Better Together! Christian Marriage and Parenting

From the time you brought your precious little baby home from the hospital to the day they step out into their own adult life, the Biblical design for parenting is taking a helpless, dependent baby and producing an adult that has discernment, wisdom, and independence. What is the goal of parenting? Is it to raise great kids? Is it for your kids to have fun? Is it to train your kids to be respectfu...

In this special episode, we welcome Catherine Segars, a seasoned author, speaker, and stay-at-home mom, who hosts the insightful podcast, Christian Parent/Crazy World. Joining forces with Lorrie and me, Catherine shares invaluable strategies for parents navigating the challenges of raising children in an ungodly culture. Together, we explore six empowering tools that parents can teach their kids,...

The marriage road often has cracks...and if those cracks are left unattended they can lead to destructive ends. Marriage left to itself will naturally deteriorate...and so God has called us to proactively meet the needs of our spouse and to deal with issues when they are small and manageable. Join us as we look at the common pathways of pain in marriage and how we can avoid them!!

In this episode, we're talking about how husbands can meet the needs of their wives and become irresistable in the process! We'll cover the basics like showing love, talking openly, being honest, handling finances, and strong family commitments. Join us for easy-to-follow tips on how husbands can meet these needs and become the kind of spouse their wives find irresistable. If you want to make your...

In this empowering episode, we delve into the heart of marital harmony, exploring how wives can become truly irresistible to their husbands by meeting their essential needs. From the cornerstone of respect to the building blocks of intimacy, companionship, inner beauty, and reliable domestic support, we unravel the keys to fostering a connection that goes beyond the ordinary. Join us as we share p...

In this insightful episode, we unravel the intricacies of parenting styles, exploring the distinct approaches that shape family dynamics. From the laid-back permissive style to the structured authoritative approach, and the emotionally distant parenting to the values-driven Biblical model, we navigate through the strengths, challenges, and impacts each style has on children. Join us as we delve in...

The process of shepherding your child through the teenage years can be daunting and difficult...and the issue of dating is often the one that creates the most tension and stress in the home. In this episode we look at how to help your child navigate dating relationship while keeping them focused on God's plan for their lives!

When it comes to parenting, there is a huge difference between consequences, discipline, and correction...and each have an important part in the instruction process of parenting. Listen in as we not only define these terms, but give real world examples of the differences...and how we use each of them in our home with our own children!!

One of the most dangerous and volatile of the family dynamics that can exist in a marriage is in regards to in-laws. It is no wonder that our culture often villifies in-laws. Though seems to be the norm in our culture, there is a way to navigate the in-law landmines and come out on the other side with great mother-in-law and father-in-law relationships!! In this episode we look at several ways to...

In this episode, we explore the essential topic of overcoming common barriers to marital communication. We delve into five obstacles that often hinder effective dialogue in marriages: sarcasm, minimizing hurts, defensiveness, shutdown statements, and universal statements...and offer valuable insights and practical tips to break down these barriers, fostering healthier and more open communication b...

The transfer of faith to your children is not automatic...it is not a mechanical process. Christian parents must be intentional regarding their faith and the faith of their children. In this episode we look at several foundational truths regarding our children and the priority of shepherding our families!

Compassion doesn't happen naturally in our homes...it takes work, training, demonstrating...and eventually a supernatural moving in the lives of our children to give them a spiritual compassion for those that are hurting. In this episode we talk about compassion in the home....ways that we can nuture a spirit of empathy in our children.

In this candid episode, we delve deep into a common struggle within marriages that often goes unnoticed until it becomes a glaring issue – the inability to truly understand our spouse. We explore how the busyness of family life and the demands of work can lead us down a path of disconnect, mirroring the callousness we see in Elkinah's response to Hannah. Join us as we uncover the root of marital d...

In this enlightening episode, we delve deep into the profound significance of spiritual intimacy within the context of marriage. Join us as we explore how nurturing the spiritual bond between partners can be a transformative force in strengthening the foundation of love and unity. We share heartfelt stories and practical insights on how to cultivate spiritual connection in everyday life, whether t...

In this insightful podcast episode, we delve into fundamental parenting principles aimed at nurturing children's self-esteem and personal growth. We emphasize the importance of distinguishing a child's performance from their inherent value, stressing that a child's worth remains constant regardless of their achievements. Furthermore, we discuss the significance of accepting and genuinely praising...

In this empowering episode of the Better Together Podcast, DJ and Lorrie explore one of the foundational pillars of a thriving marriage: setting boundaries. Just as a fortress is protected by its walls, boundaries are the protective walls that safeguard your marriage from external threats and internal conflicts. Join us as we delve into the importance of establishing clear boundaries, both as indi...

Making the transition to college can be difficult for your new college student...and often we as parents get calls when things are not going well. In this episode we look at 6 common issues that freshman have at college and how to help them deal with those issues.

Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.

We want to protect our children...and the tendency is to shield them from anything that causes pain or discomfort. That includes failure. Our culture places incredible pressure on our children to succeed...and we have to be careful that we don't shield our children from the learning experience of failure. Dealing with failure is something that has to be learned...and it never happens if we never f...

Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.

We are back after a two week break...our daughter got married!! Where do we get the confidence to let our kids seek out direction for their lives? First, we taught our kids to pray...seek after God's direction for their own lives. We would help them think it through and involve them in their own life decisions. Second, we stepped back and assessed our kids....the talents and gifts that the Lord ha...