Beyond the Letter

In today's episode we are answering a listeners question! This discussion dives deep into the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries and purity within a marriage. We learn that introducing external sexual influences, whether pornography, strip clubs, or other deviant behaviors, can slowly erode the intimacy and oneness God intended for the marital relationship. Just as detoxing from an a...

Navigating the tricky waters of friendship and loyalty can be as complex as it is heartwarming. How do you balance your personal feelings with the need to publicly defend a friend? This episode peels back the layers of such dilemmas, with stories and insights that resonate with anyone who's ever been torn between allegiance and authenticity. Our little podcast journey, "Beyond the Letter,...

Hey BID Fam! We got an update on the rims lol but we also have a lot more in this episode (BID S1E35) In this heartfelt conversation, we explore the profound spiritual lessons that can be gleaned from the everyday moments and challenges of married life. From the seemingly trivial frustrations over damaged car rims to the deeper questions around gender roles and wedding traditions, there are treasu...

Welcome back to another episode! Today's episode is a little special as our table delves deep into the world of therapy, trauma, and emotional healing. Special guests Gage, Colin, and Sanaz bring their collective expertise from the fields of applied behavior analysis, marriage and family therapy, and educational counseling. Discover why mental health awareness has become increasingly important...

Have you ever been upset with your spouse? lol who hasn't! Our conversation this week mirrors the roads couples travel, with twists, turns, and the occasional need for roadside assistance. We open the trunk on the tools necessary for nurturing the long haul of relationships—listening, laughing, and learning from each misstep. Revving to the finish line, we park at the intersection of personal...

As the solemn notes of Israel's Memorial Day resonate, Adam's dear friend, Aviad, an Orthodox Jew, joins us with his companions to share a tapestry of narratives that often remain unheard amidst the turmoil of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. Their voices echo the heartache of parents mourning their son, the valor in the face of tragedy, and the unyielding connection to a land etched with...

On this week's BEYOND I DO PODCAST episode, we discuss a QUESTION from a faithful listener: I’ve heard you guys talk about blended families. Could you talk about religions within families? My husband & I grew up Catholic his family very religious practicing Catholics. We decided to go out in our faith & consider ourselves Christians. We feel it’s where God has called us, but his family...

Did you hear?? Russell Brand got baptized! In this episode we explore the realm of online relationships, we highlights amusing misunderstandings and teases, while delving into deeper topics like the evolution of public personas through faith journeys such as Russell Brand's and Candace Owens'. We wrap up with reflections on faith, mentorship, and community, the episode encourages creating...

BID Family! Get ready to laugh, cry and laugh and cry some more!! In this week's episode, we delve into the captivating world of church planting alongside our friends Fuego and Tiffany, two dynamic individuals from Alameda. From the highs and lows of building a church from scratch to the heartwarming connections forged along the way, our conversation is infused with laughter, poignant moments,...

Join us in this eye-opening episode as we delve into the significance of flirting beyond the dating scene. Discover how small gestures of love can fortify your marriage and serve as a guiding light for your children. From heartfelt compliments to spontaneous acts of affection, learn how these actions nurture the core of your relationship. But our conversation doesn't stop there. We challenge t...

Balancing the scales of work and family life might seem like a circus act, but with a dash of humor and heaps of wisdom, we're here to show it's not all high-wire without a net! Join us, along with the ever-charming Mrs. Pauline Mesa, Ashlee and Sanaz as we swap stories from the trenches of daily routines and giggle over the eccentricities of long-term love. Our conversation takes you thro...

This episode is a little different than anything we've ever done before... Join us at the table with our host, Adam Mesa, along with his father Pastor Diego Mesa as well a familiar face, our co-host, Will Chung and our special new guest, Pastor Jimmy as they discuss the a momentous transition, a change in our church's name to......you'll have to tune in to find out! Throughout our disc...

Join us in this heartfelt episode as we delve into the emotional aftermath of breakups and the complexities of moving forward into new relationships. We explore the tangled web of feelings and experiences that often accompany the end of a romance and the challenges of embarking on a fresh journey while still grappling with unresolved emotions. Through candid stories and reflections, we highlight t...

