Before You Say I Do

Relationships is beautiful when it is done rightly, within the confines of godly principles. On today's episode, we explore more godly deal breakers in order to avoid dating wrongly.

As a Christian, you don't date the way the world dates, you don't go into relationships to please your flesh but date in a way that pleases God and this is what will serve as a guide when identifying dealbreakers.

We conclude our 4 weeks journey on Red Flags vs. Green Flags today, by dishing out more ways to identify a person who is interested in you.

Green Light can be so loud and bright but often times always overlooked by some ladies/guys due to some past hurt and negative experiences from previous relationships. On today's episode we'll be talking about how you can identify someone who is interested in you.

Some pains are unnecessary, some quarrels are unnecessary, and even some heartbreaks are unnecessary if only you could have avoided entering into those relationships by not overlooking the red flags.

You don't have to be treated poorly or in a bad way before your realise that you've been dating the wrong person and even worse about to be married to the wrong person, if you can sense the negative signs early enough you will avoid the hurt later on.

Dating doesn't have to be stressful and overly demanding if both partners are fully invested in it to the point that they can already see their future together as a couple.

The moment you start taking dating seriously, that's the moment you'll probably start dating the right persons who are interested in taking the relationship to the permanent site (marriage).

When you date for fun, you almost are certain that the relationship wouldn't end where you both are expecting and that is "in  marriage". On this episode we will be looking at how you can date with the intentio. Of marriage.

Dating is a serious business, just like any other business out there and, as such, should be taken seriously and done intentionally with the purpose of marriage at heart. On today's episode, we'll be seeing how one can practically date to get to the permanent site,which is marriage.

Dating doesn't have to be boring, doesn't have to be filled with so much seriousness but ultimately has to be done purposefully. And on today's series opener and the entire November, we will be teaching on how singles can date purposefully with marriage intentions.

The needs of every human being is endless but for the purpose of this series, we've narrowed it down to a select few that are important to the success of every relationship and marriage.

The needs of men and women are inexhaustible and that is why on today's episode,we will be adding other aspects of the needs of both men and women. The needs of men and women are inexhaustible and that is why on today's episode,we will be adding other aspects of the needs of both men and women.

Everyone has needs in life to function better and it's no different when it comes to relationship, everyone who enter into relationships has his or her needs that they need met, so in today's episodes we'll be looking at some more needs.

Relationship / Marriage will be easily successful when the man/woman prioritises their needs rather than their wants in the relationship. On this series we'll be looking at those needs as it relates to both genders in a relationship.

The fact that they are not clearly spelt out doesn't mean that they aren't there, bounderies are an important part of every relationship and marriage because without bounderies there'll be lack of order and proper behaviour in Relationships and marriages.

Relationships is beautiful when both partners have mutual respect for eachother and also especially when both partners respect the boundaries  in the relationship.

Bounderies in anything are not there  to fully restrict but merely there to serve as a bit of control to the level of acess  one enjoys in a thing and in this aspect, in the relationship.

Everything in life must have a limit/bounderies to it in order to avoid abuse, just like drugs, if you don't have a limit to how you take them, it may harm your organs and in this case your relationship is no different as well.

Forgiveness also shows maturity whenever a person is willing to Forgive an offender despite being severely hurt by them.

Forgiving someone who has hurt you is never easy but choosing to forgive instead of punishing your offender shows true strength even in the face of deep hurt  from your partner/spouse.

Being the first to forgive  everytime isn't  a sign weakness rather it is a sign of commitment, commitment to the wellbeing of the relationship no matter how much hurt you partner has put you through.

Forgiveness is not a request but a command from God, when you begin to view Forgiveness ftom God's lens then you can never go wrong because there's no love without Forgiveness.

Sexual Abuse isn't  something to take lightly and as such those  who have been through it should be given the proper care to be able to heal properly and completely.

Sexual Abuse is one of the most difficult  form of abuse to go through and come out without scars or serious trauma but  with this series we'll  be looking at various ways to deal with sexual abuse from its root.