, this conversation draws from the stories of Sarah, Hannah, Elizabeth, and Eve to show how God shapes both body and soul in the pr...

In a world driven by likes, shares, and endless scrolling, how do we stay spiritually grounded? In this timely episode, the team unpacks the subtle yet powerful ways social media can shape our identity, relationships, and even our walk with God. With Proverbs 18:1 as a backdrop, they challenge us to examine whether we’re using these platforms as tools for genuine connection—or letting them pull us...

What do you do when your spouse is going through something heavy—and you're not sure how to help? In this heartfelt episode, Adam and Ashlee unpack the power of showing up with empathy and patience when your partner is facing grief, anxiety, or health struggles. Rooted in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, this conversation is a reminder that marriage isn’t about convenience—it’s about commitment, especiall...

Sometimes we chase a promise so hard, we end up building something God never asked for. In this episode, the guys dive into the tension between trusting God’s timing and taking matters into our own hands. Using the story of Abraham, Sarah, and Hagar as a reference point, they explore what it means to accidentally “birth an Ishmael”—a version of purpose that we have to sustain ourselves—when God is...

Control might feel like safety—but in marriage, it can become a silent wedge. In this heart-check of an episode, Adam and Ashlee dive into what it means to truly trust God in your relationship. Whether it’s trying to force outcomes, micromanaging your spouse, or holding onto fear disguised as “leadership,” they unpack how surrendering control creates space for both people to thrive spiritually and...

As artificial intelligence reshapes how we live, work, and connect—what does it mean for our spiritual lives? In this episode, Adam and the crew unpack how tools like AI can support, challenge, and even disrupt our walk with God. From digital Bible apps to algorithm-driven connection, they explore both the opportunity and the danger of technology becoming a substitute for intimacy with the Father....

Weddings are beautiful — but they’re not just about the flowers, the dress, or the guest list. In this week’s episode, we talk about what it means to enter marriage as a sacred covenant, not just a celebration. From the meaning of communion at your ceremony to the weight of commitment before God, this convo challenges couples to keep Christ at the center — even in the chaos of planning. If you’re...

In this powerful roundtable conversation, Adam is joined by Sammy, Kevin, Ben, and Daniel to talk about what it really means to prioritize your home as your first ministry. Inspired by Jesus’ love for children and the call to servant leadership, they reflect on how spiritual formation starts in the family. From bedtime Bible readings to reshaping daily routines, this episode unpacks the practical...

What does it look like to truly wait on God’s timing—especially in love? In this moving episode, Adam and Ashlee sit down with Eric and Thalia Bradley to unpack their 40-year journey of sexual purity before marriage. Their story is a powerful reminder that faithfulness is never wasted, and that God’s promises often exceed what we could ask or imagine. Rooted in 1 Corinthians 6, their testimony cha...

What does it mean to be Christian and compassionate in a divided world? In this timely episode, Adam and Will dive into the biblical mandate to care for the marginalized—especially the widow, the orphan, and the foreigner. Drawing from Deuteronomy, Proverbs, and the life of Jesus Himself (who was once a refugee), they challenge believers to approach modern immigration not just with policy opinions...

How can you raise godly children if your marriage isn’t united? In this episode, Adam and Ashlee unpack the power of unity in parenting and why your relationship as husband and wife sets the tone for your entire household. From handling in-law dynamics to the biblical principle of "leaving and cleaving," they share how oneness in marriage creates stability, safety, and spiritual clarity for your k...

How do you honor God while building something big? In this raw and motivating episode, Adam is joined by Pastors Sammy, Aaron, and Fuego to unpack the intersection of creativity, calling, and entrepreneurship. They open up about the highs and lows of starting businesses, leading ministries, and staying faithful to God's voice in an era where hustle and hype can easily drown out purpose. From b...

What are the non-negotiables that keep a marriage grounded when life gets busy—especially with kids in the picture? In this practical and honest episode, Adam and Ashlee talk about how parenting has challenged and strengthened their relationship. They unpack the values that keep them aligned, the systems they’ve put in place to stay connected, and how they navigate tough moments without losing sig...

What happens when your brain doesn’t shut off—but you're still called to lead? In this raw and relatable episode, Adam sits down with Pastor Will to talk about how they each navigate life, ministry, and mental health while living with ADHD. From rapid thoughts and decision fatigue to overcommitting and emotional overload, they get honest about the behind-the-scenes struggle that high-functioni...

In this inspiring episode of Beyond I Do, hosts Adam and Ashlee Mesa sit down with Lester and Kirsten Baron—longtime friends and cherished members of the Patria community. Together, they dive into the journey of building a life side-by-side in marriage, business, and parenthood. From pursuing separate careers to launching a financial planning practice together, the Barons share the real and raw mo...

How do you know if it’s God’s voice or just your own thoughts? In this deep-dive episode, Adam, Sammy, and Will unpack the tension between being emotionally led vs. Spirit-led, and why so many believers wrestle with discerning God’s voice in their everyday lives. He breaks down the dangers of assuming God always affirms your desires—and how the Holy Spirit often challenges, corrects, and sanctifie...

What does it really mean to be led by the Holy Spirit in relationships? In this episode, Adam and Ashlee—joined by pastors and marriage coaches George and Tondra Gregory—dig into what spiritual discernment looks like when you're choosing who to marry, how to navigate conflict, or just trying to figure out if you're on the same page as your spouse. It’s not just about hearing an audible voi...

When the door doesn't open, is God saying "No"... or just "Not yet"? In this faith-stirring episode, we dive into the power of perseverance through the lens of Walt Disney’s relentless dream to build Disneyland—despite 300+ bank rejections. Through that story and Scripture, we explore how God often uses delay to develop character, and how enduring trials can actually prepar...

What happens when your spiritual walk is strong—but your spouse's isn't? In this raw and honest episode, Adam and Ashlee dive deep into the emotional and spiritual tension that arises when couples find themselves spiritually unequally yoked, even after marriage. They unpack the biblical responsibility of the believing spouse, offer encouragement from personal experience, and share tools to...