This episode is one you’re going to want to tune into! Join us for this riveting table of leaders as we are joined by Brad Lomenick, the author of H3 Leadership. The conversation is fact and navigates different complexities perfect for any listener! This isn't your average leadership talk. Our conversations dance through the greens of golf courses to the smoky debates over cigars in Christian...

Ever been stuck in the murky waters of post-breakup friendships or wrestled with the digital ghost of a past relationship on your social media feed? Adam and Ashlee share how they navigate the choppy seas of relationships past and present with humor and a bit of wisdom. But it's not all laughs — though we do love a good round of the latter. We wade into the deeper end when discussing the somet...

Join us as we explore the multifaceted world of faith and its interaction with youth culture, particularly within the Mormon church. We discuss the mission work that is a rite of passage for young Mormons, contrasting the experiences of men and women and their distinct approaches to service. Listen in as we navigate the challenges young people face when expressing and defending their faith, and ho...

Feeling comfortable in our own skin, especially in the intimate quarters of marriage, can be a complex dance of emotions and self-perception. Imagine opening up to your partner about the deepest insecurities that haunt your body image, or better yet, embracing those very insecurities to find a deeper connection. That's exactly where we venture in this heartfelt episode as we navigate the sensi...

BTL Fam, we hope you have your tissues ready because it is one of those episodes that will move your heart. We talk about the intimate threads of parenting, our discussion unveils the varying approaches to nurturing children in a world saturated with information and opinions. One mother's viral take on education and mental health strikes a chord, prompting us to reflect on the intricate dance...

Have you ever burst into laughter upon seeing a colleague's overly personal profile picture pop up on your phone? We've all been there! The fun doesn't stop there; we also swap tales about our most cherished pieces of jewelry and tattoos that celebrate family pride, diving into the emotional depth behind these tokens and the cultural expectations they defy. Imagine your partner consist...

BTL Fam! We have yet, another debate. If you could eat something all day, do you prefer breakfast, lunch, or dinner? LET US KNOW IN THE COMMENTS! Before we jump in to what this episode is about. We have a newbie at the table! Help us welcome Alyssa Cano, she is the Kids Director at Abundant Living Family Church, a wife, a new mother and a woman of many talents! Now, let's jump in to what this...

What matters more when choosing a partner: someone you can build a life with or someone you are in love with? Have you ever questioned the recipe for a lasting marriage? Is it a pinch of love or a hefty scoop of practicality? We tackle this heart-centered debate head-on, challenging the conventional wisdom that suggests foundations of practicality might outweigh those of romance. We dissect this l...

When Tye Tribbett stepped into the studio with The Breakfast Club, he didn't just bring his music; he brought a storm of introspection and bold challenges to the status quo of faith and fellowship. Our latest episode peels back the layers of this impactful conversation, exploring the nuances of personal pride, the complex dance between hip-hop and gospel, and the striking dichotomy between God...

Have you ever felt your heart skip a beat when your partner's gaze lingered a little too long on someone else? It's that uncomfortable cocktail of emotions we unpack in our latest heart-to-heart, where we tackle the gritty realities of marriage, trust, and the dreaded wandering eye. Your stories have touched us deeply, stirring a frank discussion on managing the tightrope walk of finances,...

Hey BTL Fam! For the first time joining us at the table, the man behind the scenes, help us welcome, Phil Cota!! Phil is one of Adam's closest friends and he sits with us as he shares the landscapes of past identities, near-death experiences, and the embrace of a higher purpose. We weave through stories of personal evolution where the unruly threads of previous lives entangle with the golden s...

Embarking on the quest for love can often feel like navigating a maze without a map, but fear not, for we've got some light to help guide the way! Adam and Ashlee open their hearts, discussing the intricate dance of Christian dating—a journey where 'game' takes on a new, more genuine form. They tackle the myths and truths about confidence and courtship, all while reflecting on the thou...