Beyond The Chaos

As we creep closer to school starting for 2026, your child might naturally be anxious. And we're guessing you are too! Gen has your back with 5 practical tips for kids starting school for the first time. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People,...

Grandparents....we love them, but sometimes they can say problematic things to our kids, often without even realising it. In this mini holiday episode, Amy and Gen discuss how to tackle this tricky problem. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little Peop...

New Year's Eve used to mean dressing up, parties, cocktails, and midnight kisses. But these days, if you're anything like us, we're lucky to see 10pm without a headache from fighting kids and sugar crashes. So Amy has created a survival guide to get you through this 'magical' night. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order...

Whoever said 'T'was the night before Christmas, and all through the house, not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse' clearly did not have kids. It's Xmas Eve, and it's probably chaos in your house, so Gen is here with a special Christmas meditation. You're welcome. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gera...

Welcome to the first in our summer mini episodes! We're not leaving you high and dry without us at any point this festive period, don't worry. This episode, we hear from a mum who's young child has suddenly become self-conscious, and wants to know what she can do to support them. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy...

Having a conversation with your child about someone special dying is one of the hardest talks you can have with them, and it can be tricky knowing how to navigate it. Recently, Gen had to have this conversation with her own kids about her mother's illness, and has some tips for navigating this difficult time. Since this episode was recorded, Gen's wonderful mum passed away. Vale, Marilyn. Leave yo...

While it would be nice if siblings always got on with each other, we know that is generally not the case. In fact, sibling fights and rivalry can be one of the most stressful experiences as a parent. So what can we do to combat this? Gen and Amy not only have some advice, but can personally relate to this dilemma. Plus, Gen has a tip for finding out if your kid is stealing from you. Leave your que...

Recently, we heard from a parent who was feeling overwhelmed by the amount of negative messaging from 'parent experts' around things like sleep training and the effect it's having on your baby. The truth is, everyone is trying their best, so Gen and Amy chat through why parenting advice is never one size fits all. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of Hi...

Kids and screens. We talk about it all the time on BTC because it's the issue that we often struggle with the most, as do our listeners. But is there actually anything we can do about it? Especially when we're often addicted ourselves. Gen and Amy chat through this complex problem, and actually hav a few ideas. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High...

Do you have a kid who often gets dysregulated to the point of kicking, hitting or biting? Knowing how to stop behaviour is so tricky, but also knowing why it's happening is key. Today on BTC, Amy and Gen hear from a mum experiencing this, and Gen has some advice. Plus, wins and fails include a very embarrassing dacking, and a very full on school fair. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo...

Are we over-parenting our children these days? In an effort to protect their kids, many parents are trying to shield them from any negative experiences, which can potentially do more harm than good. On this week's AMEN episode, Gen brings in her old report cards and her and Amy discuss how much they really matter, and how we're all a bit guilty of over-parenting these days. Leave your question for...

Parental preference is a real thing, and can be really tough on both sides of the fence. Today, Amy and Gen address a question from a listener who's child seems to really prefer his dad, and is feeling understandably sensitive about it.  Plus, Gen has a win with her teenager, and Amy reminisces about dabbling in Mary Jane when she was younger. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm...

On this week's AMEN rant, it's the school holidays juggle. From finding things for kids to keep them occupied, too someone to look after them so you can leave the house, and then everything else involved in running a house. If you feel like you're struggling- you're not alone! Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Ge...

We all know that good kids can act out or have trouble at school, and emotional dysregulation might be what is causing these issues. Today, Amy and Gen answer a question from a mum worried about her 6 year old, and provide some tips on supporting them through this tough time. Plus, an iPad win and the constant juggle of school holidays. Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here , and use the co...

High Low Buffalo; it's a communication tool Gen has mentioned on the podcast many times to connect with your kid of any age. And now Gen has some exciting news: she's created her own High Low Buffalo conversation cards! This episode, Gen talks about why she created these cards, exactly how they can help your family dynamic and get your kids to open up, and Amy and Gen give the cards a spin! Get yo...

This week on BTC, we hear from a mum who's daughter has turned up the clinginess to 100, but the reason behind a child not leaving you alone might surprise you. Gen has some tips for working through this with your clingy kid. Plus, does your partner say they're going to be home at a certain time, only to waltz in an hour late? You're not alone. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/bey...

Last week Amy had the flu and was sicker than she had ever been in her life...but the parenting overwhelm never stops. On this week's AMEN rant, Amy and Gen discuss parenting while being ill, partners stepping up (or not), and how you can prioritise self care. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Li...

It's pretty common that at some point, your tween might start withdrawing from things like family outings, meals and plans. But that doesn't mean it's not hard for parents, and the rest of the family. Today on Beyond The Chaos, Amy and Gen discuss a question from a listener struggling with exactly this. Plus, our wins and fails that, unsurprisingly, revolve around screens. Leave your question for...

While we never want our kids to go through something as hard as losing a pet or someone else special to them, how you guide you child through grief can help them build important skills and face a normal part of life. This week, Gen walks us through how to explain death to your kid and help them through tough times. Plus, the highs and lows of spending time away from your kids and the benefits to l...

On this week's AMEN rant, we have a bone to pick with school correspondence. On top of the 14 different apps you need, we're sick of the emails, Whatsapp messages, texts and newsletters, and reckon there has to be better way. Plus, Gen is undie-shamed in the gym. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book...

If you have a tween or teen who is perfectly sweet one second and a raging jerk the next, you're not alone. Today we hear from a parent who is at her wit's end with her daughter's behaviour, but Gen is here to tell you why her that's actually not a bad thing... Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'L...

Stealing, swearing, lying...these are all things most kids will do at one point or another. But at what point should you be worried, and is there anything you can do to manage a 'sneaky' child? Plus, is it really a big deal if we let ChatGPT do some of the parenting sometimes? Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Ge...

This week on an AMEN episode of Beyond The Chaos (AMy and gEN, of course), we tackle to topic of parental overwhelm. With so much information out there aimed to help parents, how do we know what to listen to? And how do you stay kind to yourself when we all know, most parents are just trying their best? Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap...

To celebrate Breastfeeding Awareness Month, Amy and Gen are joined by obstetrician Dr Hugh Porter  and midwife and lactation specialist Megan Hangan to chat about everything to do with breastfeeding- the highs, the lows, and the sore nipples. This episode is proudly brought to you by Haakaa. August is Breastfeeding Awareness Month, and Haakaa’s all about supporting mums through every st...

How do you teach your child that while winning feels great, it's also ok to lose? And how to teach them right and wrong if they're ultra sensitive? Gen and Amy tackle these tricky topics and more on today's episode. Plus, Gen's bike riding fail and Amy's little mini-me. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir'...