Become Limitless, Towards Greatness: Explore the Possibilities of Your Limitless Potential

The world is already filled with average people, and they will try to condition you to do the same as everyone else. People don’t want to see you become an exceptional person because that would make them feel uncomfortable.  You will lose the game called life if you play average anyways. So why not try harder and become an exceptional instead of being average.  Once you are being average in one ar...

Oftentimes we do many nice things for others because we want something in return such as money, love, favor, fame, promotion, etc. There is nothing wrong with pleasing others as long as that’s just who we are. However, if we please others because we attach to an outcome, we often behave “too nice” to others, which in turn causes ourselves to act differently.  When you act not according to who we t...

Let go is hard, but STARTING OVER is even harder. Many people when they decide to let go, they start to resent the past and regret their past decisions. Instead of beginning a new journey, they decide to give up. It takes great courage to start again!  Don’t be afraid to start over. This time you’re not starting from scratch. You’re starting from experience. This time you are trying again with mor...

Let go is 2 simple words, but never simple to apply it.  Three main reasons WHY we experience difficulty to let go: We believe that the past is better than the present or future. We would rather living in the past vs present. We use the past to justify a current condition and can’t figure out how to let go.  False self-limiting belief. We don’t trust our ability. We are afraid that you will not fi...

3 main reasons why you need to learn not to give a fuck: Take control back to yourself. You will no longer depend on the outcome and therefore, nothing will hold you back from doing what you want. Stay focused. When we give too much damn about everything, we will easily get distracted and therefore, we will not be able to do anything well. However, when we stay focused, we will easily accomplish o...

It’s easy for everyone to work on something when you are excited or motivated. But life is not always exciting all the time. Many times when we just start something new, we are all motivated and excited. But as time goes on, we lose interest because it becomes boring, tasks that initially felt exciting, now become more of a burden… Remember success in anything must take time and consistent effort....

“The tiny seed knew that in order to grow, it needed to be dropped in dirt, covered with darkness, and struggle to reach light.”  We have to go through failure, darkness, and obstacles in order for us to realize what is important, what matters and most important, to appreciate good times. Without struggle and bad times, we will never understand good times. No matter how much you complain, the prob...

Success really is a marathon that requires daily action. Thinking that you will just get directly to success without failure is nonsense and bullshit.  There are no shortcuts to any place worth going - Beverly Sills The reality is you will surely make mistakes, risk failure, experience rejection, look humiliated. It’s not to discourage you, but to prepare you to face challenges like a warrior.  An...

Sometimes when we focus too much on how fast we can accomplish our goals, we forget how important it is to appreciate and enjoy things in the process. We become impatient, bitter and unhappy because a result doesn’t come fast enough. We are so attached to an outcome that we are only happy when we achieve our goals. We set expectations depending on a result, instead of a growing process.  Remember...

What do you really want? Fancy cars, big houses, a lot of money? These material things may bring you a short term happiness, but it will never fulfill you long term. The thing that really makes you happy often times it is something that gives you a sense of PURPOSE. We have to know what we are here for, and what we can do to improve others' lives. The only thing that can bring meaningful to your l...

To focus on a few things in your life. To enjoy what really matters  Why are many people not happy? They want so many things in their life. Therefore, the secret to happiness is to enjoy less. Less is really more. It is not about seeking more, but it’s about the art of enjoying less.  There is nothing wrong with wanting more, but if you let the desire of wanting more affect your overall happiness,...

Face your fears and take as many shots as you can, take many chances. Say yes to whatever that you are afraid of. You can only grow if you face your fears. Yes you will fail a lot, yes you will miss a lot of shots, but you will also have more chances of success. You will encounter many ‘no’ in your life, but the final ‘YES’ will make all the ‘NO’ worthy to endure. The main reason that you say no t...

It’s easier to do nothing and tell yourself that it will never work out than to attempt something and find out. Have you ever been in a situation where you see an attractive girl from a distance but not making an attempt to approach her because of fear of rejection? Have you ever wanted to ask for a raise but ended up not doing it due to fear of failure? Our brain is really powerful. It could work...

When you experience a tough day, you need to remind yourself that awesome days will come soon.  The reality is some days are tough and some days are awesome. We have to experience sadness, difficulty, challenges in order to understand or to value all good days. Because without a tough day, we would totally take a good day for granted. Understanding this concept will help you have an open mind and...

Careless about the outcome. Focus on living to your true authentic self. Say and do things that please yourself instead of others. The fact is people will judge or criticize you anyways no matter what your intentions are. If your action is mainly focusing on winning over others so that they will like you more, you will often end up disappointed because you care too much or at least more than other...

Being single is a tough experience that everyone will experience at some points or even many stages in their lives. I know that we all desire to be with someone we love, to share experiences, adventures together, to hangout at family gatherings, family holidays, to have someone to share time with on Friday or Saturday nights.  We don’t like feeling alone on the weekend. When we see our friends, pe...

There's a difference between interest and commitment. When you’re interested in doing something, you do it only when circumstances permit. When you’re committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results - Art Turock The only way to make a commitment long lasting is to choose to do what you are naturally passionate about. That’s way you will most likely keep going, keep trying when things g...

Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage - Dale Carnegie Becoming fearless doesn’t mean you don’t have fear. It means that your desire for success is greater than your fear.  The only way to become fearless is to take consistent actions towards your goals and dreams.  Most importantly, you must discipline yourself to take action even when you don’t feel like it because...

Belief. What a simple word that you hear repeatedly so many times in your life, but we know how much power this word contains. People often say that if you just have a strong belief, we could accomplish anything you want. They say everything starts with belief first, but that’s not the whole story. It must follow up with something else…   Triangle Formula: BELIEF - ACTION - RESULT

Don’t wait for all external factors to give you a reason to do what you want. Don’t wait for the right time. Stop waiting for tomorrow. We only have that many tomorrows, and one day there is no more tomorrow. Don’t wait for the right feelings. Your feelings are always changing and you can’t wait until you are happy to take action. Don’t wait until you reach that goal. It may be awhile until you co...

"Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and think of what could go right." When we decide to do something, our brain has a tendency to focus on what could go wrong rather than what could go right. It’s like we would rather focus on possibilities of 10% things go wrong than possibilities of 90% things go right. Once we are aware of this, we can consciously focus on potential gains instead of pote...

You don’t need it all figured out. The more you think you do. The more you’ll procrastinate and fear moving forward. Have courage and start now. Even if you start small.  The more we know, the more we analyze and eventually we end up making excuses.

By leaving tasks or work for tomorrow, it won’t reduce the amount of work that you have to complete. The steps that you have to take are still there waiting for you. The only thing that gets shorter is your LIFE!

When you stop worrying about “how” and focus on “why” you’ll realize that this new beginning isn’t quite so scary When you trust in yourself, you’ll find the courage to start over.

If you wait until everything is certain, you may find you’ve waited too long.  You don’t have to do anything perfectly. You just have to try.