Be Love. Do Good. with Kristi Hayes

If you are a parent, you know helping our kids navigate friendships is a big part of parenting. That’s why today I wanted to bring on my friend and producer Jeanette Tapley to give us all the advice on helping our kids make and become good friends.       We talk about everything from drama to boundaries; it all makes this show.  Can we pick our kids' friends? How do we foster good friendships for...

Wanna raise grateful kids? Here are a few tips to help keep gratitude at the forefront in your family.   We all need a little extra dose of gratitude this year and since November is the month of being thankful, I thought this would be the perfect time to make sure we did a few things as a family that kept gratitude front and center.    Join us on our grateful challenge this month!   Listen to this...

Today we have the definition of Be Love. do good on our podcast, our guest Carlos Whittaker. You may have read Carlos’ books , or maybe you have seen his good deeds on Good Morning America, the Nick Cannon Show, or anywhere they have gone viral, like raising a tip for Tonee the Piano man, or helping a woman get a service dog, or helping teens in Brooklyn.    Carlos sees people, like really sees pe...

The relatable and hilarious Jami Nato is sharing making intentional parenting simple. I love how she gives us permission to not do all the things. Just one thing at a time when it comes to parenting, and it starts with us! Jami is the best at sharing ideas that all of us can do! Jami is a blogger, amazing mother, speaker, and one of my favorite parent Instagram influencers. Today she talks about s...

Today I am in the podcast closet alone, talking about something that inspires me. When my kids were little my husband traveled during the week. I was exhausted and needed my kids to chip in and help make their lunches, lay out their clothes, small things that made a big difference; things that helped me out.    What I found is that by helping my kids learn to be responsible for their own things, c...

Today I am interviewing Sally Clarkson, author of multiple parenting books, speaker, blogger, mother to 4 grown amazing children. Sally is the mentor everyone wants to have coffee with. Everyone wants Sally on speed dial when a problem arises in parenting. Sally is a gentle reminder that you are the perfect parent for your kids.    Today we talk about her new book Help, I am drowning, Weathering t...

This week I have the powerhouse Ashley Abercrombie author of    Love is the Resistance: Learn to Disagree, Resolve the Conflicts You’ve Been Avoiding and Create Real Change , and we are talking about the last phrase of our napkin note: LOVING OTHERS, not the people who are easy to love, but the ones we have a hard time loving. You know who they are. And before you roll your eyes at me and think- b...

You probably know now, if you listened to our latest episodes , that a simple lunchbox note changed our lives.  Today I am talking about the second phrase on that note “Protect the Weak” - what that means to us, how we live that out, and how as families we can do this together.    We all want our kids to have open hearts, empathy, and truly SEE others, but we have to teach them to be aware. This p...

Today we are interviewing the generous and kind Dave Hollis, who also happens to be a NYT best selling author, host of the popular Rise Together podcast, keynote speaker, life and business coach and author of the new book Built for Courage.    Dave was our very first guest, and now he is in on our 100th episode.  As parents we desire to help our kids be strong in who God has made them; to be confi...

We are BACK, and we have missed you so much!   In this episode you will hear: Why we took a little break  The BIG NEWS we have been working on for the past few months What you can expect from the new and improved podcast and why in the world you would want to listen!    And if you are new to our community we also share how our business , podcast, and children’s book were inspired by a simple lunch...

Today I am interviewing Andy Stephenson, my brother! He is an author, family therapist, and Northview Campus Pastor.  Along with that, he is a loving husband, father, brother, and son.   Andy and I share how we have stayed close as siblings, even while being 11 years apart in age. Not only have we lived out these techniques, but we are seeing them work with our children and families as well!     I...

Today I am interviewing Justin Bane who is featured on the new Magnolia Network show the Fieldhouse and the owner of the Fieldhouse Gym.   Justin shares his story of growing up in a small town, overcoming adversities, dreaming big dreams, and how his passion for people rules his day.    I promise in this episode you will be inspired to love others well, be courageous to overcome obstacles, and mot...

This week Kristi is recapping her favorite lessons and concepts she will be implementing in her own marriage from her marriage series these last four weeks! Kristi has been married for 19 years, and found many takeaways from this series. Some of her favorite concepts she has implemented in her marriage already are: radical generosity, embracing the differences between her and her spouse, and not t...

As we wrap up our marriage series I am interviewing Nate and Kaley Klemp, authors of The 80/80 Marriage . Nate is an author, philosopher, life coach, cofounder of LifeXT, mindfulness junky, and an anthropologist of modern marriage. Kaley is a YPO-certified facilitator, executive coach, and guide for executive teams in communication, strategic planning, and conflict resolution. They have been marri...

As we continue our marriage series I am interviewing Toni Nieuwhof, author of Before You Split: Find What You Really Want For the Future of Your Marriage. Toni Nieuwhof is a family law mediator, former divorce attorney, author, speaker and co-host of the Smart Family Podcast. She has been married to Carey Nieuwhof for over 30 years.  Toni tells us how she went from unhappy marriage to thriving mar...

This week we are continuing our series on BE. LOVE in your marriages with Dr. Kelly Flanagan. Dr. Kelly Flanagan is a psychologist, author, consultant, and speaker who enjoys walking with people through the three essentials of a truly satisfying life: worthiness, belonging, and purpose. His blog writings have been featured in Reader’s Digest, The Huffington Post, The 5 Love Languages, and the TODA...

This week we are starting our series on BE. LOVE in your marriages.  This week we have the opportunity to bring back  Dr. Kelly Flanagan who is answering all of our marriage questions.  Dr. Kelly Flanagan is a psychologist, author, consultant, and speaker who enjoys walking with people through the three essentials of a truly satisfying life: worthiness, belonging, and purpose. His blog writings ha...

Have you ever wanted to create a mission for your life but didn’t know where to start? This is the podcast for you.   We are finishing up our RECOVER and REPLENISH series with an episode on creating our core values and mission statement. This is the how-tos! Identifying core values and mission for your life helps you say yes to the right things. It helps you decide what to prioritize and what real...

Today is episode 3 of 4 of our series RECOVER and REPLENISH with my friend Jeremy Bedenbaugh, founder of Recreate-Solutions. We talk about knowing yourself and why it is so important to know who we are and why we act the way we do?   How do we distinguish between our false self and our true self? What happens when we figure out who we are? Why it is important to always be learning and transforming...

This week we are continuing our series on Recover and Replenish for 2021.  I have Jeremy Bedenbaugh, founder of Recreate Solutions with me again to talk this week about building a resilient mind.    Last week we talked about the emotions we felt from maybe the losses or disappointments of 2020, and that it's ok to recognize those emotions and sit in them, write them out, but we don’t want to just...

 How to Recover from 2020 so we can move into the new year with purpose 4 part series (Recovery and Replenish for 2021)   We are so happy to be back with our new series called RECOVER and REPLENISH.    We wanted to make sure BEFORE we got into goals or intentions for 2021, we looked at last year, took time to review and also recover. This month will feel a little like a master class, with question...

This is a must listen before you get with your people for the holidays. Many of our families and friends are at odds with how to talk to each other about politics, religion; things that can pull us apart. Our guest today, Sarah Anderson, grew up in a family of politics and she wrote this helpful book,  The Space Between Us: How Jesus Teaches Us to Live Together When Politics and Religion Pull Us A...

This week we are continuing our Love Everyone series with Dr. Kelly Flanagan, psychologist and author of the book Loveable: Embracing What is Truest About You, So You Can Embrace Life.    Dr. Flanagan is a clinical psychologist and father known to millions for the letters he writes to his children and shares on his blog. Loveable is written to the little one in each of us, who is all too ready to...

This week we are interviewing Kristin Andrus. She is a mother of 6 and a social media presence who helps families serve and love others. She talks to us about how to be a family whose DNA it is to serve the community. She gives us very practical ways to serve in this season. We talk about why parents are so important to foster loving and serving others in their children at a young age.    You are...

Today we are kicking off our series Love Everyone. We all say we want to love everyone, but do we actually do it. Today’s guest Adam Weber inspires us every day to ask how we can go out of our way to just love one person today. It’s that simple intention that has changed his life.    Through a deep time of pain, when he didn’t want to love again, he started to think of people who loved him when he...